@temporaryphs @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski Cool! Yeah I agree with that. I think no promiscuity is best, but I do think equality is better, and the current system worst of all
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@md33181 @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski I wouldnt think promiscuity was less bad because "everyone was having an equal amount of sex" .
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The "women only want the top 10-15% of men" claim conflates two things.
Female selectivity exceeds male selectivity, which is real and well-documented. In speed-dating, women say yes to ~25-50% of men, men say yes to ~50-75% of women.
About 2x more selective, not 6-7x.
The Tinder version of female selectivity is a dating app artifact of photo-based selection, not the natural rate.
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@temporaryphs @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski Oh. But you think tinder is fine for society? Only bad for wannabe etc etc?
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@md33181 @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski A person that thinks promiscuity is gross ? Yeah I'm a social conservative that thinks the sexual revolution was a disaster.
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@md33181 @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski Its bad for the ego men that really want to get laid and realize they arent chads that can easily have ons .
Personally i dont really care how promiscuity wannabees feel about it.
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@temporaryphs @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski Again... yes? Please try to respond to what I'm saying. Tinder. Very bad force in society. If you come back with another non-sequitur I'm going to stop responding
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@md33181 @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski I think the internet period is damaging society because everyone is addicted to time wasting screens . You men are damaging eachother by psyching eachother out of even trying irl.
On the otherhand if youre smart like me you can use it to improve your life wildly.
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@temporaryphs @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski Great I mean good for you. My point is that it is damaging our society
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@md33181 @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski No I mean most women did not meattheir partner on tinder.
Clearly tinder is not the beginning and end of the line.
I met my husband on twitte r
GIF
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@md33181 @Pat_Stedman Is it? I’m not sure. Society requires different things at different times
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Correct, real world hypergamy sees the bottom 20% of men excluded not the bottom 80%. App constraints have no evolutionary basis in how women actually choose men.
Jake Kozloski@jakozloski
The "women only want the top 10-15% of men" claim conflates two things. Female selectivity exceeds male selectivity, which is real and well-documented. In speed-dating, women say yes to ~25-50% of men, men say yes to ~50-75% of women. About 2x more selective, not 6-7x. The Tinder version of female selectivity is a dating app artifact of photo-based selection, not the natural rate.
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@temporaryphs @ChestnutNjoyer @jakozloski I don't know what you think this shows? What's relevant is how many have *been through it*
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@Pat_Stedman I agree. I don’t see 80% of men being incels bc of the dating market even in polygynous dynamics/societes
From my real world experience it’s more like 50/50
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@md33181 @jakozloski Just opt out of participating in society.
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@jakozloski The social consequences of it exist regardless of whether you personally use it
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@md33181 @valhalla_dev because i am a pauper and due to animal farming subsidies i can only meet my nutrition needs by carnism.
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who knows why tech subcultures are called satanic lunatics by anyone outside of their subculture
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@nfseverin1 @DegenRepellent What makes you say this doesn't happen in real life
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@DegenRepellent Who are you quoting there lol?
The myth is that a minority of tall, attractive men are way more sexually active and that they partner with a majority of women. This is what the Chad meme, the 80/20 stat and the 6 ft meme implies, but it just doesn't happen in reality.
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"Young men foaming at the mouth because random women won't f*ck them"
This sentiment ruins the conversation. A lot resentful people are satisfied repeating myths about sexual behavior. They actually prefer it to be true, since it gives them grounds to attack "loser incels".
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This discourse matters because you have young men foaming at the mouth because random women don't want to fuck them. A lot of young guys genuinely seem to believe that Chad & the ladies are having a giant orgy that most men are not invited to. It is not normal to think that life is a 24/7 fuckfest & you're uniquely losing out 😭 Here in reality, ***most people are not sleeping around.*** That girl who didn't want you didn't want anyone!
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@valhalla_dev Actually, I don't think the point is good.. Even for plant the answer is still no. But that does seem to be the point she's making
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@valhalla_dev Actually looks like she's making quit a good point which is "if you said plant why aren't you a vegetarian"
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@thinkingshivers @tinyblue_dev There literally can’t be any progression past this point. Remember when these tech companies were dropping 300K on new grads just because they could code. Well they taught the computer to code by allowing it to copy them, but without human intuition, the models are stuck
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@tinyblue_dev I can tell you let AI do your thinking for you.
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@jakey22345 @spikestabber @kevin_jordan__ @libriscent Can't comment on men, but for women I think they want to know that you will be able to stand up for her and the family if it comes to that. If you're a pushover for her, she'll think that you can't and that will lower you in her eyes
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the autistic experience of being kind, friendly, empathetic, and instantly disliked
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