My Salafi Spouse

The Importance of Marrying a Salafi Spouse: Imrān Ibn Hittān was one of Ahlus Sunnah, and he married a Khāriji woman in order to set her straight, but then he ended up becoming one of the leaders of the Khawaarij. [Siyār A’laam an-Nubala’ by Imām al-Dhahabi, 2/214]

Imām Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said: “The righteous woman is one who is devout, constantly obedient to her husband (in that which is good). There's no right after the right of Allāh and His Messenger ﷺ more obligated upon her than the right of the husband.” 📚 •Majmū‘ al-Fatāwā

Imām Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said: “Whoever needs to get married and fears hardship (i.e., falling into sin) if he leaves it, then marriage is obligatory upon him according to the majority of Ulemā (scholars).” 📚 •Majmū‘ al-Fatāwā [32/146]

Imām Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said: “The truest love is when your love for someone makes you fear for their Akhirah more than your own desires.” 📚 •Rawdat al-Muhibbīn

Imām Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said: “Marriage is among the greatest needs for the soul; rather, it is one of its essential necessities.” 📚 •Madārij as-Sālikīn

Imām Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said: “Whoever avoids marriage out of fear of poverty or hardship has fallen into the deception of Shaytān.” 📚 •Majmūʿ al-Fatāwā 32/263

Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “A man may dislike his wife for some reason, but he shows patience, and Allāh creates a lot of good in this, and the dislike turns into love…” [Liqā’āt al-Bāb al-Maftooh]

DON'T RAISE YOUR VOICE AT EACHOTHER 🗣️ Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “Indeed, raising of the wife's voice towards her husband and vice-versa is from evil manners.” ● {فتاوى نور على الدرب}

Shaykh Sulaymān ar-Ruhayli حفظه الله said: “The RIGHTEOUS MAN knows he has been MADE RESPONSIBLE for his WIFE, and he will be QUESTIONED about HER. So, he EXERTS himself in ADVISING her and FULFILLING her RIGHTS because he knows this is from TAQWA of ALLĀH.” 📚 •Ḥaqq az-Zawjayn

⚠️ Reminder: This is a fabricated Hadeeth (Da'īfah no. 3274) being spread via social media. Shaykh al-Albānī رحمه الله said: “It is not allowed to spread Ahādeeth nor narrate them without verification of their authenticity.” 📚 •Ad-Da'īfah (1/51)

Imām Fudayl Ibn Iyād رحمه الله said: “If a man marries a woman for her Deen (religion), Allāh will give him what he desires from her, but if he marries her for her beauty or wealth, Allāh will leave him to that.” 📚 •Sharh as-Sunnah al-Baghawī

Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “A religious woman is an honest one. When her husband is absent, she will not betray him. Also, she will care for his wealth, children, and family.” 📚 •Sharḥ Bulūgh al-Marām

Spend Generously On Your Family! 💐🌸 Ibrahīm al-Nakha‘ī رحمه الله said: “They (the early Salaf) did not like having many household possessions and belongings, but they liked spending generously on their families.” (Tāreekh Yahya Ibn Ma‘īn)

Imām Sufyān ath-Thawrī رحمه الله said: “Whoever gets married has boarded the sea.” 🌊⛴️ 📚—Tadhkirat al-Sāmiʿ [p. 36] •He compared marriage to sailing the sea, because the sea does not remain in one state, so the person must be prepared to endure all that comes with it.

Shaykh Salih al-Fawzan حفظه الله said: “A woman who gets married to a man who takes care of her, maintains her, protects her, and she gives birth to righteous children, even if she is the 4th wife, is better than her remaining a widow or unmarried.” •لزّوجين ٢٠٠ سؤال وجواب• 📚

The wife of Abū Muhammad al-Fārisi رحمه الله used to wake him up at night (for Tahajjud) and say: “Get up, my beloved, for surely the road is long and we have little provision. And the caravans of the righteous have passed before us and we have remained behind.” صفة الصفوة — 📚

MARRY A SALAFI SPOUSE! Imām Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said: “The one who marries a person of Bid’ah (innovation) is exposed to their evil and may be harmed in his [practise of] Deen (religion) because of it.” 📚 •Majmū‘ al-Fatāwā (28/212)

𝘏𝘦 ﷺ 𝘞𝘢𝘴 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘛𝘰 𝘏𝘪𝘴 𝘞𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴! Imām Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said: “The Prophet ﷺ was the kindest of people to his wives, the best of them in companionship, and the most generous of them in spending.” 📚 •Zād al-Maʿād (1/154)

The Harms of Marrying the Wrong Person 🥀 Imām al-Shāfiʿī رحمه الله said: “I heard one of our friends, whom I trust, say: ‘I got married to protect my Deen (religion), but I lost my religion, my mother’s religion, and the religion of my neighbours.’” 📚 •Manāqib al-Shāfiʿī

Marry A Man Who Has Deen & Akhlāq! 🌸 Shaykh Al-Albāni رحمه الله: “It is upon her [a woman considering a potential husband] to look out for his [level of] practise of the Deen (religion) and his [level of good] Akhlāq (character).” [Silsilah Al-Huda wa-l-Nūr]

Imām Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said: “The righteous woman is devout and constantly obedient to her husband (in that which is good). There is no right after the right of Allāh & His Messenger ﷺ that is more obligatory upon her than the right of her husband.” 📚 •Majmū‘ al-Fatāwā