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@swapnakpanda This is the kind of person we should never hire. Has zero values. Cannot trust. This should not be considered as smartness. Some how only in india crooks are called smart. In this case, I am sorry to say, both are dumb asses!!!

> A person's current package was ₹20 LPA (7 yoe). > He cleared an interview. > Got an offer of ₹35 LPA. > He asked them of 90 days because of notice period. Fair enough. The company agreed. > He resigned from his company. > During that time, he got a call from another company. > They offered him ₹32 LPA initially. > He told them that he has an offer of ₹35 LPA in hand. > Negotiations started. > Finally made the deal with ₹42 LPA. > Greed doesn't stop there. > Went back to the first company. > Now asked for ₹45 LPA. > Keep on applying for more interviews. > Cleared another interview. > Applied the same trick. > Made the deal ₹48 LPA. > But that company asked for joining immediately. > Went back to second company. > They also said the same. > ₹48 LPA, but join immediately. > If he joins immediately, he has to pay penalty. > Time went. All deals expired/canceled. > But he finally cleared another interview. > Only 2 weeks of notice period were left. > ₹50 LPA offer. > 250% growth in 90 days. > Not just talent, you need a smart brain.

@Varnika99 At your age, you take risks. But calculated. Define what goals you can achieve with the risk. And don’t be afraid to fail. Be relentless in what you need from your career and life! Good luck!!

Thinking about a big move… Should I leave a comfortable corporate job and go all-in as an indie developer building products? Or stay with stability and predictability? If you’ve faced this choice, what did you do & would you do it again?

@jasveer10 Indian govt jobs have no layoffs. And if you want paid vacation, do something wrong and they reward you with pay & holidays with suspension. Most of these jobs corrupts you. You become addicted to taking bribes.

In India, there is a craze for government jobs, and it needs to be stopped immediately. The entire edtech industry is fueling it. And before you get emotional, hear this properly. People are not chasing government jobs to build the nation. That’s the biggest lie we keep repeating. The real reasons are simple - Job security, low accountability, fixed income , status, social image. marriage market. That’s it. You remove all these and half the crowd disappears overnight. Everyone knows the deal. Get a government job and your life is sorted. You won’t get fired. You don’t have to push too hard. Salary will come. Respect will come. Rishtas will come, plenty of dahej. That’s the real incentive structure. So let’s stop pretending this is about nation building. It’s not! In most government roles, accountability is either weak or missing. The system doesn’t punish inefficiency the way the market does. And people know this. That’s exactly why they chase it. Reverse the situation and put the same people in a private job. Suddenly everything changes. Now output matters - You can be fired, you have to prove yourself and you have to learn, adapt, deliver. Most of them won’t survive that environment. That’s the fundamental difference. And look at the scale of damage. Lakhs of people spending years preparing (5-7 years) for a few thousand seats. Years of their prime gone. No real skills built. No real value created. Just an endless loop of exams. This is not ambition. This is a trap. It’s a zero sum game. A few win. The rest are left with nothing. And let’s be honest, most of them become unemployable outside that exam ecosystem. They’ve trained for one thing only, cracking an exam, not building anything, not solving real problems. So what exactly are we celebrating here. We are literally pushing our young population into a system where the goal is safety over contribution. Where the reward is status over impact. Where the incentive is to avoid risk, not create value. But let’s at least call it what it is - This craze is not driving growth. It’s slowing it down.

@nehaGurung1692 You don’t need to marry an Italian to like Italian food!

If I marry a South Indian guy, this will be my everyday breakfast.

@hippierani Depends on where you live. A cold country may not give you enough sunlight

Thankfully in India, people unabashedly dry their clothes in the sun no matter how posh their house is. They care more about clothes drying the best way. Wearing crisp sun dried clothing is such a privilege.

@nehanagarr Have you lived in America? Life & people are not bad. They may look they live in borrowed money. But most of them turn it around. Because their acts act as experience and as a stepping stone. But most of the kids are genuine.

Gen Zs are broke but they are following american lifestyle blindly. Living on borrowed money. YOLO moments and credit cards. They know how the economy works but have serious money management issues.

@BalogunSonia4 You are who your friends are. You know you have bad habits to start with. Find a partner who is better than you so that your life pivots to good!!!

You’ll smoke and drink with her in the club, but you won't marry her? Why? 😅🤲

@5UM8O Choose what is best for you. Choosing something that is not as good or subpar is stupidity. Not just in the product. But in life as well.

I have switched to BHIM today from PhonePe I will choose Indian as far as possible.

@SheIsTheFire Be flexible. If you find the right person and there is mutual love & respect stop there. We have one life to live. And you are the driver of your life. Good luck!

It's been a while since I experienced a romantic commitment. Like, "this is my person" kinda vibe. A secure feeling. Exclusivity is so rare and so precious! 🧿💜 'My person' should not be confused about me, nor should they be a public property, romantically accessible to anyone else. Today I was just hanging around and a friend said, "Exclusivity as a concept is dead! No such thing like love exists anymore... The faster you accept it, the better you can live in this time and era". It got me thinking a bit... Your opinion? Am I out of sync with our times?

TCS. Take the one that pays you double. ISRO will be like a govt job. Your career will be limited. Work for TCS exposes you to different kinds of jobs, clients & environments. At this age that experience is invaluable. Allows you to later jump to what you liked as you were learning!!! Good luck!

My friend has done mechanical engineering from NIT Bhopal. ISRO offered him a package of 4.8 lakhs per annum and TCS offered him a package of 9 lakhs per annum. He joined TCS. What’s your take on this?

@SoraUnchained @Thazhigilla_ You are an idiot. Yes, it’s over now

@SoraUnchained @Thazhigilla_ There’s a reason why restaurants are French, Italian & Indian, you moron! And if you were right you will see 1000’s of doctors doing tech business.

A medical doctor can wake up, get tired of the ward, buy a Macbook, and pivot into tech. A doctor can buy a ring light and become a content creator or filmmaker. But a Senior Software Engineer cannot wake up, buy a stethoscope, and decide to pivot into the operating theater. There is a hierarchy to this pivot game.

@rae_chloe133 We are wired differently. Male looks for intimacy. Women look for security.

90% of men are only dating for Sex

@Ankita2035615 @idesofmarch1999 @drsunita02 We have one life. No where it is written one person. Move on. It’s not a big deal. Society makes it look like a big deal. At the end of the day, no body cares. It’s your life.

@idesofmarch1999 @drsunita02 Exactly, we are speaking abt humans ! Not who look like humans

No love affair is worth taking their own life. Heard a couple of instances where teenagers committed suicide due to these. Teenagers undergoing breakups - especially the boy/girl who has been affected by the breakup - it will be great if they can talk to their parents or any other trusted adult about the feelings they are going through. But talking to the parents suddenly will not happen. The ground work for easy communication on these topics and frankly speaking on any topic should be laid by the parent right from when the child is little. By the time they are teenagers, they will develop the trust to confide in the parents. A non-judgmental attitude helps immensely to gain that trust. In this day and age, parents should be aware that crushes/loveaffairs would be part and parcel of their teenager's life. Some will be mild, one-sided and some perhaps a bit more serious and two-sided. It's difficult to stop these - easy mingling of opposite genders in schools, social media, easy access to mobile phone for communication and above all the raging hormones all play a part. Talk to your children. Reassure them. Support them. Breaksups do happen, it's not the end of the world. There are plenty of other fish in the sea...... #Teenagers

Failure in a love affair and finding another partner, is similar to the effort of getting a degree. For example, You do psychology and you find out you are not cut out to talking to so many mental health patients, you pivot to say a professor or nursing career. You haven’t list anything. You added some more years to get what you like!!!

@Queeneth01olx At the first ask. You should have said that your generosity stops at dropping you at the first agreed place.

I gave a stranded woman a lift yesterday during the heavy rain. 20 minutes into the ride, she asked me to branch at a supermarket so she could buy something. I should have said no. I’m usually not the type to pick up strangers, but the rain was terrible and she looked desperate. She got in, thanked me profusely, and we started chatting. Everything was completely normal. Then came the supermarket request. I thought, "Okay, maybe just a quick stop." She comes back 15 minutes later with three full bags of groceries and asks if I can drop her at a completely different location because the bags are too heavy to carry to her actual stop. I ended up driving 40 minutes out of my way because I felt too awkward to kick her out in the rain. At what point does being a good person just turn into being taken advantage of? Where do you draw the line with strangers?

@bangerz You are entitled to your opinion. But you will miss a life of opportunity to raise a child, teach them values and give them education and be there. Good luck!

I have no respect for most people who have children. 100% of the time the child does not consent to being born, it is the parents SELFISH decision. We live in a system where most are born into obligation, not opportunity. You’re signing someone up for decades of work, stress, and survival just to satisfy your own desire to have a child. Unless you can genuinely offer them freedom from that cycle & ownership over their time, you are actively placing them into a system designed to extract from them for life. The global elite WANT you to keep creating their servant class. Abstain, and the system starts to crack. I’m opting out of having children. You’re either enlightened enough to break the cycle, or stay stuck feeding the matrix.

You are probably too young to know what a 10k hours of effort is. See when you study a 4 year degree and then work for about 8 years, then you would have out about 10000 hours of effort in total. Once you put 10k hours then that lays the foundation for a profession for the next 10 to 15 years. Simply because you have a doctors degree doesn’t qualify you to be a good engineer!!!

@ksadras @Thazhigilla_ Then the engineer is a fraud lmao. Doctor mogs hard. More generalizable intellect as well. Always will be in demand. And I studied CS at a top university. There is indeed a hierarchy, and the doctor is correct.

@Nostalgicc_A Every choice in life have consequences. You are not defined by how educated you are. So is marriage.

I don’t understand why some girls make it their entire personality or feel so desperate to get married. Shadi is just a part of life. it doesn’t define who you are as a person

@kenkenlewu It’s better to find another person to be her life partner than going back to that chauvinistic pig!!!

She left her husband for three weeks to nurse her dyiñg mother. Her husband told her to choose between her marriage or her mother . She chose her mother. Five years earlier, he had been in the same position. His own mother was sick. He was the only son. He begged his wife to let her move in. She refused. She told him to hire help. Then gave him an ultimatum; “get her help or lose this marriage.” He dropped the idea of bringing his mum in. Now, it was her turn. Her mother was sick, and she wanted to bring her home. He said no. The same reason she once gave him; “Hire someone. Choose between this house… and your mother.” She chose her mother. She was gone for three weeks. Her mother dîed. When she came back, husband refused to let her in. He said; “You chose your mother and left this house. Go and continue staying with her.”