Ketelwa

Thissss every woman should try at least once every year 1. Take yourself to the cinema alone, buy popcorn, pick the seat you actually want. Laugh, cry if you need to, no one talking to you, just you and the movie. 2. Go to a cafe on a weekday, order a drink and one small pastry, sit by the window and keep your phone face down for a bit, watch people going to work, students rushing, cars passing. 3. Book a nice but affordable hotel in your city, pack a small overnight bag like you’re travelling, order room service or buy food on the way, take a long shower, wear the robe, lie on the bed and do nothing if you want, journal, watch a movie, sleep in clean sheets. 4. Take yourself on a Saturday breakfast, wake up early, shower, wear something cute, go somewhere that serves breakfast, sit there and order something nice, enjoy your meal, take some selfies. 5. Book a beauty appointment alone, get your nails done, your brows, wash and style your hair, don’t rush home, look at yourself properly before you leave.

Someone said “ the death of ego will set you free as a woman” and I agree. Ego is the part of you that says: “I must prove I’m enough.” Freedom is when you realize: “I don’t need to prove anything to be enough. Emotional freedom is necessary, you become less reactive, less defensive, and more grounded in who you are. The best thing you can do for yourself a woman is to become unbothered by unnecessary validation.

At this point he’s not your husband. You married a man child!

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Every single word!

Dear parents of toddlers between 2-5 years old....How u guyz are keeping them busy without giving Smartphone? Throw some Ideas plz.

There's thing where people cause you harm and feel entitled to your silence. They have more outrage about you speaking out on a nasty experience they put you and not what they did. No one owes you protection if you have not accorded them the same.

this mindset will ruin u. that part of her life is not your burden to carry, it's her job to fix her shit and you shouldn't feel sorry for the people who hurt you if you want to make it out of there with even the tiniest sliver of sanity

HR: We noticed you reported your s*xual assault to the police. Employee: Yeah. HR: That violates the NDA you signed. Employee: No… it violates federal law to put that in an NDA. HR: Excuse me? Employee: The 2022 “Speak Out Act.” NDAs don’t cover s*xual assault or harassment anymore.

the worst advice you can take is to “keep your relationship issues away from your friends” abusers love it when you don’t have a strong sense of sisterhood and they can get away with abusing you in private. tell your friends, tell them everything that makes you uncomfortable!!!!

When you finally look at them and feel nothing. No pain, no love, no bitterness, just nothing. Cheers to healing. 🥂❤️‍🩹🥀💐

I’ve always maintained that I could never make a man’s standards my own because their standards always come at the cost of others. A belief system directly opposed to mine, which is love.

Your word is your bond with me. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Yes, I will definitely look at you differently if you don’t keep your word. And if I can’t hold you to it for whatever reason then that also needs to be communicated.

If this doesn’t terrify you, I don’t know what will

Le dije a mi vecina que la independencia financiera no es opcional para una mujer, es su única protección. Y ella me preguntó: ¿protegerse de qué? Es una mujer cuyo esposo deja de darle dinero para alimentar a sus cuatro hijos cada vez que hay una discusión en casa. Muchas veces depende de los vecinos para darles de comer o va a la casa de su madre, que está en la calle de al lado, para llevar comida preparada, porque él incluso llega a cerrar la cocina. Esto es visto como algo completamente normal por ella y por otras mujeres que la rodean, quienes le aconsejan que siempre haga las paces con su esposo porque, según ellas, si obedece todas sus instrucciones, habrá paz y él siempre proveerá. Cuando la provisión está condicionada a la obediencia absoluta, pierdes tu libre albedrío como ser humano. El patriarcado ha normalizado tanto estas dinámicas que incluso otras mujeres las reproducen, enseñando que la supervivencia depende de la sumisión. Pero la realidad es otra: sin autonomía económica, no hay libertad real. Por eso la independencia financiera no es un lujo ni una aspiración individualista; es una herramienta básica de dignidad. Porque ninguna mujer debería tener que negociar comida, techo o bienestar a cambio de obedecer. ¿Cómo es tu vida das o tienes libertad en tu propio hogar?

Same, cause what are we gonna eat?

“Devinez qui est revenu me dm”, “il a guetté mes story”, “il m’a débloqué”, “J’ai toujours été sa priorité”, “ils reviennent toujours” , “j’aime quand il est nonchalant”, “j’aime qu’il me cri dessus quand je l’énerve”, “IL - IL - IL” Wake up STUPID