Àgbà John Doe (back up)
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Àgbà John Doe (back up)
@jon_d_doee
Man, Husband, Father, Uncle. C-in-C of Àgbàfians. We all know what we're doing. Reality-based. Send DMs for relationship, family, marriage or life in general.
Katılım Eylül 2022
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Bro, one thing you need to understand is that you’re holding onto the version of her you created in your mind, not the reality of what happened. Yes, she may have shown interest first, yes she may have been good to you at some point but that doesn’t change the fact that the relationship is no longer healthy, stable, or even possible.
You already know the genotype issue makes the future impossible. You already know trust is gone. You already know both of you were hiding things and emotionally drifting. So bringing up how she loved you or how she started the relationship doesn’t change anything. That’s just your heart trying to hold onto comfort because letting go is painful.
At this point, the healthiest thing you can do is accept that the chapter has ended. Appreciate the good moments if you want, but don’t use them as excuses to stay stuck. Move forward with clarity, not nostalgia.🙌🏻🫶🏻
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It's humbling to see that everyone screenshot under this post shows that my posts notifications are on.
I am still following back my main page mutuals.
Just doing it slowly because of X restrictions.
Thank you 🙏
Àgbà John Doe (back up)@jon_d_doee
If you're a mutual on the main page, please post screenshot evidence under this, I'll follow you back. AJD.
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@jon_d_doee It's how everyone sending a screenshot has all notifications on for you Agba.
Na why "them" dey cry be this, they can never.
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@jon_d_doee Agba, abeg as you don see the girl photo.
She fine?
I wan match all those chats to an image
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@jon_d_doee Nov 27 2017 was the day I found out. Months before then I usually have dreams of her cheating. I never suspected anything because she wasn't acting out of character. Her excuse was " you fuck me too hard". 😂 Women mad sha
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I caught her. Clear evidence messages, plans, everything.
I asked, Who is he?
She didn’t even flinch. Just looked at me and said,
Why are you going through my phone?
No apology. Nothing.
Then she added,
You weren’t giving me enough attention.
That’s when it hit me she didn’t just cheat… she blamed me for it.
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