i would just like to clarify, anytime i say “i love *insert band member here*” i do not mean it in a “i will pay money to acquire their phone number and address” way. i mean it in the “omg i love that stray cat” way.
lets use this stacy situation to remind everyone that YOUR IDOLS ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS! no matter how many times theyve noticed you or you met them, they are an artist, you are a fan. thats your relationship and its not healthy to need/try to forcefully have more.