Sean Mester
546 posts

Sean Mester
@mesterinsa
Still believe I was conceived at Woodstock, although age may count against this theory. As Hendrix once said 'Music doesn't lie..' - Live life and enjoy it NOW.
Durban - South Africa Katılım Kasım 2010
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@G_Skev Think their numbers are on the websites, I've got pawprints number
+27 60 685 0889
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@G_Skev Yes, both in KZN, paw prints based in Bothas hill (facebook.com/share/1Jysq1Pv…) and valley dogs (facebook.com/share/1D11bNaK…) you could also look at Mazarat (mazaratanimalrescue.co.za/contact-us/) , cheers Sean
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@EdinburghRugby Hopefully the ref calms down to a panic, ben very harsh on Edinburgh
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41 | Back underway in the second half, and back to a full complement.
Match updates📱: bit.ly/MunERMc
#MUNvEDI | 🦌 10 - 12 🏰
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Do you think Leinster is making a mistake relying on young Sam Prendergast for the URC Final? Would it not be better to give Ross Byrne his sendoff by starting him?
Ayanda Gcaba@YayaGcaba2
ask me anything 🫠
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@BradBinder_33 @MotoGP @KTM_Racing @BradBinder_33 see you there, looking forward to my first live MotoGP, hoping to see you on the podium, let's do it !!
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Adriaan Wildschutt continues his rise among elite track distance runners, setting a new South African record with a time of 26:50.64 in the Men’s 10,000m final at the 2024 Paris Olympics. 🇿🇦🏃♂️
#TeamSA #Olympics2024 #ForMyCountry

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Let's hear it. Who'd you want to see LIVE in South Africa? Let's see if we can make it happen. 😁 No promises though! 😜
#WishlistWednesday #BigConcerts

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I just finished listening to it from start to finish.
It is deep. And sad. And utterly beautiful. This woman can tell a story. Shoowee.
Anyway, I'm busy googling and planning my next Eras concert. Might have to sell Andrew but I want to see her live again. So we do what we must.
Yes, I'm that Swifty... and she's that good! I want to travel to some exotic location to see her again.
Whose in? Where we going?
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And just like that... it is here.
Just started listening and it is already perfection! 🤍
#THETORTUEDPOETSDEPARTMENT #TTPD

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@BrentLindeque Brent, it still amazes me that people on social media have the "right" to abuse everyone they can, yet would clam up if they met IRL, but your words have hopefully resonated with a few "special souls" that hopefully will look in the mirror - stay strong, you are inspiring people
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Thank God my mental health is in a good space.
I don’t mean that lightly. Thank the lord Jesus that my cup is full and I am in a good space.
Being in the public eye is part of my job. Being prolific on social media is par for the course. And dealing with trolls and hateful comments on a daily basis is just what I have to deal with.
I’m not joking friends.
Every. Single Day.
The most sif words.
Hate personified.
There is one person in particular, who is absolutely obsessed with me. Like batshit crazy vibes. The person replies to my posts almost every day. Sends me messages. Sometimes multiple times. With the most hateful comments. This one definitely flew over the Cuckoo’s nest.
Anyway, I mute all the meanies so I can’t see their stuff. I don’t even know that they’re commenting unless someone screenshots and sends it to me (I don’t block them as some people like to wear blocks like badges of honour, and I’m not giving them that).
It is so bizarre actually. No… being mean to strangers on the internet is properly unhinged.
But yesterday, someone went a little overboard. Like, end of a Mario game boss-level batshit crazy, unhinged.
This person took the time to create a fake email address. They then crafted a message glittered with hate and sent it to me. And then - when I didn’t reply or acknowledge it - they decided to send it to everyone who works at Good Things Guy.
░U░N░H░I░N░G░E░D░ ░I░N░ ░B░I░O░
I’m okay though. More than okay actually. Like I said, my cup is full, and my mental health is in a really good space, so I’m unaffected by messages like this.
I mean, I’m a gay guy who grew up in a very homophobic world and have had the most awful things said to me in my lifetime (mainly by a younger version of me, who hadn’t taught those voices in my head to be kinder).
So I can handle words. They don’t scare me.
Water. Ducks Back. That thing.
Also, I’m from the South. Do you know the kind of supportive system I have? We don’t play games where I’m from. And we don’t bring words to a fight.
So why am I telling you this?
Because most people are hanging on by a thin, thin thread, and the wrong words could push them over the edge. Some people might not be strong enough today. Some might not be able to handle unnecessary hate thrown at them.
Friends, we need to be more careful with our words.
So what do we do?
Well, we remember that people can only meet you as far as they’ve met themselves, and some people still have a very long road to go… like a really, really long highway kinda road. So your job is to let them go.
When they project their stuff onto you, remember it’s about them and no one else. Let them go and hang out with the hate they harbour.
And you do you, boo. With a happy heart.
You see, we are all growing and becoming, but some of us are stuck. Stuck in a moment. Stuck in anger, stuck in sadness, stuck in a position where we hate ourselves, stuck in jealousy, stuck in a horrid, dark, mean place. People can only meet you as far as they’ve met themselves.
And stuck people, are just stuck with themselves.
Perhaps if we realise that people’s words and actions have nothing to do with us and everything to do with themselves, then it will be easier to understand… and ultimately easier to ignore.
Let them go be stuck. And we just continue to be happy.
How profound?
But I need to circle back to the thin-thin thread thing.
Even though we now understand why people are mean, perhaps we still need to reach out to help each other. There are some people whose cups are not full today, so we need to be kinder than necessary and needed to everyone we meet. We have no idea what people are dealing with.
And to the humans who are still choosing to be kak:
Stop being mean to strangers on the internet (or even people you know in real life). Dealing with your own struggles shouldn't come at someone else's expense. Your hate adds no value to the world. Like, that email you sent yesterday went straight into the trash can. And then my entire team (and various Whatsapp groups laughed at your expense). Random stranger, your hate made us laugh.
Also, I’m from the South.
Okay. Love you. Bye.
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@WayneBarnesRef Brilliant career and a rugby man throughout, clarity and communication being his tools of trade, enjoy your retirement Wayne 👍🏻
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