@BrotherrrSam @Msandi305 all of this is done by women as well btw😭
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@Msandi305 South African broers are actually almost as conservative and Americans
The slut shaming is rampant
The ostracising of people who don’t practice Christianity/Isintu
The homophobia
The shaming of men who don’t perform masculinity conventionally
The xenophobia
It’s bad
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South african men are some of the most liberal men on the planet, that notion is entirely false. I won't downplay the violence women face In this country because its horrendous but comparing them to that is just disingenuous.
NgwanyanaWaMotswana 🇵🇸@RefilweMoromane
South African men are like Afghan men. If it were up to you people, we’d be unseen, unheard and incapable of saying no.The entitlement is identical.
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@AnarcoFiend @RefilweMoromane all of us are like what? haii sies wami, please 😭sundifanisa namajita that do all that
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@RefilweMoromane They don't see it. I compared a Xhosa man (all of them are like this) to men in the middle east and this man claimed femicide, rape, domestic abuse, and child marriages aren't a thing in South Africa when I reminded him that he is praising people who enslaved his kind
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South African men are like Afghan men. If it were up to you people, we’d be unseen, unheard and incapable of saying no.The entitlement is identical.
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Men are finally becoming men, brings tears to my eyes.
Pontsho Malatji@pontsho_mp
Imagine leaving a first date and getting a performance review 😭
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@VickSlade @MenonlyMen007 @VERITY_HQ @D_arrogant_one @light_eric50006 AS A FUCKING ADULT, your pain shouldn’t be taken out on your kids. no child chooses to be born, everything he does is his responsibility. a child will fail at times, failure is a part of life but instead of trying to show him better, he just shows him he will be punished for it.
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@MenonlyMen007 @VERITY_HQ @D_arrogant_one @light_eric50006 Some bad grades u call it!!!!..
That man looks like a father who works hard to provide everything humanly possible for his kids to succeed..
There are many shades of disappointments, but it doesn't get much worse than this I promise you.. I feel his pain.
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1) Women don’t raise children , they don’t have the capacity to .
2) father figure is so important in the life of any child.
3) any man raised by a single mother, is a threat to the society.
Watch this video below and understand 👇
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@Adebicye @Jsephz2yo @VERITY_HQ there’s nothing confusing here. the father in the video is abusive because he’s acting out of anger, what does slapping and insulting him teach, does it make his results better? some people fail to regulate emotions and then call it discipline
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@Jsephz2yo @VERITY_HQ That’s the problem. A lot of you are confusing abuse with discipline. There are different levels of discipline. There are verbal ways and there are also physical ways discipline. But don’t confuse discipline with abuse.
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@VERITY_HQ @DARK_KN1HGT calling a child an idiot and stupid while smacking him is discipline? because he failed at school? what kind of parents are y’all gonna be? there’s no discipline in hitting a child out of anger
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@DARK_KN1HGT The father is right and can discipline his son however he feels and likes . He’s his investment
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@ape_apeee Yall don’t know this, but we just look at you like whores after sucking our dick and we no longer see you as fit mothers lol id rather head from a one night stand instead. Sorry babes
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7am sucking my man frustrations away before I go to work like a real bitch suppose too 😮💨🤣
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@MrSilentMoves @tanyajunghans you can’t make me see hear as my sister when she clearly isn’t, that’s not how attraction works😂she’s not my sister. all of thes points are dumb and the last one is just immature. so what he fucked your sister? your sister’s getting fucked regardless 😭
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@tanyajunghans 1. If we’re like brothers, you’re supposed to see my sister as your sister.
2. If you break up now I’m in an awkward position depending on whatever happened.
3. If we stop being boys, you’ve got ammo on me saying you sleep with my sister now I’m punching you up & she hates me.
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Hold on… 🤔
If he is a good man, why wouldn’t you want your sister to date him? You know him, and respect him (hence you’re friends) so would it not be better she date your friend than some other man you don’t know?
A.K.A@kayzywizzzy
The bro code is always supreme One of our guys slept with a bro’s sister, and we cut him off. It’s been over 8 years, saw him at the mall today and still kept the same energy. My sister is your sister, and your sister is my sister. Don’t ever find them attractive if we’re bros.
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@letmegetadolla7 @CalamitySkies you’re talking about YOUR sister, what if op’s sister is the around same age as the friend?
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@CalamitySkies Stranger? Why would i want my sister with my friends when she could be with someone around her age? Why would i want a friend with my sister when there’s PLENTY of grown women around? Why wouldn’t i be able to get to know and respect the bf she chooses?
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@lifelikedrone @Double_Oh_Panda @GeonnCannon @tanyajunghans nah, bro. i disagree with you. i shouldn’t have to discuss decisions about my sex life with another man. i don’t need permission to sleep with another consenting adult. this “bro code” shit is childish
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@Double_Oh_Panda @GeonnCannon @tanyajunghans Very few women can understand male friendships dynamics.
Even after an explanation, you still think this is about her. It isn't. It's about him disrespecting his friend, it just happened to be through his sister. There are ways to do things betw bros, he failed to do it
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Getting all the things your ex told you was unrealistic with your new partner >>>>
𝕊ડs𝕥ꪗꪶꪖr ✰@wtfisSss
doing all the things your ex begged for with your new partner >>>>
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@SondloMtutuzeli @kayzywizzzy @ta_marah7 but what if she wanted him to do those things, why is it assumed he did something wrong by sleeping with her as if she wouldn’t want that too?
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@khanyabbg @kayzywizzzy @ta_marah7 You do that shit to my family when I know your untoward tendencies, we are done hence this thread .
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The bro code is always supreme
One of our guys slept with a bro’s sister, and we cut him off. It’s been over 8 years, saw him at the mall today and still kept the same energy.
My sister is your sister, and your sister is my sister. Don’t ever find them attractive if we’re bros.
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@kayzywizzzy @ta_marah7 I understand the standards and the principle behind, it could have been a single mom of one of the friends or ex wife. The ones calling it just sex have no moral guard because sex is not a passive act but a fully planned interaction. He knew it was forbidden, but he went on .
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@kayzywizzzy @ta_marah7 If he can do that to your sister as a friend, imagine what he can do to your daughter. Such betrayal cannot be easily forgiven.
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@FarmerBlack03 @stonecoldalston @kayzywizzzy @ta_marah7 what if she’s the one who can’t be trusted near your friends? y’all realise a relationship takes 2 people right?😂
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@tittyslurp @VigourJrC @Samnacks_201 @kayzywizzzy niggas acting like dads to their siblings 😭how many niggas she gon’ fuck without the brother’s knowledge? and they think it’s not possible for their sister to wanna fuck their friend
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@VigourJrC @Samnacks_201 @kayzywizzzy Lmaoo What Mindset? If she wants it and its consensual and she’s okay with it being casual who is being hurt other than your weird azz ego thats policing how your sister wants to have fun. Sht lowkey incestual
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@BullzOverBearz @Samnacks_201 @kayzywizzzy he’s not her father tho, why do i need his permission to be with another grown adult? 😭
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@Samnacks_201 @kayzywizzzy There’s a way to do it… if you’re serious.
First off… you talk to your bro and ask his permission… while telling him you’re very serious and not just looking for a hit.
Second… you respect his wishes whatever the answer is.
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@Kwarmz0 @viktoornath @kayzywizzzy @Samnacks_201 how do you set a boundary with someone else’s body and autonomy tho, a boundary for a relationship you don’t even participate in?😭
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@viktoornath @kayzywizzzy @Samnacks_201 It’s more about crossing a boundary than the intention. And what guy is going to say hey can i sleep with ur sister 😭
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@kayzywizzzy @Samnacks_201 bro doesn’t know the meaning of “if”😂
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@Samnacks_201 You’re assuming it was “pure intentions,” but that’s exactly the line everyone uses after crossing a boundary they knew existed.
It’s not about ego, it’s about respect. Some lines don’t need to be explained if you’re really a bro, you just don’t cross them.
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