Joe Burner

Because Drake dropping, Silver being respectful lol

Real music is back …

He didn’t even catch it 😂

If that’s not a flagrant 2 IDK what is!

🚨: Brain scans have revealed children living with unstable families (excessive, arguing, abusive and neglectful) have brain changes similar to combat soldiers after active duty

my mama use to beat the sh!t outta me then make spaghetti & garlic bread

Toxic relationships test everything about ya

3 years ago they traded me. 3 years fast forward we eliminated them. I love you Minny! Wolves in 6 🐺

a face you’d go to war for

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Eagles got all these weapons. Who tf gon throw them the ball? 😂

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Emotionally intelligent men often see straight through your performative bullshit and still choose whatever will preserve equilibrium in the relationship. He will compel you to outgrow your habitual narrowness, and you will think your EQ is high until you encounter a man like that. Even at first glance or first meeting, you cannot discern who has high EQ, because they conceal it and reveal it incrementally over time. Looking at how kind they are might make you feel like a bad person at times, but later you realise you are not actually a bad person, and they show you that you are simply human, then guide you toward greater kindness. High EQ men are, strangely, extremely violent when necessary as well. They have refined control over their strength and exercise it only when it is warranted. Incredibly self-aware, they become your mirror. They cannot tolerate disrespect and bullshit at all, they have extremely high principles and morals that they stick by. He will not engage in your little tactics of destabilising the whole relationship just so you can feel something, your manipulative tendencies, your gaslighting, all of it will be laid bare because he simply will not participate in it. Then it will be only you and yourself, sitting inside an emotional transformation while he is there, but he will not make it easier by interrupting your growth. He will also care for you, ensure there is always peace, and quietly protect you without putting anything on display. Having a man like this is a blessing, and social media will not advertise such men because these men do not parade their relationships online and are usually profoundly private.

dating an emotionally intelligent man is not for the weak and a lot of women say they want that until it’s time for him to actually show it and now you’re uncomfortable. because now he’s not reacting, he’s responding. He’s not yelling, he’s setting boundaries. He’s not chasing chaos, he’s choosing peace. And that forces you to face yourself. He’s gonna call out your patterns without disrespecting you. He’s gonna communicate instead of shutting down. He’s gonna hold you accountable in a way that.

All this and you’re still making five yr plans. All this and you still worry about double texting. All this and you’re still counting calories and sucking in your stomach. All this and you still can’t forgive your parents. All this and you’re still waiting for someone to go first

How I come out dry, it was stormin and raining

I think far too many of you are comfortable with being avoidant and almost never connecting deeply with people. This glorification of categorizing people into being props for interacting with you only in certain, contained parts of your lives is very odd and very closed off.

90% of my L’s came from making sure someone else was okay.

Consideration requires sacrifice and thinking outside of yourself for a second. People aren’t as selfless as they’d like to believe.

your life actually starts at 27; its the age where reality starts to hit. You start noticing patterns you used to ignore, bad habits, weak decisions, wasted time. And you realize some of your pain isn’t bad luck, it’s repeated mistakes. That is a hard thing to accept, but it is also where growth begins. This is the age where excuses stop feeling useful. You start being more honest with yourself. You cut down the distractions, look at your circle differently, and take more responsibility for your life. It is not fun. It can feel lonely and slow. But every small step helps you build respect for yourself. You stop drifting and start living more on purpose. These years are not supposed to be easy. They are supposed to shape you. The person you become during this window can influence the rest of your life. Stay disciplined, stay patient, and keep choosing better even when nobody is watching. If you can get through this season, you will enter your thirties stronger, clearer, and far ahead of the men who never woke up.