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@lalehrooh
Postgrad researcher in Child & Adolescent Behavioral Psychiatry. Doctor, teacher, and a lifelong servant to cats 🐈
Chongqing Katılım Ekim 2021
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@farbeyondtired Struggling with the same thing. Half of the time is spent dying, half of it is trying to ask for help or convincing other people you're not lying, and all of the time is tinged with the guilt of being a burden and the grief of wasting my life.
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@Squeeze1i @autisticswana I'm in my villain era after realizing that I was on the brink of death and everyone around me could only think about how useful I could be to them. Permanently shifted something in me. Even thinking of socializing with people now makes me want to puke.
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THE AUTISTIC URGE TO NOT REGISTER RED FLAGS AS RED FLAGS BECAUSE YOU’RE SO USED TO PEOPLE MISINTERPRETING YOUR HARMLESS BEHAVIOURS AND YOU DON’T WANT TO DO THAT TO ANYONE ELSE, SO YOU GO OVERBOARD TRYING TO FIND ACCEPTABLE EXPLANATIONS FOR OTHER PEOPLE’S UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR.
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True.
I've been thinking about quitting my degree and running away because my progress has been so slow I think I've disappointed, or worse, wasted my supervisor's time and energy, and my brain is convinced she hates me, and I still can't do the basic shit i have to do.
DeeDee - ADHD Helper@DopaminePlsMe
When people say "everyone is a little ADHD" I always want to be like oh word? you also frequently lose the physical ability to start basic tasks and just sit in a paralyzing cycle of shame while your life falls apart? or did you just forget where you put your keys?
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@BayouMystere I was a med student who knew the lingo and would make a clinical case for my symptoms only to be met with " you're trying to have diseases you read about.
Wasn't until I became severe that doctors acknowledged, then it was "you're a doctor, you should have noticed it sooner"
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‼️ While medical mistreatment harms you, you MUST meet all emotional needs of ultra-fragile doctors who are actively harming you ‼️
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@BayouMystere Istg
Like I'm supposed to synpathize and give you answers when your treatment of me was literally akin to leaving me for dead -.-
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Ehrlich gesagt habe ich keinen Bock mehr von Menschen kontaktiert zu werden, die sich 10 Jahre (so lange habe ich etwa ME/CFS) nicht melden konnten, die nun aber Info brauchen, weil Angehörige erkrankt sind. Ich finde es nämlich verletzend,
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As a psychiatrist, patient and expert on the topic, I respectfully disagree.
These bothsideisms are just a (subconscious) way of clinicians to avoid their evident loyalty-conflicts.
It is not about blame, it's about stopping the harm and realizing this isn't cutting it.1/6
Om Prakash, MD@ompsychiatrist
As a psychiatrist I see this regularly - patients with ME/CFS, Long COVID and hEDS who have real trauma from being dismissed and disbelieved by doctors for years. Their pain is genuine. I do have a problem though with the term 'clinician-associated traumatization' (here iatrogenic/Medical PTSD). It feels like it is making clinicians as 'the enemy'. A big part of the problem is the honest uncertainty these conditions create as they often lack clear biomarkers and are difficult to diagnose. We need more empathy and better training on both sides instead of blame.
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@ompsychiatrist It is absolutely OUR responsibility as physicians to uphold the oath we took the moment we graduated.
Do no harm.
When the people who are supposed to believe and help you dismiss you, or worse, make fun of you, THAT is HARM.
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@ompsychiatrist We have 300 years of documented history of doctors NOT believing patients, hospitalizing them, performing surgeries on them believing the patients were lying. From schizophrenia to hysteria to gyneacological surgery maneuvers to the denying black patients pain meds-
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As a psychiatrist I see this regularly - patients with ME/CFS, Long COVID and hEDS who have real trauma from being dismissed and disbelieved by doctors for years. Their pain is genuine.
I do have a problem though with the term 'clinician-associated traumatization' (here iatrogenic/Medical PTSD). It feels like it is making clinicians as 'the enemy'. A big part of the problem is the honest uncertainty these conditions create as they often lack clear biomarkers and are difficult to diagnose. We need more empathy and better training on both sides instead of blame.
Neurologist Mom@NeurologistMom
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being chronically ill is pushing yourself to your limits, experiencing pain and symptoms that would send a healthy person to the ER, genuinely harming yourself to push through, just to be told you’re not doing enough by people who fall apart completely when they get a cold lol
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@oncologycorner I didn't say it wasn't a kahani lol based on the way your friend was met with dismissal multiple times, it's probably true.
And now who is assuming malicious intent...
See how easy it is.
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@lalehrooh I wish it was a kahani. Anyways no point explaining anything to someone who has already make her mind.
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Few years back, when i was in skims this feminist friend wanted a favour for appointment. I helped,she was diagnosed with PCOS,obviously the doctor’s first question was about “marriage and fertility”. She got enraged and lashed out at doctor and left, “mujhe nai dekhana”
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@oncologycorner No dude, you want patients to stroke your ego by assuming you are competent and mean no ill-intent when they come to you for help. Do you also just blindly trust everyone in life? Ajeeb.
Yes, I've made up my mind by seeing the statistical harm this has done to women.
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@lalehrooh I’m not arguing that patients should silently tolerate bad medicine.I’m saying there’s a difference between questioning a doctor’s competence and assuming malicious intent behind every uncomfortable clinical discussion. Anyways I understand your pov. Lot of things needs to change
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