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@Jesurukky1 Cheating is not a crime, she can be a bad wife and an excellent mother
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Olorogun Jesurukevwe Emmy, the Urukpe of Agbarho
The mother cannot be trusted with the child. What if she wants to go for her totopreneurship profession, who will she leave the child for?
Solace@lifeinsolace

Choices have consequences, and divorce is no exception. A few days ago, you were gloating because she had returned to her "father’s house," but you completely forgot about your son. You are celebrating her return to Nigeria, yet you have completely overlooked your son. Custody, child support and access are usually decided upon divorce so I wonder why this is a problem now. The reality is simple: you are in the UK, and she is in Nigeria. Because she poses absolutely no threat to the child, he will remain in with her in Nigeria. Your role now is to visit them in Nigeria and provide child support. It is that simple. Do you really intend to tear a child away from his mother? Are you expecting us to back your plan to bring him to the UK, leaving his mother isolated in Nigeria? To be frank, that is cruel, and it is a battle you will not win. At such a tender age, your son needs his mother. Once he is grown, he can visit you in the UK. Moreover, when he secures his British citizenship, he may one day be the reason his mother can join him there. While it is natural to want to fight, we must accept that some battles are meant to be lost, not because we are weak, but because they should never have been fought in the first place. If you truly care about your son, do not wage a war that will traumatize him. Pay your child support peacefully, visit him in Nigeria since you don't want her in the UK, and abandon any thoughts of abduction. If she was in the UK, you could have been seeing your son and taking him to play football as you wish, but choices have consequences 🤷🏻‍♀️ When the time comes, you will see that peace was the best choice for everyone.

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inter-stellar@interst24274932·
Even in Nigeria, no court will give the man custody of the child if the mother is alive and stable, ask Davido
Solace@lifeinsolace

Choices have consequences, and divorce is no exception. A few days ago, you were gloating because she had returned to her "father’s house," but you completely forgot about your son. You are celebrating her return to Nigeria, yet you have completely overlooked your son. Custody, child support and access are usually decided upon divorce so I wonder why this is a problem now. The reality is simple: you are in the UK, and she is in Nigeria. Because she poses absolutely no threat to the child, he will remain in with her in Nigeria. Your role now is to visit them in Nigeria and provide child support. It is that simple. Do you really intend to tear a child away from his mother? Are you expecting us to back your plan to bring him to the UK, leaving his mother isolated in Nigeria? To be frank, that is cruel, and it is a battle you will not win. At such a tender age, your son needs his mother. Once he is grown, he can visit you in the UK. Moreover, when he secures his British citizenship, he may one day be the reason his mother can join him there. While it is natural to want to fight, we must accept that some battles are meant to be lost, not because we are weak, but because they should never have been fought in the first place. If you truly care about your son, do not wage a war that will traumatize him. Pay your child support peacefully, visit him in Nigeria since you don't want her in the UK, and abandon any thoughts of abduction. If she was in the UK, you could have been seeing your son and taking him to play football as you wish, but choices have consequences 🤷🏻‍♀️ When the time comes, you will see that peace was the best choice for everyone.

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You should have thought about your son instead of stop paying her fees and sending her out of UK She might be a bad wife but the law but UK and Nigeria will say the child will remain with the mother. Pele
UGO 🇬🇧@heismric

For the past week your father has been harassing my family and showing up at my Lagos residence unannounced, with threats about taking my away son, again. Now I get a call from the Lagos State Ministry of Justice Public defender, social services department that you filled, yet another false petition accusing my sister of forcefully taking my son from you, when in fact you left him on his sick bed unattended with no adult supervision, because “you went to the market” but filled such petition, even tho you know he was taken to our family hospital, treated and has been spending time with me? Just like you falsely accused my sister in London to the UK’s social services of trying to take our son from you too? Which was again disproved. You asked to spend time with him a few days to his birthday today at 9am on WhatsApp. I responded by 2pm today that he can be dropped off to you tomorrow if you can confirm if that works. But you were at the Lagos state ministry by 4pm filling a false petition, damm! My boy is not even officially British yet, I still have to give that to him in a few months, yet your family keeps trying to take advantage of him, first to emotionally blackmail me into giving in, then for your visa sake, and even now, wants to try and use him again, and again, and again! It’s okay for you to enjoy self-destruction, but dragging my boy to forcefully remain with you in Lagos and forfeit his life in the Uk and dual citizenship is a deep level of reckless wickedness for a child you claim to love, yet steady putting in harms way.

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AFTER HOW MANY CHILDREN@tomisin_ms·
What I understand so far… Ugo comes across as very egoistic. Built an app inspired by her motherhood, then promoted it as “I built it for her” when it wasn’t really for her. Bought a car on finance for her, posted it online for gratification, then stopped paying until it got repossessed. Used her position as his dependent as a bargaining chip. She walked away, he initiated the divorce. She allegedly started seeing someone while they were separated, and he ran to Twitter to accuse her of cheating.
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Nurse Cherish
Nurse Cherish@AdaErema·
Nurses don't flex enough, sha. Visa applied for and sponsored by employers, flight paid, airport to hotel pick up, paid training before officially resuming work, and accommodation paid for months. We don't even call ourselves expats, but we are the real definition of the Nigerian expatriate.
UGO 🇬🇧@heismric

I’m an exceptional global UK talent. That’s equivalent to expatriates in NG. I visited my school for MA enrolment and the enrolment officer said “you’re on a talent visa not student? Wow, we are honoured to have you in our country.” Nothing about me is average by God’s grace.

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ChukwuNonso✍️@Mazi_Chinonso1·
Nigerian man, records the moment him and an American senior citizen has a little misunderstanding and the old man called a cops on him thinking he was an illegal immigrant
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News Central TV@NewsCentralTV·
"This same president protested when fuel was 141 naira, today, fuel is 1450 naira...I think at this rate, our current president needs to start protesting against himself..." - Serah Ibrahim.
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Peter Obi
Peter Obi@PeterObi·
Troubling Developments from the citadel of learning. The reason Universities are regarded as an ivory tower is because its seen as centres for pure, isolated intellectual thought. It's therefore worrisome when they are increasingly pressured to operate outside this norm. Today, I was scheduled to be at Obafemi Awolowo University at 9am prompt to deliver a keynote lecture, before proceeding to Ibadan for the opposition parties' political summit scheduled to commence at 12noon. The invitation was extended to me several months ago, and adequate preparations had been made. Regrettably, I received the news that the event would no longer be held in the University as planned. While such occurrences may be dismissed in isolation, it is important to state clearly that this has now happened more than ten times. This is no longer incidental; it points to a troubling pattern that should concern all well-meaning Nigerians. My alma mater, the University of Nigeria, Nsukka was not excluded. The family of one of the renowned UNN Vice Chancellor late Professor Frank Ndili had planned an annual lecture on his behalf and the inaugural lecture was to be delivered, but on the scheduled date it was cancelled by the University authority. These are not merely personal inconveniences; they raise deeper questions about the kind of environment we are nurturing in our country. Universities are meant to be centres of learning, open dialogue, and the free exchange of ideas. When platforms for constructive engagement are repeatedly constrained, it reflects a worrying shift away from these ideals. This concern becomes even more pronounced when viewed against my engagements across the world, where I have been privileged to speak and interact freely with students and scholars in respected institutions. In the past 24 months, I have delivered lectures in notable universities globally including Oxford University, Cambridge University, Harvard University, Yale University, Princeton University, Chicago University, University of Pennsylvania, Imperial College, to name a few. Those environments continue to demonstrate openness to dialogue, critical thinking, and shared learning, values that should equally define our own institutions. We must ask ourselves: what kind of nation are we building if spaces meant for intellectual engagement are gradually shrinking? A country’s progress is anchored on its ability to encourage knowledge, debate, and the contest of ideas, not restrict them. Nigeria must work towards becoming a place where ideas thrive, where knowledge is shared without fear, and where our institutions uphold the principles they were established to protect. A New Nigeria is POssible. -PO
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