Nicole Daedone

Are We A Match? A wise skill for humans, specifically women, is the clear articulation of who you are and what you are about. This saves a lot of difficulties in the future and allows you to curate with salience in the present. There is no lack of your kind; they simply need a clear enough signal to find you. The “not a fit” ones need a clear signal that they will not be happy here, and it’s best to move on so that they can find their kind, too. Not pretending to be anything other than who you are is the friendliest thing you can do for everyone. The only reason one might do that is if they have fallen under the delusion of scarcity. Don’t do that. There is no need to assert your identity or conceal it; just be you. This being said, as more people have started following me, I genuinely want to ensure that you are in the right place, that what I offer will be beneficial, and that our conversations will be lively and interesting. Good lord, I do not understand why people come into a comment section to say stupid shit. Yes! Bring up valid points, debate, and dialogue. We both are the better for that and all benefit. But blanket statements about “calling bullshit” or the other self-important things people—especially women—do when they are “triggered.” Move along, little buckaroo. You can now gather that I am not everyone’s cup of tea. So much the better. It makes a stronger cup of tea. I’ve been called many things in the media. Behind my back. Online. Oddly, never to my face. Oh wait, that is not so “oddly.” To clarify: I am an opinionated, passionate, money-where-my-mouth-is, hardcore practitioner, deeply compassionate (including fierce compassion), deeply committed woman who believes that the purpose of life is to get out of suffering, the causes of suffering and to help others get out of suffering—and most specifically that the route for women involves the activation, realization, and employment of sexual energies. If any of the above triggers you, feel free to do ‘yo thang,’ do it well, and I bid you adieu. To add, I have a bawdy and direct sense of humor; I suffer no fools, and I am in no way in agreement with the recent enfeebling of humans – especially women – with the helicopter culture rules that might be called political correctness. If “safe spaces,” “trigger warnings,” and “religious beliefs” are part of your psychic lexicon, we are not a fit. Swipe left. I am interested in people who want radical engagement and participation in the world, who do not devolve to cynicism easily, who are cosmonauts interested in mystical states but don’t identify with the “medicine” crowd; those who don’t identify with much really because they have some fundamental notion that identity is the issue. The people I want to curate for see play as a high state of consciousness and seek out 5D chess boards, the most complex of which is how to end human suffering. I am interested in the all-terrain people who fearlessly enter any realm with equal and simultaneous attention—from the dark alleys to the transcendent heights, those who love the incarcerated, question the spiritual authorities, and delight when they discover a new access point. The faint of heart will not be happy here, but those whose hearts tremble with fierce compassion for all will. I like junkies, strippers, the marginalized, Vajrayana, erotic activists, trippers, infinite players, and lovers. If bad reputations, cancellations, or fears of guilt by association plague you, I am definitely not your gal. If that is not you, then there are superb places to go. I’ve been to many and have tremendous respect for the domains that specialize in the “healing” modalities. I can even suggest excellent places I’ve visited, books I’ve read, and thought leaders I’ve listened to. Gabor Maté is very sincere, Vipassana and Zen are beautiful, Brené Brown and Anne Lamott are genuine and kind-hearted. Let me know if you want recommendations. And this is a great off-ramp. Now that it is just the two of us, three of us, or four. Let’s rock this world. Let’s grab the livewire of the creative force and show them what they’ve never seen. I believe that the ones who do not fit in the box, tricksters and bandits of the dharma, the lusty ones, bad girls, and wild horses could and should lead the charge. All the people who have colored outside the lines are the most potent because they did not sell their souls and power to fit into the girdle of propriety. I believe that when all resources and gifts are shared with well-vetted, like-minded people who are geared for intelligent benefit, what could be called magic – but is really just alignment – happens. Let me know how you want to play, and let’s get on with the business at hand. Love you.

The healing of trauma occurs as a byproduct of accessing the mystical state.

The War On Sex is the same playbook we’ve seen before with the War On Drugs. What rides in on seemingly virtuous ambition ends up harming the people it purports to want to help.

January 31st, 2026 "Funny, great, wonderful morning where I woke up and thought, “Oh, I feel heavy. Okay, well, Eeyore ho hum, I will go through the endless practices I do all day long.” And that is so strange, because yesterday was so buoyant and light, and now I feel like I am going to cry with this heavy chest." nicoledaedone.substack.com/p/you-kept-you…

The thing that ties everything I touch together is one principle: Eros. It's how I take what the culture calls poison and turn it into medicine. Addiction. Food insecurity. Prisons. Consumerism. The way we treat women and marginalized people. And sexuality. Sexuality isn't the problem. The problem is what we've reduced it to: violation, procreation, or recreation. With conventional eyes, we're only able to see these things in terms of "bad" and "less bad." But the signature of Eros is the ability to see the places others treat as disposable as the places with the highest potential. We elevate them as the superior path. When I design, I'm always asking: What does this want to be? What is the most realized form of this issue or this system? If it had all the tools and resources it needed to become what it actually is, what would it turn into? We take what's considered disposable and we make it artful. I always say: when a project I helped create is complete, everybody will want it, even though it was the thing no one wanted before. And I'm doing all of this with an eye on what's coming next. The near future. The AI singularity. Because I believe we're headed into a world that will be different by orders of magnitude from anything we've known. People are going to need real 21st-century skills: adaptability, resourcefulness, the ability to play with obstacles, like ginga, that capoeira principle where you don't meet force head-on, you move with it. People will need hyperfocus. They'll need the ability to navigate their own mind creatively. And what we've called "altered states," flow state, out-of-body experiences, the ability to move consciousness, those are going to become some of the most prized skills on earth. So we decided to make something very simple and very radical: to demonstrate what a world run by Eros would look like. Because when Eros is at the center, your baseline experience becomes surplus. And what flows from you carries that signal. This isn't navel-gazing. It isn't self-improvement for its own sake. The litmus test of the practice is: what actual, hands-on benefit does it bring to the misunderstood, the cast out, the persecuted? And benefit means this: how well does it transform those people into the greatest asset of society. That's the radical proposition. Not just "fix them." Not just "help them." Make them the leaders. Make them the guides. Make them the ones who show us the way into a more compassionate, more connected world.

Her signal is what steers the world. If her signal is not clear, you will have chaos.

So proud of Free Food Harlem being shared about on the House floor today. What ties together all the endeavors I touch is that they are built according to the principle of Eros, which takes poison—addiction, food insecurity, prisons, sexuality and its various encumbered expressions of violation, procreation, and recreation, impersonal consumerism, and our view of women and marginalized people—and transforms it into medicine. The signature is not just making it “not bad” or better, but recognizing these dimensions of humanity as those with the greatest potential and elevating them to the superior path. When I design, I ask the question: What does this want to be? What is the most realized form of this issue or system, if it had all the tools and resources it needed to transform into that which transforms? We take what is considered disposable and use it to make something artful. I always say that when one of our projects is complete, everyone will want it, even though it was what no one wanted before. All of this is done with an eye toward the near future—the AI Singularity—aimed at preparing the hearts, souls, and minds of people for what I believe will be different by orders of magnitude from anything we’ve seen. People will need 21st-century skills: adaptability, resourcefulness, the ability to play with obstacles (ginga), hyperfocus, and the capacity to navigate the mind in creative ways. What we call “out-of-body” experiences, or facility with altered states—the flow state—will be among the most prized skill sets.

While I cannot speak in person, it is so meaningful to be able to be connected. Enjoy my talk to the Women Over Dinner last night, spoken by my AI avatar. 90 women joined around the table to share in food, connection, and power. Free women free women.

When did the regret and retroactive withdrawal of consent start? When @ellenhuet jumped on the #metoo movement to write a takedown article, not from journalistic integrity (which she has admitted later she left out many crucial facts and did not get the true story), but from her roommate ? What was "journalist" @ellenhuet supposed to do when her source Mike Safyan of @planet is actually her housemate? Give up her story, report it to her Standards Editor @lszelenko to decide, or move forward and hope no one notices? One thing about this case, it is not the that verdict validates your story, but only demonstrates the grave consequences of FALSE REPORTING and the ramifications it can have on peoples lives. But the truth always comes out.

aside from the exchanges about women's anatomy, my favorite moment so far was when one witness suggested @NicoleDaedone was living a life of luxury by drinking Pellegrino instead of tap water

How an Orgasmic Meditation Group Sparked a Troubled Federal Case vanityfair.com/style/story/on…

Thank you @VanityFair

Congress member accuses FBI agent handling 'orgasmic meditation' cult case of fabricating evidence trib.al/3QmwnjM

Thank your for having us @DrPhil

Thank you @FmrRepMattGaetz

Thank you @DrPhil and @LoniCoombs

🙏🏼 revolver.news/2025/04/netfli…

Feeling grateful. Ready for the true story to be told. nytimes.com/2025/04/04/nyr…

OneTaste was EVERYWHERE for a while. Its founder, @NicoleDaedone, appeared on the Goop podcast with Gwyneth Paltrow. Khloe Kardashian called orgasmic meditatation — or OMing — "the key to ultimate satisfaction" ....