@Bethelofenugu Yeaaah, honestly. Especially for ppl that need their alone time to recharge. Plus it actually creates space to miss each other. That 24/7 ish will drain ya battery real quick.
I think having a lover, not a boyfriend, not a husband, just a lover who pursues you and cares about you and you're obsessed with each other but live separately without societal pressure is so elegant and very intoxicating.
people who go silent when something upsets or hurts them, experience a coping mechanism called emotional withdrawal. It's not that they have nothing to say, it's bc their system learned that silence is safer than being misunderstood. Instead of expressing anger, they hold it in