Aidil A.

I’m sending my love to everyone who’s trying their best to deal with & heal from things they don’t discuss with anyone but is eating them up inside slowly. You are loved, remember that.

Normalizing staying quietly at home even on weekends. That’s enjoying life too. Sometimes it’s not just your body that needed rest, but your mental too. Avoiding meeting people once a while helps you in ways you don’t realize.

The greatest skill you can have in life is learning to stay in a good mood and not to respond to anything toxic even though there’s a hundred reasons not to.

My problem was I always wanted to take people with me to the top who didn’t even want to see me at the top.

Maybe living your best life just means that sometimes slowing down enough to see how good it already is.

I am always very intentional with the friends I make. I value real connection, honesty, and people who genuinely want to grow and see me win, not just be around for convenience. So not everyone gets access to my life, my peace and my energy.

I may be a loner but some of you hang out with people that talk shit on your back. Have some self respect.

We live relying on borrowed time, so choose people that choose you and let everyone else who’s not be.

Big part of who I am is who I am not anymore.

All you can say nowadays is okay and move on with your day. Life is more peaceful that way when you let loose.

When you reach a certain stage in life, chaos and disrespect just aren't something you entertain anymore. You’ll start craving calm mutual respect and people who move with the same kind of heart as you do.

The older I get the more I see why it's important to only keep people around who have same morals, manners and sense of consideration as you. It's not being picky, it's protecting your peace.

You become what you surround yourself with. Energy is contagious so choose carefully. Your environment will become you.

Still in my prayer but a different dua now

Most people will never live up to their potential not because they lack talent or opportunity, but because they settle for comfort, approval, or distraction rather than put in the hard work to grow. Pain, regret, and “what ifs” quietly pile up while life keeps moving.

It’s insane how many people these days are more insecure with their appearance but not with their character.

Everyone has the same 24hr and if you don’t even have time for yourself (1hr working out etc), you’re just giving bad excuses to yourself. Ive been doing this for a decade. The key here is to plan and structure your routine. And everything will be on autopilot.

Any opportunity to enjoy your life at the moment, take it. Do not postpone enjoyment. You might never be in the same circumstances to feel happy tomorrow.

One of the most painful experience someone can endure is grieving a person that is still alive.

If it was destined for you to go broke, you will be left with your behavior traits (protection, resourcefulness, and emotional maturity. Woman will be attracted to that. Your ability to provide safety, solve problems and remain calm under pressure mattered more than possessions.

If there's one thing I have learnt in life, is to avoid making huge life altering sacrifices for people who don’t care about you. They don’t deserve such loyalty and commitment. Your energy is precious. Protect is wisely.