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one of the best things my therapist told me was “the reason you ghost your friends, avoid responding, and disappear even when you care is because your nervous system sees connection as a demand, not a comfort. you’re not a bad friend, you’re overwhelmed” felt that

Has anyone here ever tried to self-give rules because I keep telling myself I need to sleep before 11:30 and then I don’t do it because who is going to stop me? Myself???

the ADHD urge to use parentheses in every sentence (because every thought comes with bonus thoughts (and those have bonus thoughts too))

Apprendre que le shopping augmente la dopamine m’a suffi pour conclure que l’argent fait bel et bien le bonheur

When you stop reading books, you start losing verbal dexterity, depth of thought and imagination. A closed book is a closed mind. Don't EVER stop reading.

manifesting 🧘‍♀️

Until you go to university/college, you'll never understand why people go to such lengths to celebrate completing their degrees (celebrating for weeks/ months).If you've never had the sleepless nights, academic exclusions, losing funding, failing modules, having to skip meals because you don't have enough to eat, you won't get it. We are not celebrating only obtaining degrees. We are happy for hanging on & making it out alive, it's a dreadful journey.🥺

Adult friendships honestly require GRACE. People are actually very busy. People are HEALING. People are GROWING. People are taking time for SELF CARE just like you. Less communication isn't less love. Check in and don't check out.

You ever cut someone off and your whole nervous system just... relaxed

UNPOPULAR OPINION: Someone’s free time is NOT their availability.

Tu votes aux législatives le président ignore les résultats, tu manifestes pacifiquement la police vient te tabasser, 700k personnes signent une pétition et ils s’en battent les couilles ptdrrrrr j’ai bien aimé le moment où je vivais dans le pays des droits de l’Homme

when they're talking to me but I dissociated for a second and now I don't know what they're saying

wattpad was a universal experience for all the teenage girls! it didn't matter if some of the books were badly written as long as we would vibe with them plus the comment section made it all better- that's why i will forever be nostalgic about the old wattpad 😭

Y a ce genre de paysages dans le monde mais non toi tu dois écrire ton mémoire

That one scene where he danced on a floor full of water changed my life as a kid