if i tell you my head hurts i don’t want you to ask me if i’ve had enough water. i want you to drop to your knees and scream “she doesn’t deserve this!!!” until god puts me out of my misery
Kind people are not dumb, they can tell when you’re unnecessary rude, they’re just not matching your energy because they don’t wanna feel like you feel. They don’t wanna be someone who projects onto others and has no control over their emotions.
My therapist said: “remember that the other side of giving your all is being empty. And if you continue to give your all, you’ll continue to be empty. Giving your all is unregulated and has no boundaries. Give your best.” WHEW.