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Ms. Brightside

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Had to think twice before tweeting that because if i thought 3 times i wouldn't have
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I kept rewarding systems that kept betraying me and look where we are, penniless, friendless, family members find me cute but worry deeply about my future, colleagues gave up on understanding me completely, old friends are too tired from rolling their eyes to have a reply
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I have forgiven literal crimes, 7 deadly sins type shit, but i have almost never been forgiven for simply telling the truth
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I fucked up and showed a human side to fellow humans who supposedly care about me, oh no... the truth... the truth is coming out,.. oh god
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Seriously not good people الله لا يحكم فيكم حدا
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I don't have any friends anymore, not in any real or consistent sense, it's so similar to when i was a kid, very freeing in a way
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There's so much to learn about people from small talk, the biggest insight is how pleasant they are, extremely unpleasant people avoid small talk completely, extremely pleasant people overindulge in it and never take the conversation anywhere more interesting, it's fun to observe
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You get info without putting yourself in any real rejection possibility, even if they completely ignore your comment you've lost nothing, if they reply with a simple "yeah" then they've acknowledged your existence and maybe they'd like it if you said something more insightful
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Yeah small talk is so useful at assessing if someone wants to talk to you or not without putting anything on the line, a simple "it's hotter today than it was yesterday" is such a dull statement but it gives the other person the chance to either reply or not with no pressure
Edward A. Perin - Psychologist@DoctorPerin

Small talk lover here: Small talk sets the tone for the interaction. Most communication is non-verbal, you see. What you say is nothing compared to how you say it. It’s a vehicle to transmit a vibe. Getting good at small talk is getting good at connecting to people.

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And there's nothing wrong with being a bright-eyed young woman, they're actually the best of the best, one of God's blessings and a reason to go on living, but if your movement or cause is reliant on them then there's something already fractured there, that cause will go nowhere
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I understand why people back down, there's real risk involved, i don't blame anyone for wanting peace and quiet, but we need to adress that actual calls for change aren't pleasant and they never happen at parties or film festivals or whatever, that's not a valid strategy
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It's always these bright-eyed young women who are enthusiastic about "fighting against the system" and happy about getting a lot of public attention and praise for it, completely unaware that they're being used to sustain the status quo, the same system they're supposedly against
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@iam_sqrs People will prefer to rest yeah, but it's insane to me that all people want to do is rest. A person's life is what they train themselves for, if they only want to rest they'll start slacking even in their jobs, and they'll get more tired every time they attempt to make effort etc
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في أتعس نوع اللي لاديني وبرضو وضعه كيميائيا خطير، أظن أكثر فئة معرضة انها تدمن مخدرات للأبد لأنه ما في أي رادع فكري، الله يعينهم. برأيي اكثر فئة بتستفيد من انهم يحسنوا صحتهم الجسدية ويلعبوا رياضة الخ لانهم ناس كثير "حسيين" وشعورهم الداخلي بعتمد على صحتهم الجسدية ومظهرهم الخارجي
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Ms. Brightside@jumdude·
سؤال "بتصلي؟" بالصحة النفسية مش لازم يكون أغرب من سؤال "عندك زوج/ة او حبيب/ة" او "هل مصاريك بتكفيك كل شهر"، كل العوامل هاي الها تأثير (بشكل مختلف أكيد) على نظرة الانسان لحاله ولحياته وللوجود ككل، وفي كثير ناس ما بصلوا ومبسوطين، وفي ناس ممكن فقدانهم للأمل بالآخرة هو أساس تعاستهم
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Ms. Brightside@jumdude·
بغض النظر انه الأسلوب سيء، بس هو صراحة سؤال مفيد، اللي بحس زي هيك وهو بصلي وضعه غير تماما عن واحد لاديني مثلا، اللي جد مآمن بالآخرة ولسا بسعى مشانها ومع هيك عنده هيك أفكار بكون جد وضعه كيميائيا خطير، بينما غير المؤمن ممكن يكون أساس المشكلة عنده نفسي وفكري، نقص في التطلع للمستقبل
Sufian@suufiaaan

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