You either deal with your pain or the pain deals with you and the people closest to you. Unprocessed pain doesn't just disappear, it spills into how you treat others.
It is a beautiful thing to discover that you matter in rooms you didn't think you had entered, being seen by those you thought you were invisible to, and existing in the hearts of people you didn't even know were watching. A quiet kind of grace.
I don't have trust issues, it's the 'I know how it ends' issue I'm worried about. Because you can trust somebody, but you just know things won't go your way.
People will push you to the edge, and when you remain calm, they try to recruit other people to join them by saying you're the problem because you refuse to give them the reaction they wanted, and it's beginning to make them look stupid.
I would blame the man who complains about what he chased, but I won't blame the woman who is simply speaking on what she accepted. Because men have a variety of choices but women's choices are limited.
You could be waiting for the sweet version of your partner you once knew to return, only to wake up one day realizing the 'sweetness' you're starving for is being served at someone else's table by your partner.
I thought dating financially stable ladies is safer. This one has told me she needs 250k urgently. I have to tell her even if she wants it "Slowly" it cannot be found.
Women are very sensible to lies, don't mistake her silence for ignorance. She’s likely just auditing the benefits before she decides if the lie is worth the price. Because to some, a profitable lie is more useful than an inconvenient truth.