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Je ne suis pas là pour plaire. Je suis là pour construire. Discipline. Vision. Contrôle. Si tu comprends ça, tu es au bon endroit.

@Amy_beke And if he doesn’t ? He’s still a man. Just one who’s still building. Stop turning timelines into moral standards.

A man should have a place of his own and a stable income before 30

@lukebelmar Tell that to the man who can’t feed his kids. Philosophy is a luxury. Money is a necessity. Don’t confuse the two.

money is not success money comes after success

@_sorrengailll Unpopular counter : both need each other and the generation that convinced itself otherwise is the loneliest in human history. Congratulations on winning an argument nobody asked for.

Unpopular opinion: men need women way more than women need men. Yes, I have time today

@NkanyeziKubheka Some do. But let’s not pretend the dynamic isn’t different. Loving a woman and accepting a ready-made family are two separate decisions. Both valid. Neither easy.

Men date women with kids & they love them. Don't believe the internet.

@YKoluwaseun9 Or she just made a choice and you benefited from it. The fact that you’re worried about the next man says more about your insecurity than her character.

If she make it easy for you to knack, she’ll make it easy for another guy. you’re not special.

@pallnandi And the problem is he’ll never say it out loud. Because the same woman who wants him to open up will lose respect the moment he does. So he stays quiet. And gets accused of being cold. That’s the trap.

You think he’s distant and ignoring you because he’s texting other women, but the truth? He’s grinding, struggling, and fighting just to keep his life together.

@AfiaDimple_ Or maybe some people just refuse to settle for company that costs them their peace. 3 years alone beats a lifetime with the wrong person.

I don’t think any normal person can be single for 3 years straight.

@leParrainRDC Je viens de réactiver mon compte. Retour direct et immédiat. @itstalla_

Jeudi fOllOw back’…🤝

@_falsi1ke Nobody is coming to save you. Not your family. Not your friends. Not God without your own effort. The moment I accepted that, I stopped waiting and started building.

Hit me with one harsh truth you've accepted so far as a human being.

@pallnandi Most men of this generation can’t hold a conversation, a job or a commitment. Maybe the women you’re attracting are a reflection of what you’re offering. Fix the mirror before blaming the image.

I feel bad for men of this generation. Most women today are either hOes, gold diggers, manipulators or single moms. Good single women are rare.

@hy_wemmy Some forgive. None forget. And the ones who stay usually spend the rest of the relationship punishing her for it anyway. Walking away is the more honest choice.

Do men forgive cheating??

@hy_wemmy Men know exactly what men are capable of. That’s not toxicity. That’s awareness.

There’s a reason fathers and brothers are so protective. Men don’t even trust men.

@thebigdammy Because in most of the world, leaving at 18 isn’t a rite of passage. It’s a Western concept sold as universal maturity. A man building from his parents’ house is still building. That’s what matters.

Why is a 30yrs old man still living with his parent?

But nobody talks about those who reach out and find nothing. La désolidarité augmente. En silence. The disconnection is growing. Quietly.

On normalise de plus en plus la solitude comme si c’était une force. We normalized loneliness like it’s a personality trait. Mais personne ne parle de ceux qui cherchent de l’aide et ne trouvent plus personne. 1/2 🔽

@IAmSteveHarvey …that most people are just performing a version of themselves they thought others wanted to see. And the saddest part — they forgot who they were before the performance started.

Finish this sentence: The older I get, the more I realize _______

@leilaaaaaac La mienne : je ne vis pas pour valider les choix des autres et je n’ai pas besoin qu’ils valident les miens. Chacun sait ce qui le rend heureux. Le problème c’est que la plupart des gens ne se sont jamais posé la question.

Quelle est votre opinion la plus impopulaire… mais que vous assumez à 100 % ?

@Mrbankstips It’s not even malice most of the time. They genuinely can’t see what you see. Their limit becomes your ceiling if you let them talk long enough. Protect the vision.

Stop telling broke people your plans. They’ll always find a reason it won’t work.

@Cobratate And the 2% that actually build something real are the ones the government regulates into the ground. The system isn’t broken. It’s working exactly as designed.

98% of companies do not make any money. They simply fraud and steal from the endless money hose of government

@Obacruze That’s not destiny. That’s what happens when you’ve been surviving so long you forgot what thriving feels like. It’s not fine. But it’s fixable.

Some of us can’t be genuinely happy. I think it’s destiny and that’s just fine. We are not sad, not just happy.