Mattman

All I did was not text him for 6 hours straight

i’ve had 4 serious boyfriends, 2 were genuinely porn obsessed, 1 didn’t watch it while we were dating and was celibate for 1 year before we dated, and the other hardly watched it while we were dating. the 2 that didn’t, i had bigger emotional connections with AND better sex. sooo

I’m not competing for men who watch porn. I’m not part of their dating pool bc I am inaccessible to them. I am inaccessible to them because I do not date men who watch porn. If I entered a relationship w a porn watcher under false pretenses, I would exit as soon as I’m aware.

Marrying an independent girl from the city who has male best friends and a 10+ body count, prior relationship experience and who is good in sex, is any day better than marrying an unemployed dehatan in this high-inflation market. A dehatan with zero experience in bed and no prior relationships or male friends would make your life frustrating, and you will keep cribbing all your life. The moment a dehatan gets exposed to city life, she would find it fascinating and probably cheat, run away with all the jewellery, or could even kill you. But the worst a shehri ladki would do is divorce you, take alimony, and you’re free. And how will you decide if a girl is a virgin, and what’s the probability that a virgin girl won’t cheat on you later?

Women only care about these things as long as you are on good terms. When the situation changes, she will look you in the eye and tell the world that you never did anything for her and that she was the one mothering you.

how it feels to mute a thread while everyone is yelling at me

i blocked him bc it’s been two days and he hasn’t responded

I cringe because I’ve been there. Fellas, what’s a better response to an unsolicited, “no, not tonight”?

This phase is actually very real. I was in a relationship with a guy I met at work. Even before he asked me out, I already had a crush on him, so when he finally did, I didn’t hesitate to say yes. In the beginning, everything was smooth…we were both really into each other, and we spent a lot of time together, going almost everywhere side by side. About six months into the relationship, things started to change. He began having financial issues and was constantly telling me about one problem or another. At first, I tried to be understanding, but it gradually started to get to me. Eventually, it got to the point where I was the one feeding him and even paying for his data subscription. After about a month of that, I started feeling irritated. My feelings began to shift…I wasn’t as excited around him anymore. Anytime he tried to be romantic, I felt annoyed instead of happy. Whenever I see his calls, I feel very annoyed. His “I love you” texts started feeling like he’s wasting my phone battery. I stopped visiting him because each visit became a financial burden, and I was getting tired. I couldn’t stand being around him anymore. At some point, I reached my limit and decided to end the relationship.