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As a single woman who's dating in 2024, it's so important to remind yourself that you deserve to be someone's first choice. You're not a backup plan. You're worthy of undivided attention, consistent effort, and chivalrous actions. Always remember your worth!

Esther didn’t chase a crown. She surrendered to the process. She prepared in private. She obeyed even when it was uncomfortable. And God positioned her at the right time. Not just as a queen… but as a woman chosen for purpose. 🤍

This is the kind of love I crave… Patient. Kind. Real ❤️ — 1 Corinthians 13:4

So I’ll keep trusting God with my heart🤍 and believing that one day… I’ll experience the kind of love I desire & deserve.

And I refuse to settle just to say I have someone or even go before God like I’ve done before. I can’t keep delaying my blessing because of my disobedience.

Watching others experience the very thing I’ve been praying for but I remind myself…Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it won’t.

Sometimes I sit with that reality longer than I want to because if I’m honest…it can feel a little lonely here.

I have so much love to give to somebody’s son…and I can’t see God giving me this kind of love just for it to sit unexpressed.

And that’s a hard truth to sit with at this stage in my life because I know what I deserve now.

I’ve experienced: attachment confusion and toxicity… but not real, healthy love

I crave healthy love… ❤️ Now that I’ve healed, I can admit I’ve never experienced it.🥹

Let’s get real… I want to share something in transparency, that I can finally admit without shame🤍🥺

God, cover my future husband this summer. Protect his mind, heart, & steps. Keep him focused, disciplined, & aligned with you. Remove distractions that aren’t meant for him. Prepare him to lead, love, & pour into me the right way. Prepare me to receive him with a healed heart❤️

So when we meet… it won’t be confusion, games, or inconsistency. It will be peace, clarity, and answered prayers.

He’s healing, aligning, and teaching us how to love the right way.

Because next summer? You outside with ME 🤭🤍 but in the meantime…God is preparing us both.

So go ahead…enjoy your single life. Travel. Hang with your boys. Focus on you.

Alright future husband… for the last 50-11 time, this is our LAST summer being single 😂

A man who doesn’t let you live in survival mode…he creates safety, he gives you peace, not pressure HALLELUJAH 🙌🏽

A man who leads properly & allow you to relax in your femininity HALLELUJAH 🙌🏽

A man who takes accountability HALLELUJAH 🙌🏽