Chocolate
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Chocolate
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happy go lucky lady hoping for d best in life and hoping they come at their appropriate times





@jon_d_doe Please explain…






I do not support the idea of a "ho phase." But I think that is not what Àgbà John Doe is truly saying. What I think he means is that: many women under 25 struggle to commit because they tell themselves, "I am still young. I need to enjoy my youth before settling into marriage." He is not excusing or encouraging promiscuity. If that were his point, I would reject it outright. Far from it; I have zero tolerance for whoredom. That said, the timeline is flooded with men dragging non-virgin women while demanding purity from them. Who exactly is disvirgining these women? Are men somehow exempt from the same standard of purity? Every post tilts heavily against women. You demand that women remain virgins while allowing men to whore around freely. Imagine a man openly boasting that he has slept with countless women yet insists on marrying a virgin and the crowd cheers him. That is sheer stupidity and rank hypocrisy. I honor and respect chastity. Women who guard their virginity until marriage deserve genuine admiration and the highest regard. But they must never settle for men who have whored around. You cannot sleep with an entire community and then expect a woman who kept herself pure to accept you as her reward. God forbid. My direct advice to women is this: If you are still a virgin, cherish and protect that gift with everything in you. But make no mistake; do not marry a man who is not a virgin. He does not deserve you. Period. Above all, love God.



Baba, this is apt, and they fail to understand this. It doesn't necessarily translate into women being promiscuous or you encouraging women to lose their virginity. That "hoe phase" is really just youthful confusion, laced up as freedom, especially those who just got admission into the University - the fear of missing out on wild years while secretly craving stability. Many wake up past 25 with clearer heads and heavier baggage, wondering why the good ones passed them by. Growth demands owning the mistakes, not romanticizing them. Real maturity hits when she stops running from commitment and starts building with it. Good morning High Chief.


@jon_d_doe I think there is plastic one not broom one


Someone said the broom would put them off eating ewedu. Just say you don’t know good food and move on. The broom is the real ingredient here.







imagine you’re at the office and your husband sent this to you. you’ve won in life


@jon_d_doe Any man who enjoys the second hole is a potential g@y








