nonenath

move back to the town that you grew up on after leaving it for 25 years itu itungannya "pindah" atau "pulang"?

Life begins at 40. The rest was just research. Until 40, most people are running experiments. You test your body with late nights, junk food, skipped workouts. You test your mind with stress, comparison, shortcuts. You test relationships, careers, beliefs. Some experiments fail quietly. Some leave scars. That phase was not a mistake. It was data collection. At 40, something shifts. You finally know what doesn’t work. You know which habits drain you and which ones build you. You know which people cost you peace and which ones give it back. You know your body’s warning signs. You know the price of ignoring sleep, movement, and discipline. Youth runs on hormones and hope. Midlife runs on wisdom and intention. At 40, you stop chasing excitement and start choosing stability with strength. You don’t want chaos anymore. You want clarity. You don’t want motivation. You want systems. This is when health becomes non-negotiable. Not to look good. But to stay independent. To keep joints working, memory sharp, libido alive, confidence intact. You realise muscle is not vanity. It’s insurance. Sleep is not laziness. It’s medicine. Boundaries are not arrogance. They’re survival. Career-wise, this is when depth beats speed. You may not run the fastest anymore, but you know the route. You stop proving. You start producing. You focus on leverage, not hustle. Fewer moves. Better moves. Emotionally, 40 is freedom. You stop needing approval. You stop explaining yourself. You stop arguing with people committed to misunderstanding you. You finally understand this truth: Energy is limited. Spend it wisely. The most beautiful part? At 40, you still have time. Enough time to rebuild health. Enough time to correct mistakes. Enough time to create wealth, meaning, and legacy. But now you have context. You don’t waste decades repeating the same errors. Life before 40 teaches you what not to do. Life after 40 is where you do it right. So if you’re 40 or approaching it, understand this clearly: You’re not late. You’re not declining. You’re not finished. You’re finally qualified. The research phase is over. Now begins the application.

happy happy new year!

honestly, wedding is such an introvert nightmare. especially their own 🤣 and the sensory overloads, omg i can't 🛌

paham sih, ning tep ae lara ati

ini juga anjir iya banget 😭 *dendamkesumat

astaga iya banget 😭

can't get over how good bf looked on our vc last night 😆😆😆

Karena kliennya adalah lembaga akreditasi, bukan mahasiswa

brengsek kenapa lucu 😂

“keibuan” is adjective I never thought someone would attached to me

@Dyanasthasia @tetehsoso Ya makanya diskusi ini adalah refleksi kenapa sampe klien merasa harus bohong, disitulah gap nya

@nthmnd @tetehsoso Ya gimana mau komunikasi kalau kliennya udah langsung boong bilang mau makeup lamaran terus dipake ke wedding 😂

@Allesha_14 @tetehsoso Kalau kegelisahan (calon) klien semuanya langsung dianggap "mau cari murah" doang ya repot, yang ada komunikasinya makin ga enak dan transaksi makin gak nyaman

@Allesha_14 @tetehsoso Nah, tinggal gimana mengomunikasikan informasi ini ke (calon) klien agar mereka merasa bahwa ini adalah kebutuhan mereka dan bukan kebutuhan MUA. Orang jualan jasa gabisa cuma mikir dari POVnya sendiri, harus pinter2 "ngoprek" POV (calon) klien

@Dyanasthasia @tetehsoso Kalau kegelisahan (calon) klien semuanya langsung dianggap "mau cari murah" doang ya repot, yang ada komunikasinya makin ga enak dan transaksi makin gak nyaman

@Dyanasthasia @tetehsoso Nah, tinggal gimana mengomunikasikan informasi ini ke (calon) klien agar mereka merasa bahwa ini adalah kebutuhan mereka dan bukan kebutuhan MUA. Orang jualan jasa gabisa cuma mikir dari POVnya sendiri, harus pinter2 "ngoprek" POV (calon) klien

@teresebastian24 @tetehsoso Syukurlah bisa ketemu yang sesuai kebutuan 😊👍🏻

@nthmnd @tetehsoso Hai kaa,setaukuu yaa, mreka bsa nyediain yg no retouch si ka utk yg cuma pemberkatan. Jdi bsa lebih murah. Aku juga kaya gtu soalnyaa. Karena biasanya yg paket wedding ada yg sekaligus retouch klo ga pake retouch bsa lebih murah

@rahmarifa27 @2sidesofraa @tetehsoso Ya sebenernya tujuan seluruh diskusi ini kan adalah menganalisis 1. Kenapa ada klien yang bohong 2. Apa yang bisa dilakukan untuk memperbaiki sistem dan komunikasi antar (calon) klien dan MUA

@nthmnd @2sidesofraa @tetehsoso Sesuai kesepakatan kak. MUA menawarkan pricelistnya ke klien, kalau setuju dgn harga itu silahkan booking. Kalau gak setuju jangan bohong & melanggar kesepakatan . Kalo gak cocok dgn harganya gak usah booking. Sesimple itu.

@kuniemanis @tetehsoso Ya sebenernya tujuan seluruh diskusi ini kan adalah menganalisis 1. Kenapa ada klien yang bohong 2. Apa yang bisa dilakukan untuk memperbaiki sistem dan komunikasi antar (calon) klien dan MUA

@nthmnd @tetehsoso kalau menurut aku tergantung mua kak. tapi saranku, kk bisa kondisikan situasi kk gimana ke muanya, asal gk bohong ya dan tanya baiknya gimana. Kalau keputusan harga muanya gak sesuai sama apa yg kk mau, kk ganti dan cari mua lain yg harganya sesuai dan mau mengikuti kondisi kk😊

i have an uncle who responds to text messages after two months, no one knows where he lives exactly & he shows up when he wants to. he's one of my role models.😭