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We need to normalize getting the FUCK. Too many people I know who deadass be telling me terrible shit their partner did or said but they'd rather vent than have an actual backup plan or solutions to put themselves first.

@C_Ikiara if that were the case, he wouldn't be trying so hard to make it work now

@heronlymuse You made him fall out of love

when you realize your boyfriend actually hates you.

@heronlymuse He doesn’t hate her. He’s just trying to make her feel small because he’s insecure and has a little dick.

@OnlyEllaru sometimes this is what we're taught love is from our childhood traumas

@heronlymuse Why stay?

@ChikaGabriel11 i wish more young girls knew this. you don't have to stay anywhere. go where you're loved, respected, valued,

@heronlymuse You don’t have to be there Go to where you’re valued

@kyenyreexxx he won't leave bc he loves the control, he's loves using people as punching bags... it's sick

@heronlymuse He won’t leave tho 😭

@jus_ariii926 no it's actually scary af to be in a situation like this and not really understand it till you're on the outside.. like you stood down and loved a man that hated your guts.

@heronlymuse This what I be afraid of thinking it was love the whole time.

@BigBankGank that's life.

@heronlymuse THATS STUPID

when he's finally made you fall out of love with him

@manmythlgndd fighting and trying to make it work is now all of a sudden a "deranged demon" 😂

@heronlymuse Stop being a fucking deranged demon and he wont hate you

@sevncyns looking back and realizing you thought it was love is the most insane part of it all 😩

@heronlymuse this was my life at a point omg

@c_lene97 this is usually months after trying to make it work, doing the emotional lifting on both ends, etc!! women don't just fall out of love for no reason

@heronlymuse Mind you, this is probably after telling him how you felt and what the problem was and he didn’t listen

@Liberty8577 doing all of that when you could've prevented it by showing up, caring, doing the little things, etc.

@heronlymuse If I'm a guy and I found out that she has fallen out of love, then trust me you'll never see me again

@ChikaGabriel11 this part!!! we fight like hell to make it work but once you run us dry, there's no coming back, there's no fixing, there's nothing

@heronlymuse Ladies are slow to quitting a relationship but when we finally do, we don’t go back

@BigBankGank we tend to emotionally withdraw first before we go.

@heronlymuse JUST LEAVE THEN BITCH YOURE WASTING MY TIME I HATE BITCHES LIKE THIS BE THE FUCK GONE

@pizzarespecter or women always realize too fucking late what they had

@heronlymuse Women are self destructive

@that_girlbri__ lol i think that truthfully says a lot fr

@heronlymuse See how all the women in the comments are talking about enduring and finally losing the loving and the men are just assuming she is cheating?🤦🏾‍♀️

@unabashedlyRED imagine trying like this after spending months and years begging for it, there's someone out there who's going to get it right the first time

@heronlymuse If he's trying like this? Nah it's on you.

@_africa_1 a man that didn't take me serious when i was there is going to be the same guy i wish for??? no thank you.

@heronlymuse Same guy you'll be wishing for when you hit 35 and your DM's dry up.

@traappordie just be having the ick now and don't care anymore 😭

@heronlymuse Crazy it be like dat 🤣🤣🤣🤣