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@Birdsnatcher123 @ProxyFreak It's not a big deal bc you unlock arousal abort and multi-climax first, so sex isn't half your life by the time anything physically goes away. My outcome is likely a result of my rapidly finishing my fantasy may and then getting bored with sex and deep into work

@nillkitty @ProxyFreak Jesus Christ. Well shit I’m never transitioning in that case idk what I’d do without Professional Jr. down there. This idea horrifies me.

Have you noticed how transwomen cant seem to decide between calling it a 'girldick' or a 'gock'? This is actually super interesting cause we're seeing these slang terms evolve & compete in real time. Gock comes from the abbreviation for Girlcock, & the shorter form may be why it

Every #carwash i find except one in Emporia VA either makes you wash their car in their automated bullshit or feed quarters into 25 y/o vacuums. Even if you're willing to pay for the auto wash, they have no way to allow you to skip it. I just want to swipe a card and get suction.

Do you remember the first time you inadvertantly cursed? Back when "hell" was a bad word, I remember saying "where the hell did you get that?" When I was five and saw my brother playing a Sega Genesis that I didn't know he had yet.

@AOCUnchecked @how2becomecute @Redacte20094317 @nyaraVT Not only offered free drinks in bars, gotten roses from strangers, "ma'am" and the door held by Southern men, endless compliments from women in the women's room w/o any prereqs or conflict, BUT i also get needlessly pregtested before xrays & asked by dr's when my last period was

@how2becomecute @Redacte20094317 @nillkitty @nyaraVT They get to play sports against other women. They get to be occasionally aggressive and not have the shit beat out of them. They get free drinks in bars. People tend to be nice to them. All the things you demand. without being nice first or spending hours on your appearance

“You sound like a man” > blame testosterone “Your adam’s apple is visible” > blame testosterone “You have big upper muscles” > blame testosterone If you want trans women to “look and sound like cis women,” then advocate for puberty blockers, not harass and shame us.

@AOCUnchecked @how2becomecute @Redacte20094317 @nyaraVT So if a trans woman did sufficiently look like a woman to your sensibilities, how would you ever know? Do you get into fleeting relationships with all your kids teachers/doctors and anyone else you trust just to make sure they have the junk you expect? lol

@how2becomecute @Redacte20094317 @nillkitty @nyaraVT its fairly obvious that most of you make no real effort to be women. You don't look like women. you dont act like women. You just walk into the womens room swinging your dicks yelling "im a woman so you can suck me off if you're a lesbian"

It doesn't work like that. You can take all the hormones you can find, you won't feel different that same day Feeling like yourself isn't the same thing as feeling happy either. I'm way healthier/happier overall bc my priorities shifted but I'm way more emotional over sad things.

@nillkitty @1th1rt33n3 @nyaraVT first that sounds made up because you want it to be true. Second its the "everyone else" on the HRT train who are the problem. Just because you couldn't find coke and heroin to be addicted to, doesn't mean you get to take a hit of hormones whenever you feel down.

@Laythe_li_suwi @rose_jlab @obiwanjewnobi Well yeah but a valid will can outline who gets possession of the body. If you parents are going to desecrate the wishes of their child they shouldn't have the body. They can use whatever words they want with an empty box. Don't let them take your closure.

@nillkitty @rose_jlab @obiwanjewnobi family can just ignore that y'know

@Birdsnatcher123 @ProxyFreak I stopped calling it that when it went concave bc ppl effectively can no longer find it, identity what it is, was, or what happened to it and there are too many eager bottoms that expect a non-negative length when they hear about their favorite part of this complete breakfast.

@ProxyFreak Gock is groomer coded and girldick is agp coded. True trans women call it a penis

@ProxyFreak Haven't you ever seen @ItsTourettesGuy? "DICK. Or COCK.".

@0xCAFEBEEF My Canadian friend gets virtually everything covered by various governments including voice coaching and hair removal. Never have i ever had such resentment

american trans women are so lucky, they get so much of their surgeries covered by insurance and earn way more, meanwhile i'm like "of i save half of my income, i might be able to afford rib remodelling before i'm 40"

@1th1rt33n3 @AOCUnchecked @nyaraVT Intersex people can also begin to live life normally, hit piberty, and find out that the body is developing to match the sex that they *didn't* commit to. At that point you're socially on the transition train with everyone else, even though youre not on HRT and didn't want this

@AOCUnchecked @nillkitty @nyaraVT Intersex people can, in every case I can think of off the top of my head, live a totally healthy and normal life with whatever reproductive organs they were born with. So the parents choosing a surgery to make them look one way or the other IS like cutting off a healthy limb.

Why is "need to survive" your idea of how severe something has to be before you let your family get treatment for it? It's like you don't believe that anyone else can speak for their own body.. why projecting so hard? What is it in *your* life that you were told you couldn't change? My guess is you'll always be an asshole to people you can't relate with even though you *can* change that. Because someone scared you away from improving yourself when you were seemingly more impressionable than you are now. Luckily i grew up on the Internet and know not to pay mind to people that are living a lower quality of life than me, so my involvement here is purely for my own amusement. Have fun living in Mayberry. you're really lucky that you can be sure none of your kids or their kids will tell you about their gender or queerness until you're in a box and can't talk back, or in the home where you won't have to worry about anything society realized we were wrong about and changed after 1986.

Women with menopause don’t need hrts to survive yet again another false equivalency. Ontop of all that she isn’t trying to transition to a man she still claims to be a women no matter her looks. What I’m saying is no matter how much you look like a woman you will never be a woman because you were born a man and that shit goes way deeper than your looks all the way to your bones.

@jo_bartosch I love us all having the same parties but if we *had* to split things out to make it easier for cishet people, I would put LGB pan and ace on flag 1 (orientation) and trans on flag 2 along with diabetes, hypothyroidism, anemia, GHD, and Hypogonadism (treatable chemical deficits)

A lot of people still don’t realise the LGB want a divorce from the TQ+

@KossKelir I would invite you to things if I had things to invite you to. I kind of fell out of the loop with the party scene when i stopped hosting them and every con since my girl died has been me forgetting that i need to pursue those connections before the shit begins.

I know there are a few people who being purposeful about this. I can bring myself to forgive someone and may have already done that. But when this keeps happening, How could I possibly keep forgiving? No one says anything to me, so I cant even find reassurance and relax.

I feel I am being specifically excluded from specific social gatherings. I'm aware of this when I find everyone i know including my closer friends see invitations or attend them and I hear nothing. I am sad and upset about this and i don't think ill ever get better.

@vBurnsey @nyaraVT Uh oh, here's where we find out once again that you've been Anthony Weiner this entire time.

@nillkitty @nyaraVT You think someone sending pics of themselves is worse than mutilating themselves in pursuit of a delusion they can never fully achieve?

@vBurnsey @nyaraVT Yes that validation is called lab testing.. the same lab tests your memopausal wife gets every so often..or would you deny her HRT, tell her to succumb to the insane discomfort of sex hormone mismatch and not to worry about her upper lip bc she will never be a man?

@nillkitty @nyaraVT No makeup or surgeries could ever make you a true woman. Unlike biological women, you need validation to affirm your delusion. Which is another issue.

@vBurnsey @nyaraVT And no the worst version of a man is the version that can't get control of a camera without taking pictures of their dick and sending it to people. That human trait literally serves no purpose but to deplete time energy and resources.

It’s an anomaly. Like a person being born without a foot, does that mean every other person after that is born without a foot.. the answer would be no. Even with all that bullshit being said you cannot change your sex and you will never be a woman. You don’t have the capacity to give birth and you never have. Quit trying to turn being a woman into a Halloween costume. You are in fact the worst version of a man. So good job on that.

@vBurnsey @nyaraVT All I'm saying is If your doctor diagnosed your kid with diabetes you wouldn't throw out their meds and yell at them to get their head out of their ass because you refuse to believe that blood glucose is one of many possible values on a chemically influenced analog spectrum.

@nillkitty @nyaraVT Intersex is an anomaly, it’s not a gender/sex category. Why should we pander to 1.5% of the population? Men can be bit feminine women can be a bit manly. But you can’t change your sex and you will never be a woman.