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Warning signs that you may be with a manipulator.

How is eating pussy submissive but getting your dick sucked dominant? The person sucking your dick can bite it off at any time, they are in control, you're at their mercy. The person giving head is clearly the one in control!

@jasonlo1 couldn’t say NO too. Chill, just trynna pull your leg. Whichever that is.

Dah lama aku tak (merepek) macam ni. Last time was in 2011/2012.

#NewProfilePic new month new pic

First live session, not work-related. Beats by none other than the woman, the myth, the legend @Kabukii_Beats 🎧

Feel the magic, hear the roar! Artwork by @vincenttrinidadart on Instagram. First half by Punk Rock Factory, second half by Jbenlad.

‘Catana’ Artwork by Vincent Trinidad @vincenttrinidadart on Instagram

@kidxblunt Since 2021 with this kitteh on 2 different phones

Oversharing as a trauma response is very common among survivors of narcissistic abuse — especially for those who were the scapegoat or subject to constant emotional invalidation, gaslighting, or character assassination. This is a trauma-born strategy for self-protection, especially when you've been falsely labeled as “the bad one,” or “the manipulator.” Often stemming from an internalized belief that you're inherently suspect or guilty. Transparency became a form of armor: -"If I’m fully open, no one can accuse me of secret motives." -“If I tell them everything, I won’t be misunderstood." -“If I explain myself thoroughly, I won’t be scapegoated again." The intent is noble — you wanted honesty, clarity, fairness. But the tragic part? Narcissistic people weaponize transparency. They: -Use your openness to control or take advantage of you -Pretend you’re “confessing” to wrongdoing -Store your truths and vulnerabilities to later shame or punish you So your transparency, instead of protecting you, often reinforces the abuse. 🧵

@ottel Welcome back! Selamat hari raya, ottel!

Rumah ni dari melepak hujung minggu masa zaman sekolah sampai la salah satu member dah ada anak 5.

Love effort partnership teaches you what you want is someone that carries the mental load, who reminds you they're not going anywhere, and who reassures you in moments you're insecure that they love you exactly as you are.

You initiated and pushed for difficult conversations. You tried to repair. You showed up over and over again and watched someone go through the motions.

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

Ghosting your gf/bf after a conflict when they’re trying to talk things out is emotional abuse. Silence leaves people stuck in uncertainty, and uncertainty creates abandonment anxiety. It’s signs of immaturity. It shows a lack of respect, poor communication, and a disregard for the other person’s feelings. When someone disappears instead of being honest, they’re not protecting their peace, they’re avoiding accountability. Don’t date these people.. 

@svrxhm Dont mind them babe

Holy shit. Sukati la aku nak maksiat dengan siapa pun. Takda kena mengena dengan hidup kau sis

In Japan🇯🇵, a married couple was trying to put their baby and cat👶🏻😺 to sleep late at night, and it was captured on camera. They added this note for the cat: 'he doesn't want to feel left out.' 😂♥️

This therapist reveals the phase where saving relationship becomes hardest.💔📌

& it’s not just llm’s telling you. you are in a reinforcement loop when you’re on the internet & you don’t even realize it.