Mary
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How to find a girl everywhere:
- Dress well and take care of your body. It changes how you carry yourself.
- Have genuine interests and a life worth talking about.
- Be a good listener. Nobody wants to sit across from a guy narrating his own accomplishments. It's boring and it screams insecurity.
- Compliment her, but only if you mean it. If you went out with her, there's probably something you like. Maybe it's her smile. Maybe it's her sweetness. Say that.
- Most important: be a good man. Never let a girl walk home alone. Call her an Uber or walk with her. Even if the date went badly. Especially if the date went badly.
- Thank her for her time. Time is the one thing nobody gets back.
Linda Chen@linderps
how to find a gf in sf: - dress nicely. no tech bro logos. style your hair, wear a nicely fitted tee, go to the gym - go where she goes. farmer's markets, coffee shops, dinner parties. get a sexy hobby - say hi. compliment her style, her bag, her hair. find out what she's doing there. dont bring up AI or agents lastly, don't give up. you don't find her by waiting, you find her by trying. good luck 🫶
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@mxryboo neets are starting to look like the smartest people on this planet
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you’re describing a neet
Esluva 🎀@Vesper_2005
The smartest people do nothing for hours everyday
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Best Cities in the World for 2026:
1. Melbourne, Australia 🇦🇺
2. Shanghai, China 🇨🇳
3. Edinburgh, United Kingdom 🇬🇧
4. London, United Kingdom 🇬🇧
5. New York City, United States 🇺🇸
6. Cape Town, South Africa 🇿🇦
7. Mexico City, Mexico 🇲🇽
8. Bangkok, Thailand 🇹🇭
9. Seoul, South Korea 🇰🇷
10. Tokyo, Japan 🇯🇵
Do you agree with this list?
Are you currently living in any of these cities?
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The main motivation for a man to get money should be to protect those he loves. If your spouse or parents have a health issue, you want to afford the best treatment. If your kids want to practice a sport or attend a specific college, you want to make that possible.
Same logic applies to fitness. A man should know how to fight and be physically capable. The people you love deserve someone who can stand between them and danger without hesitation.
Same with knowledge. You want to help the people you love solve a problem, learn something new, navigate something hard. You want to sit down and actually help your kids study.
Money, strength and knowledge give love additional weight.
Mary@mxryboo
money should be your 2nd priority, your 1st priority should always be being esoteric
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I fully agree with you Mary. I actually wrote about this topic in my upcoming book Whispers of the Wizard. This is what i wrote:
Those who are easily impressed by shiny things often mistake appearance for true value. Flashy displays of wealth, status and spectacle can dazzle the eyes, distracting them from looking deeper where a lack of depth often hides beneath the surface. The wise soul sees through what glitters on the outside and looks carefully for what truly shines within. There is nothing wrong with enjoying beautiful things, but it is wise to be wary of those who are easily impressed by them, for it often reveals what they truly value in life.
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@mxryboo this is what I did through my 20s.
I now realize the boss move was to do both concurrently
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money should probably be seen more as something that helps us live, not something we build our whole life around
Mary@mxryboo
money should be your 2nd priority, your 1st priority should always be being esoteric
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