Prisca Chibueze

whenever that wave of grief and sadness hits you because it will, don't mistake it for going back to square one. It's simply a reminder that you're human and that healing isn't always linear. Your heart needs time to let go of what it once called home.

@Yena_I_Am You can disagree with someone without calling them a liar. What you experienced in a relationship and how it ended is your story, not theirs. People can go through the same situation and come out with completely different experiences.

@nenysca That's abig lie.

that breakup isn't a punishment. it's God's way of protecting you and making room for the life you deserve. What feels like heartbreak today may be the very thing that saves you from a lifetime of misery.

@_Gottalovezik Exactly

i've noticed the best way to get someones attention is to not want it anymore

@mimieyo The moment you see yourself begging to be loved, and to be treated right, that's your sign to WALK

You should NEVER beg to be loved, whether male or female. Selah

@TheRealMotase Sadly

In the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girl asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.

@_Bongekile_ Absolutely 💯

I think consideration is one of the purest forms of romance.

@TheOnlyKemi Someone who is for you will NEVER leave 📌

I remember the first day I met my husband 😭 I billed him on our first date. He paid for my Uber. I ate food worth over 100k and he still got me takeaways. A week later, I billed him for a wig. He came through too 😂 Before meeting him, I had already decided I was done being the “understanding girlfriend.” I wasn’t going to stress myself trying to earn love anymore. Whoever wanted to stay would stay. For the first 2 months of dating, I didn’t cook for him. I didn’t do his laundry. I didn’t clean his house. Yet within those same 2 months: He introduced me to his family. He met mine. We did our introduction. It was only after that I started doing the little things naturally. We got married in the 3rd month. Today, we’re 6 years married with kids and I have zero regrets ❤️ The funny thing is that before him, I had been in relationships where I was cooking, washing clothes, cleaning houses, doing everything imaginable… And they still left. That’s when I learned something: What works for one woman may not work for another. Doing the most won’t make someone stay. Doing the least won’t make the right person leave. Sometimes, the people who want you make it easy. And the people who don’t… no amount of sacrifice will convince them. Who will stay, will stay.

When I say it, you will say I’m spreading hate. Relationship with men automatically puts you on a losing streak, therefore if you want to enter such relationships, he should be aware and ready to even the playing field for you. Entering horrible relationships with no mental, emotional and physical benefits just because of “Love” would set your generation back 100 years. Enter relationship/marraiges like a business partnership, calculate the probable loss and gain using facts and precedence. STOP USING EMOTIONS TO DECIDE YOUR FUTURE.

relationships are so simple. If it hurts your partner, don't do it. If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it. If you have to hide it from your partner, don't do it. If you haven't figured this out yet - GROW UP.

To stop overcompensating and to walk away from the first sign of disrespect 📌

@Obaloluwa0 Sure 💯

@nenysca Vice versa

don't get attached to any man. because the moment he knows you can't leave, he'll stop trying. you'll beg for the bare minimum. you'll lose your mind, while he sleeps like nothing happened.

@KatapillarK 📌

People cheat because they're cheaters... Not because you can't cook, or you didn't give enough sex, or you got into an argument... There's nothing someone can do differently to not get cheated on except find someone who isn't interested in cheating.

You don't always need words to understand your place in someone's life. Sometimes, the answer is hidden in what they don't do, the conversations they try to avoid, the distance they never make an effort to close and the silence they let grow without concern. Little by little, you start to realise that when someone truly values your presence, they don't watch things fall apart without trying. Because people make time, effort and space for what genuinely matters to them.

@sneminaj 💯💯

sometimes you just gotta say “someone who truly values me would never do this” and move on