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My kind of loyalty was loyalty to one’s country, not to its institutions or its office-holders. #Godblessnigeria

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@ChelseaFC Do not fumble tomorrow

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The bottle job has started.

@FotoNugget The bottle job has started.

Ahh, God! My Arsenal. 💔😭

@Suleiman_Bichy @YusufAsunmogejo At 2 years old, children aren’t being stubborn on purpose they’re still developing understanding and self control. So the focus should be on gentle correction, redirection, and consistency, not punishment or complete neglect of behavior.

@YusufAsunmogejo @kotti__Bello How early? How would you recommend a 2yr old to be handled?

Dear Parents, I want to share one parenting secret with you. The one you won’t find in your regular blogs. And trust me, regardless of your faith, you will find this tip beneficial. I want to explain why some kids become completely stubborn the more you punish them. I am doing this because I got some messages yesterday from people who have kids in the diaspora and how their kids have become stone-hearted to their parents’ warnings. It is indeed painful. Remember that I mentioned the monumental book of Imam Al-Ghazali, Ihya’ Ulum al-Din. We have more things to learn from it. In this book, he talked about a fragile part of a child's mind called the “Veil of Shame.” Note: Every child has this because they are born upon Fitrah (purity of the soul). When a child does something bad for the first time, they usually try to hide it. They are afraid of being caught because they still value their dignity in your eyes. The scholars explained that if a parent exposes the child, screams, yells at them, and punishes every mistake, you are tearing down their veil of shame. Once a child realizes you already see them as a bad person, the humiliation has happened. They stop caring. You have destroyed their internal brakes. When they have no dignity left to protect, they will start doing those bad things openly and boldly. How do you notice this in your child? You can tell this is happening in your child when they stop trying to hide their mistakes and start becoming brazen or "strong-headed" when caught. This is a sign that the veil is thinning. To fix this, you need to use a concept called Taghaful. It translates to intentional ignorance or pretending you did not see a fault. Our Prophet (peace be upon him) taught us this. He did this with a young companion called Usama bin Zaid. But I see that our parents, due to their high expectations, are often too impatient to look away. If you catch your child doing a hidden wrong, sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is pretend you did not see it. Do not confront them and strip them of their respect. Instead, bring up the topic later in a general conversation. Tell a story about why that action is destructive, without looking at them or accusing them. Let their own conscience do the punishing. Let them repent and fix it in secret. A parent who hunts down every small mistake will end up raising a child who has no shame left to lose. Let me know if you want more of these scholarly parenting tips. I will be willing to share. My DM is full with different issues. I cannot answer everything, but I am sure with these tips, a lot of those issues will be solved by God’s grace. Thank you for your attention. Allah knows best.

@toheeb_oa You dey use your life compare with another person

Don’t rush, Tony Elemelu became rich at 42

To those who are planning to get married

@YusufAsunmogejo Jazãjumullahu khaera jazàh🙏

@kotti__Bello It won’t. Try it early enough. I promise, it’s the best. You just have to be consistent and be observant. It works.

It’s so sad to see people you know drifting further away from God and not even feeling ashamed to show off their wrongdoings. May Allah guide them 😔

@arojinle1 Best in the world

Yorùbá women >>>>>>>>>>>>>

If this isn’t a joke, then let me renew my faith: I bear witness that there’s no god worthy of worship except Allah, and Muhammad is His messenger. How come our prophet knew all these things?

@1driseletu @emmydepoju @ibnjaafar1205 @contentmints @saheedosupa

@emmydepoju @ibnjaafar1205 @contentmints @saheedosupa O LAGBAra juu Allah loo😃

Sh Ali Faagba, @contentmints has a message for him, @saheedosupa, I hope it'll reach him. May Allah be pleased with us all

@LunarAutos @emmydepoju @ibnjaafar1205 @contentmints @saheedosupa

@emmydepoju @ibnjaafar1205 @contentmints @saheedosupa Olagbara ju anobi lo.

@olamijiokiki @emmydepoju @ibnjaafar1205 @contentmints @saheedosupa

@emmydepoju @ibnjaafar1205 @contentmints @saheedosupa O lagbara Ju Allah ati Anobi lo

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We are all supporting our Nigeria Brother Ademola Lookman tonight.

@McFlybowy None of them can lace Pedro Neto boot.

When you watch Yamal, you will agree he’s better than Olise. When you watch Olise, you will agree he’s better than Yamal. The difference between Lamine Yamal and Olise is mainly in how they approach the game and impact it. Yamal is a Pure winger. Direct, fearless, loves to take on defenders 1v1. Very explosive with quick touches and sharp dribbling. Olise is More of a creator. Slower tempo, but very smooth. He picks passes, controls rhythm, and plays with composure. Yamal attacks you. Olise studies you. Yamal is an Aggressive dribbler. Beats players with speed and unpredictability. Olise is an Elegant dribbler. Uses body feints, close control, and timing rather than pace. Yamal Creates through chaos, dribbles, quick decisions, final-third actions. Olise Creates through vision, key passes, crosses, set pieces, and through balls. Both are currently the best RW in the world now, just how they impact games is different.

@GabrielEnema @YusufAsunmogejo

@kotti__Bello @YusufAsunmogejo It belongs to your father. Go and give it to him

The prophet they detest so much said this 1400 years ago. Mind you, he was unlettered. So, he couldn’t have copied it anywhere. I know they will insult me in the CS 🤩