guytraveller
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guytraveller
@lancesir1
5’9” bored when online, looking for Jo buddies, 😀 DM if want to connect
Katılım Eylül 2020
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@elixxxoffic Too hot . Can u share what your typical diet is like ?
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Questions from my DMs
Doc, do you believe in God despite being Gay?
ANSWER: Back in 2017, my partner and I decided to attend the Valentine’s Day service at CCF. You know, church can mean different things to different people—some need the guidance, some need the community. I just wanted to hear about love and maybe feel a little holy.
But of course, since it was Valentine’s Day, the pastor had to bring up relationships. And, as expected, out came the tired old “man is made for woman, woman is made for man” speech. Then he hit us with the classic: “It’s Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve!”—cue the congregation erupting in laughter.
And there I was, sitting in a room full of people, feeling more alone than I ever had in my life. It hit me like a truck: Why the hell am I here? Why am I supporting a place that so clearly hates my existence just because of who I love?
So I got up and walked out. My partner, bless his heart, tried to calm me down, but nope—I was done. I left that church like a dramatic lead in a telenovela, and I didn’t look back.
A few years later, I found myself missing the sense of community—Bible studies, church friends, all that good stuff. So I figured, Okay, let’s give it another shot. I went back to Bible study, and right away, I was upfront: Hey guys, I’m gay, and last time I was here, y’all made me feel like garbage.
And wouldn’t you know it? The Bible study leader kept circling back to it, like my gayness was the main event. He even compared it to his own struggle with drug addiction and how finding God helped him “heal.”
Now, I’m not here to knock his recovery journey—good for him! But respectfully, fuck that. Me being in love with another man is in no way comparable to getting hooked on meth. One involves romance and emotional connection, the other involves...well, meth.
So I picked up my stuff and left. And you know what? I never regretted it.
I still believe in God, but now I know that my relationship with the Divine is mine and mine alone. I don’t need an institution to validate it. And I sure as hell don’t need some guy in a polo telling me my love life belongs in the same category as breaking bad.
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@yoshi_sudarso Amazing abs. Hope to get to that level soon also
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