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Hadis: "Sekiranya Kiamat telah hampir terjadi, sedangkan di tangan salah seorang daripada kamu ada sebatang anak benih (kurma), maka jika dia mampu untuk tidak membiarkan kiamat itu berlaku sebelum dia menanamnya, hendaklah dia menanamnya." [Silsilah Sahihah 9]

Sepanjang saya menulis dan menyampaikan tentang kisah-kisah al-Quran, ini adalah antara mitos yang sangat susah nak dihapuskan dalam masyarakat. Mitos bahawa Hawa ialah yang menyebabkan Nabi Adam dan dirinya terkeluar dari syurga.

If tonight is Laylatul Qadr, Ya Allah heal the hearts that are silently breaking. The ones betrayed by people they trusted, the ones carrying pain nobody understands.

Day 20 Allah itu Maha Baik Ketika kita sakit, dosa dosa kita diampuni. Ketika kita didzolimi, do'a-do'a kita diijabah. Ketika kita bersyukur, nikmat untuk kita ditambah. Bahkan ketika kita bermaksiat, Allah selalu menanti kita untuk bertaubat “Sesungguhnya Allah tidak melihat pada bentuk rupa dan harta kalian. Akan tetapi, Allah hanyalah melihat pada hati dan amalan kalian.” - HR. Muslim

20 duas to make for your future spouse on Laylatul Qadr

adab sangat penting dalam agama kita, hatta bab meminta dari Tuhan pun diajar caranya & bagaimana tone yg sepatutnya. kita ini hamba, kita rasa Allah tu dekat macam mana sekalipun, jagalah adab kita. belajar dari nabi terdahulu. usahakan baca buku sirah atau tonton video sirah.

Dalam mazhab Syafie, seorang ayah tak wajib bayar zakat fitrah anaknya yang sudah ada pendapatan sendiri. Jika ayah bayar zakat anak yang berkemampuan, maka zakat itu tidak sah kecuali dapat keizinan anak tersebut. [Tuhfah al-Muhtaj 3/314; Al-Mu’tamad 1/99]

Kita sering berdoa ttg hidup. Tapi pernahkah kita berdoa ttg mati? Aku pernah. Setiap Ramadan aku minta pada Allah agar suatu hari nanti dimatikan di hari Jumat di bulan Ramadan. Dalam keadaan diridhai oleh-Nya dan dalam keadaan lega semua urusan duniaku sudah selesai.

Malam Ganjil Lailatul Qadar, Mac 2026: - 21 Ramadan: Selasa, 10/3 (malam) - 23 Ramadan: Khamis, 12/3 (malam) - 25 Ramadan: Sabtu, 14/3 (malam) - 27 Ramadan: Isnin, 16/3 (malam) - 29 Ramadan: Rabu, 18/3 (malam) Semoga segala ibadah kita diterima di bulan mulia ini.

Ultimate Laylatul Qadr Dua list

pada akhirnya nanti, kamu akan takjub melihat bagaimana Allah membolak-balikan keadaan hanya untuk mengabulkan doa-doamu. so don't worry too much, be patient, Allah Loves you

MY RAMADAN DUA FOR A RIGHTEOUS SPOUSE 🤍 Ya Mannan, before I make dua for a good spouse, I know I have to become one. So I begin this dua with introspection of my own character and my own shortcomings. Ya Allah, make me a good, righteous spouse. Ya Allah, make me a spouse who is understanding, who practices patience, who fears You the way You should be feared whilst dealing with others, who respects the elderly, and who is fertile. Ya Allah, make me a spouse who lowers the gaze, who overlooks faults, who is empathetic and forgiving. Ya Allah, make me a little deaf and a little dumb deaf to forget the harsh words that may be spoken towards me, and dumb to protect my tongue from hurting others with my harshness. Ya Allah, make me the most comfortable garment for my spouse. Ya Allah, make me someone who uplifts the self-esteem, character, and emaan of my spouse by Your permission and blessings. Ya Allah, make me everything and more than what I am seeking in my spouse. Ya Raheem, so many Muslims around the world are seeking comfort and companionship and searching for their soulmates. Help them connect and help them bond for eternity through nikah. Ya Allah, make the means of spouses reaching each other easy. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are on the straight path. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses whose beliefs are free from shirk and bid’ah, and who are upon the correct aqeedah. Ya Allah, grant us spouses who always return to the Qur’an and Sunnah in times of doubt and difficulty. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who wear the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ physically and spiritually. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are proud of their deen and not ashamed of it. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are strong and do not give up on each other during times of calamity and harship. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who have halal income and grant barakah in their earnings. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are self-sufficient and depend only on You Ya Allah! Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who bring comfort, happiness, peace, and purpose to each other’s existence in this temporary dunya. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who have the ability to forgive and forget quickly. Protect them from egos and grudges. Grant them hearts that are pure, soft, and forgiving. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who continuously learn and increase in beneficial knowledge. Bless our spouses with knowledge that benefits. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses with fertility and children who are healthy, pious, obedient to You, and beautiful. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are grateful to You, who turn to You in times of blessing and in times of hardship. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who have Qalbun Saleem. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are filled with rahmah, mawaddah, and sakeenah. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are sensitive to each other’s needs, who fulfill the five pillars of Islam with utmost ihsan (sincerity), who are charitable, and who bring happiness to their extended families. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who protect each other’s secrets and honour. Ya Allah, grant Muslims spouses who are not a fitnah or a test for anyone. Ya Kareem, purify our spouses for us. Protect Muslim spouses from anger, resentment, grudges, and ill will towards one another. Bless us with spouses who enjoy and are satisfied with each other physically and in their intimate dealings. Bless us with spouses who are strict and fear Allah regarding their interactions with the opposite gender. Bless us with spouses who are fulfilled and do not look around for better or more. Bless them with contentment and shukr over what they already have, rather than discontent over what they do not. Allahumma Ameen.

Tujuan berkahwin sebab ia sunnah dan ibadah. Nak faham perkahwinan = ibadah, kena faham tauhid. Tanpa tauhid, kita akan rasa/nampak perkahwinan ni sekadar urusan dunia. Perkahwinan yang sakinah, mawaddah dan warahmah itu tidak terhasil dengan cinta semata. Ia terhasil daripada taqwa, dan taqwa dalam rumah tangga takkan wujud jika tauhidnya tidak betul. Suami/isteri curang bukan kerana pasangan tak handsome/cantik, tapi kerana tiada taqwa. Pasangan zalim kaki pukul bukan kerana dah tak ada rasa cinta, tapi kerana tiada taqwa. Maka, betulkan niat untuk berkahwin itu bermaksud perlu betulkan/belajar tauhid. Barulah kita akan faham maksud sebenar kahwin kerana ibadah. Namun, nak kahwin atas tujuan apa pun ikutlah masing-masing. Cumanya, kalau niat berkahwin sebab nak bahagia, ketahuilah banyak je benda yang akan buat kita tak bahagia. Kita hanya akan bahagia bila kita belajar bersyukur. Belajar untuk manage expectations. Bila tak reti nak manage expectations tu lah kita akan mudah kecewa. Kecewa ni bahaya. Ia permulaan kepada banyak masalah. Bila terlalu tenggelam dengan rasa kecewa, kita akan putus asa. Sebab itu kena betulkan niat sebelum kahwin. Malah kena sentiasa betulkan niat walaupun dah kahwin kerana hati ini sifatnya berbolak balik.

50 duas to ask this Ramadan You might educate someone, don’t forget to retweet.🤍

Ladies, pray over your wombs. Ask God for protection from fibroids, cysts, endometriosis, PCOS, infertility, hormonal imbalance, and every hidden illness. May we walk in sound health and peace. Amen.

Dah tahun 2026. Jemaah Perempuan ramai jahil bab rapatkan saf. Berbuih mulut dah asatizah tegur berkali² setiap kali Ramadhan pd tahun sebelum² ini. Tapi masih tak dapat perbaiki lagi pd tahun 2026. So perempuan kalau korg baca tweet ni, rapatkan saf. Beranikan diri ajak org sebelah utk rapatkan saf. Masih sempat lagi perbaiki amalan ini utk Ramadhan tahun ni.

Please marry well if you're going to marry. Because divorce is expensive. Regret is exhausting. And wasted years are irreplaceable. Here are 8 non-negotiables before you say I do. Don't marry for potential. Don't marry because everyone else is doing it. Don't marry because you've been together for years and feel like it's the next step. Don't marry because you're afraid of being alone or starting over or losing time invested. Marry because this person, exactly as they are right now, is someone you want to build a life with. Because divorce isn't just expensive financially, it costs you emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. It drains you in ways money can't measure. And regret? Regret is waking up years later realizing you ignored every red flag, every gut feeling, every warning sign because you were too invested to walk away. That regret follows you into every relationship after. And wasted years? You don't get those back. You don't get back the version of yourself that existed before you were broken down by the wrong person. You don't get back the opportunities you missed because you were busy trying to fix something that was never meant to work. So here's what you need before you say "I do": 1. Shared values, not just shared interests. You can love the same music and still want completely different lives. Make sure you align on what actually matters — faith, family, money, children, life priorities. 2. Consistent character, not just good behaviour. Anyone can act right when things are easy. Watch how they handle stress, conflict, and disappointment. That's who you're actually marrying. 3. Emotional maturity, not just emotional availability. They need to communicate, take accountability, regulate their emotions, and work through conflict without shutting down or exploding. 4. Financial responsibility, not just financial potential. How they handle money now is how they'll handle it married. If they're reckless, entitled, or financially irresponsible now, a wedding won't fix that. 5. Respect, not just love. Love without respect is toxic. If they dismiss your feelings, belittle your opinions, or disrespect you in small ways now, marriage will magnify that. 6. Action, not just words. Don't marry promises. Marry proof. Marry someone whose actions consistently match what they say. Words are easy. Follow-through is everything. 7. Healthy conflict resolution, not avoidance or explosiveness. You will disagree. You will have hard conversations. Make sure you're marrying someone who can handle conflict without running, stonewalling, or making you the villain for bringing up problems. 8. They choose you consistently, not conditionally. You shouldn't have to earn their love, effort, or presence. They should choose you on good days and bad days. When you're easy and when you're difficult. Consistently. Without question. If these aren't in place, don't walk down that aisle. Don't ignore what you see, hoping marriage will change it. Don't settle because you're tired of being single or afraid you won't find better. Because divorce is expensive. Regret is exhausting. And wasted years are irreplaceable. Marry well. Or don't marry at all. Your future self will thank you.

Muda 5 tahun ohmygod🥲tak pernah perfikir dek akal huhu

Perkara begini juga boleh dibincangkan dalam taaruf. Contoh soalan: Bagi awak, kekurangan fizikal pasangan tu perkara besar ke tak dalam perkahwinan? Tanya dalam bentuk pandangan, bukan pengakuan. Daripada jawapan tu nanti, boleh la olah soalan seterusnya. Ada lelaki yang tak kisah dan terima seadanya. Jangan terlalu insecure okay?

Memang tak boleh nak tahu 100%, tapi insyaAllah boleh detect red flags tu melalui cara dia menjawab soalan. Dalam taaruf, jangan hanya fokus pada apa yang dijawab, tapi cara menjawab. Kadang jawapan tu seperti apa yang kita nak, tapi cara tu mungkin tak kena. Antara soalan yang boleh ditanya: 1. Bila tengah marah/stress, apa yang biasanya awak buat? 2. Kalau ada salah faham dengan pasangan, macam mana awak handle? 3. Awak suka orang tegur kesilapan awak dengan cara macam mana? Kalau orang tu tegur dengan cara awak tak suka, apa awak buat? 4. Apa definisi suami/isteri yang baik pada awak? 5. Kalau kita berdua tak sependapat dalam satu perkara, macam mana nak settlekan? Dan pandai-pandailah nak kembangkan soalan tu. Orang panas baran jarang mengaku dia panas baran. Tapi kita boleh tengok dari cara dia jawab soalan, bahasa dia dan sikap dia bila tak sependapat. Boleh la test satu topik dan awak berbeza pendapat dengan dia. Bab panas baran ni, ramai je orang couple dah bertahun tapi tak tahu pun pasangan tu panas baran. Bila dah kahwin, baru nampak true colours. Selagi tak duduk serumah, tidur sebantal, kita memang takkan tahu perangai sebenar seseorang. Manusia boleh berlakon. Tapi ingatlah, kita ada Allah. Bila kita ikut cara yang Allah redha, pasti Allah bantu. Walaupun semua jawapan nampak green flags, tapi terkadang hati kita menolaknya. Satu lagi, kalau dia pernah ada pasangan sebelum ni, cubalah tanya pasal hubungan dia yang lepas. Tengok macam mana dia jawab. Kalau dia memburukkan masa silam dia, dia je nampak baik, itu petanda awal la untuk hentikan taaruf.