lillithdw

This pfp is from an anime called Nagi No Asukara (A Lull in The Sea). The character is named Chisaki, she is the "mother" of the group, and sees herself as the caretaker and most mature. The anime is about romance, coming of age, friendships etc. I fully recommend it!!💙

@Pronox10 @Iris_Sandwich2 @TemuAlbania It's about age, but as you mentioned, 2 years isn't a lot, so it's also about taking into account possible power imbalance, mental maturity and, yes, where they are in life

@lillithdw03 @Iris_Sandwich2 @TemuAlbania So it’s not about age, but about where they are in life?

I just saw a Google doc for a 2 year (19 and 17) age gap

@blerghthrice Is ocean acceptable?

i'd block someone based on their wordle starter

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 period!

@lillithdw03 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 ok i believe you and yes women don’t deserve to be treated that way

You guys already do that

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 actually correcting myself i joined about 2 months ago, but only was active around mid april til now (sorry for the missinformation lmao)

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 because I haven't seen a single post because I created twitter like not even a month ago and as you can see if you stalk my profile, it started more VTuber centered and I just happen to follow a bisexual activist account because I'm bisexual, but (1/2)

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 believe me (or don't ofc thats your choice) if my fyp started showing me those kinds of filthy posts, I would also defend lesbians, because we're all women who have suffered discimination and hatred from other women and men, and we don't deserve it (2/2)

@lillithdw03 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 yeah yeah all this yapping towards lesbians yet i don’t see a single tweet of yours calling out the lesbphobic people 🥹

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 one issue being talked about doesn't mean I won't also defend fellow women being attacked just because they are lesbians. Likewise, its not double standards because as I clarified above, again, both narratives are misogynistic and both should be equally rejected (2/2)

@lillithdw03 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 but the thing is that’s what you’re doing, the double standards you’re holding lesbians to and not bi people is crazy. you can address problematic issues sure but when there’s problems on your own side that you’re ignoring that’s hypocrisy

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 its not ignoring if I'm commenting under a post about biphobia😂 thats like saying those who advocate for female r4pe victims are purposefully ignoring, silencing or otherwise being hypocrites for not simultaneously bringing up male r2p3 victims. (1/2)

@ffeyyi_ You might overthink and get tense, so the conversation suffers from that emotional strain of wanting to make a good impression and staying in a very specific wavelength

why is it so hard to keep a conversation going with someone you genuinely want to talk to

@Pronox10 @Iris_Sandwich2 @TemuAlbania is the 18 y/old in school, while the 20 y/old is in their 2nd year of university, or even already working? It is all about the intentions, the power dynamic being fair, and both having the mental capacities to give an educated consent to the relationship

@lillithdw03 @Iris_Sandwich2 @TemuAlbania In a year they will be 18 and 20 respectively. Is that gonna be a problem? Or a year later when they are 19 and 21. What if a 18 year old and 20 year old start dating?

@Pronox10 @Iris_Sandwich2 @TemuAlbania as I said previously, it depends on how and when they meet. 18 and 20 year old who knew each other from school, then got in touch and started dating? not weird! 20 year old who met a 17 year old and waited for their birthday? kinda weird. (1/2)

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 "not all men". Yes, we are very aware not all lesbians are biphobic and we are thankful for the generally inclusive LGBTQ+ community, but there are a number of problematic narratives WITHIN it that should be addressed without it being labeled hate

@lillithdw03 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 bro there’s a tiktok with 300k likes and many comments of bisexuals saying they would just have sex with lesbians but could never marry one, and this has been going on for years, you’re more likely to find a bisexual that thinks that way than a lesbian being biphobic.

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 values just based on how much sexual appeal and romantic validation they are given, according to stereotypes! Both equally wrong and just because we point out a rotten group of women doesn't mean we're hating on the entire lesbian community!! your comments truly read as (2)

@invalidd4 @burningsam24 @Frisky11112 @Kuchipachi1 and both are horrible coming from women who have experienced discrimination due to their sexual orientation and both should be shamed equally! we're just pointing out the way that yes, both of those narratives, are extremely centered on misogynistic views that reduce women's (1)

@iyashiYKKei @homuradown Idk which "normal people" do that because I've been in uni and outside of tweeter enough to know that people don't do that, especially if you actually try to have 1 or 2 conversations with them🤷‍♀️ (as someone who only saw and experienced this in school)

Im afraid im gonna sound like a loser when I say this but I feel like its impossible to talk to "normies" irl bc most of the time they end up categorizing you into some made up group they saw in a tiktok one time and refuse to actually get to know you

@xiii_degrees @LudmilaVT_ oh damn I need to change that, I totally thought they were🤣

@lillithdw03 @LudmilaVT_ But yeah, your dms aren't open but you're more than welcome to chat!

Saw a post like this on the TL Opinions so warning ⚠️ I think shipping vtubers together is just a generally bad idea Even if the streamers themselves are hard-core shipping themselves together I generally cringe. It's not my cup of tea. From my POV; It's only a matter of time until a fan or someone takes it too far and it simply becomes uncomfortable. Unless it's an OBVIOUS joke I wouldn't do it. Chat ships me with fictional ppl from video games that's the superior form of shipping honestly just sayin

@xiii_degrees @LudmilaVT_ thats fair!!

@lillithdw03 @LudmilaVT_ Yeah, you can dm me! I don't mind, I don't throw my history out publicly cause it's just not me now, but I don't mind talking about it. I get industry questions all the time.

can relate! I don't have a good laptop, and it's a Mac, so whenever they play games that are not Mac-friendly (almost always), I feel a little left out and sad. I tend to just go to sleep or watch a show on my own when that happens :v

@xiii_degrees @LudmilaVT_ Thank you for letting me know that it may be different now! Honestly, I wouldn't mind at all if u dm and tell me more about it haha, aside from a few 4th gen and 5th gen girl groups, I haven't kept up with the overall kpop fandoms, so I'm sure there's a lot that's changed! (2)

@lillithdw03 @LudmilaVT_ They cross fandoms often. It's actually a reason for the date marketing that's been happening. Unfortunately... this is something I know a little too much about lol.

@xiii_degrees @LudmilaVT_ oh really? I may have warped views from when I entered Kpop (2014-2015), when fans wouldn't ship men and women idols together as often due to the constant fan wars, possessive sasaengs, and companies avoiding some collabs to avoid scandals! (1)