The notion that a man will treat the woman he “truly wants” right has done so much damage to young women’s discernment. It’s never been about this dream girl. It’s always been about men’s lack of character. You understand this, the less you internalize how they view/treat you.
You tell somebody in real life that you don't think no human being on this planet should be homeless & they look at you like you got 3 heads.
No human being should be homeless or hungry.....those are basic human needs
I started telling people their strong feelings for me could be more creative than sexual & you know what. It’s been earth shattering for some. Not everyone you’re attracted to is supposed to be a lover or a conquest.