Calla Verde (Soft Findomme)

*To note, this is a screenshot from a Discord server where everyone is verified before entering. Before step 1 is AV, always.

Sub bucket list: someone who will read what books I want him to read. Yes, read that feminist literature. Yes, summarize it for me in your own words. This feels like a pipe dream, though.

I swear some subs will act a fool in these dommes' DMs because they WANT their screenshots posted. I would not be surprised if they were getting off on that, for free.

I need this website to show me more fellow soft dommes, please. 🙏

@Her_Opulence This is so sweet. 🥲 (Also, please don't mind me; I'm trying to engage with dommes whose online presence I respect in hopes the algorithm shows me more like this. It's a shit show on my feed right now!)

I said engagement would be trash on a Saturday he said "I want you to have a triple digit angel number anyway" 🥹🫦

@Her_Opulence Thank you for reminding me I need a day like this! Perhaps tomorrow, especially the copious tea part. :)

I've had a day that is solely for Me. I have painted, I have rested and I have drunk copious amounts of tea. It's your turn to continue this day of Me. Ding dong the👀ne is calling.

@Her_Opulence This is so beautiful.

The painting in question.

@mooshsub I love this for you. I was just talking about how much I want to dom someone into doing a skincare routine, picking out the products and everything. Don't forget sunscreen!

My New Year’s resolution was to have a better skin care routine. It’s now May and I’m still going with it, which I’m actually quite proud of 😂

@MadiTheMuse I wish more dommes like you showed up in my feed. Just spent a few minutes scrolling through your posts. This is the content subs need to see; insightful musings from intelligent women.

The most devoted subs are rarely the loudest ones. Usually they are the ones who quietly become woven into your routines over time, paying close enough attention to care for you properly. Service becomes very intimate when someone consistently shows up for your comfort, happiness, and peace of mind.

Per true bdsm, dommes, especially soft ones, know that dominant ≠ cruel and mean (unless that is a dynamic they wish to establish), and that having morals and ethics ≠ too nice to be a domme.

The thing about findom is I don't need their money; I'm comfortable on my own. I like controlling a sub's life, giving them tasks, getting proof they're doing said tasks. Their eagerness to do well and show me. God, it's so fun. 💅

@Christoph542168 A green flag for a sub. I attracted the most loyal and respectful sub I ever had not even showing my face.

Mir ist das Aussehen einer Herrin völlig egal. Es ist ihr Charakter und ihre natürliche Dominanz, die sie zur attraktivsten Frau überhaupt macht.

@thenabastet This is such a good question and I'm sat with popcorn and nodding to all the answers.

You get approached by a sub and start to vet him by looking at his replies, reposts, etc. He seems pleasant and respectful, tributes properly, but his reposts are full of red pill, misogynistic, r*cist rhetoric, truly vile stuff. Do you A: refuse his servitude, B: drain him for all he’s worth and drop him immediately after, C: take him on as a personal project and try to sway his opinions?

I wish the universe would suck up all the subs who weaponize incompetence. Dommes, immediately block these fools. They are not true finsubs.

A true sub knows matriarchy is the way.

People misunderstand tribute. It isn’t obligation. It’s intention, expressed clearly. #ThoughtfulTuesday #OnlyIfYouDeserveIt

Being soft doesn't mean a domme can't be strict or stern with you. 😏

When dommes are warm and kind to other dommes <3

And mid-to-late-20s isn't even old like damn. 30 isn't either. 35 isn't either. Ladies, we haven't even hit our peak!

Was having a convo with another domme about how society's obsession with looking young/men's obsession with younger women is deeply rooted in ped*philia. To think I was scared to hit my mid-20s because of this brainwashing, but now that I'm here I see that aging is a privilege.