There is something on how the issue with mainstream het romance is that it relies on gender roles (all the times misogynistic) so it's fun see a dynamic allowing explore past those enforced roles.
Issue for many people their hetgems is, heteronormativity but she hits him.
The fact that so many players haven't realized that this message is from Kafka leaves me speechless and only reinforces the idea that the fandom is completely blinded by her fanon characterization.