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Obsessive Hermit

@obsessivehermit

20-something hermit who spends too much time pondering psychology, philosophy, art, religion and politics. Coptic Orthodox.

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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
All totalitarian governments are essentially just protection rackets - the people submit to said governments because they are passive and think they have no capacity for self-governance. Submissive, risk-averse people can't form democracies, because they cannot self-govern. Instead, they will just blindly follow whatever authority figure they think will protect them. External locus of control = totalitarianism Internal locus of control = democracy This is precisely WHY democracies have been so rare throughout human history. Most human beings fear risk and crave protection more than they seek autonomy. The only way you can have a democracy is if you train as many people in your country as possible to take matters into their own hands; to be resourceful and creative; to overcome challenges and figure things out on their own. This is why democracies only ever come from warrior peoples and merchants (e.g., cowboys, the Iroquois, Sparta, the warrior nobility in Medieval Europe, the Vikings, pirates, etc.). A society which does the opposite - one which coddles its youth and never allows them to venture off into the wild - is setting itself up for totalitarianism.
Steve Faktor@ideafaktory

@antoniogm "American individualism has surrendered to the collective. We want mommy or daddy. Even the latest startups–food delivery, housecleaning, car service, and running errands are basically mommy substitutes. They're our new caretakers." The New American Dream linkedin.com/pulse/new-amer…

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Richard Hoeg
Richard Hoeg@HoegLaw·
“convenience is washing away friction that actually carried a lot of signal” Could not agree more. Turns out that actually having to expend some effort was doing a lot of lifting for society.
meatball times@meatballtimes

hiring is impossible BECAUSE it's so easy to apply finding a relationship is impossible BECAUSE new dates are a swipe away getting into university is hard BECAUSE you can CommonApp apply to 50 at once convenience is washing away friction that actually carried a lot of signal

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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
@dysangelistes To put it in thermodynamic terms: Hard Work = Production of energy Leisure = Consumption of energy Capitalization = Long-term Investment of energy (delayed gratification)
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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
Many people - especially on the left - have no idea what a "culture" even IS. They seem to think that "culture" = the service economy. E.g., When they talk about "multiculturalism," they're referring only to things like musical theatre and more variety of cuisines. In reality, meanwhile, "culture" is a set of moral, social and familial obligations and restrictions that ARE NOT OPTIONAL - you MUST fulfill these obligations and follow the rules in order to gain social approval, no matter how much you might HATE doing them.
Mary Harrington@moveincircles

Assuming "culture" is coextensive with consumer entertainment is core to the deculturation problem Entertainment isn't culture. Culture is (for eg) how people organise public space, treat the weak, or respond to gifts; less what than how and where they eat; sexual mores; etc etc

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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
Queer theory in a nutshell. Modern progressivism is the political equivalent of the “dating what daddy hates” trope that we see in movies and TV. It reminds me of a Modern Family episode in which Haley (the early-20s daughter) is pretending to date a sleazy, irresponsible jeans salesman in order to spite Phil (her dad), who was rightfully pissed off at her for getting kicked out of college.
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Louise Perry
Louise Perry@Louise_m_perry·
"Ms. West’s book brings the nature of progressivism into sharp focus. The ideology emerged in the 1960s as an explicit rejection of the ideas of the political mainstream. Progressivism is not for anything. Rather, it is against a whole lot of things—Judeo-Christianity, monogamous marriage, the nuclear family, capitalism, gender norms, racial stereotypes and more. Whatever the white American patriarch of the 1950s supported, progressivism opposes. It’s an exercise in patricide." My column for @WSJFreeEx, on why structuring your life around the rejection of some imagined political “other” is a terrible idea. wsj.com/opinion/free-e…
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Human Progress
Human Progress@HumanProgress·
There are many plausible reasons for Tucker Carlson and Curtis Yarvin’s fondness for pre-modern institutions such as feudalism and absolute monarchy. One is a lack of appreciation for the suffering of ordinary people living under those systems. humanprogress.org/modern-freedom…
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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
@Louise_m_perry It's the political equivalent of a child smashing all the furniture in an ungrateful temper tantrum.
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@avidseries "Maintenance of social harmony" can be summarised as suicidal empathy when applied to the accommodation of intolerance. For example, it might be more socially harmonious to not challenge restrictive religious practises, but ultimately disharmony that way lies.
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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
IMO, wisdom begins with recognizing that a world in which everyone has the "right" beliefs will NEVER exist. There will ALWAYS be TONS of people who hold what you think are "wrong" beliefs. If your civilization is to survive, you MUST learn how to coexist with such people.
Salomé Sibonex@SalomeSibonex

Life becomes infinitely more interesting when you treat our opposing perspectives as an inherent part of life instead of an outrageous affront to your view on reality. But we're collectively stuck in the former setting. Evolving might look like this: wetheblacksheep.com/p/is-freaking-…

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Corey J. Belford
Corey J. Belford@thecoreyhotline·
What's noteworthy about antizionists is their characteristic blend of sociopathy and conspiratorial thinking. Take a look at what Chris Brunet left in response to Jesse Brown's post about life becoming dangerous for Jews in Canada. Note that Chris no longer lives in Canada.
Chris Brunet@chrisbrunet

@JesseBrown @TheAtlantic this is a picture of The Atlantic's owner with Ghislaine Maxwell

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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
@leonscdy Leon and Ashley's VAs did such amazing jobs! The way Genevieve Buechner said: "Thank you for saving me" was so heartwarming - her voice had the kind of sincere tone that men always feel proud to hear when spoken by their wives or girlfriends.
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take me back to when i first finished re4r
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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
@NoahRevoy Agreed. In my experience, it's people who don't go outside that are the most susceptible to false beliefs. This may partially explain why the concept of magic comes to children so easily - it's easier to believe in magic if one has not interacted with the real world.
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Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul 🏴‍☠️
Most people do not have any system for distinguishing truth from falsehood. When something can be compared to personal experience, people have a reference point. They can evaluate it against what they already know. When the subject is larger than their direct experience, politics, policy, history, science, they lose that reference. They have no method for determining what is true or false. No way to calculate it. That creates a big overwhelm. For those who have a system to evaluate these questions, the problem does not arise.
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Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul 🏴‍☠️
People today are too in their heads all the time. I think it's because we consume too much information. And that's a huge turnoff. All this overthinking, second-guessing ourselves, creating doubt in our own mind. We project that out as we walk around, and other people can tell. Even if they don't know exactly what's going on, they can see that we're too much in our head and its off putting. On the other hand, a man or woman who are in their body, who move fluidly, and are physically embodying the things they believe and not just intellectualizing everything, are so much more attractive.
Based Sipper Wife | Mrs. Tomasone | Already sipped@limitlessleila

Overthinking kills attraction before it even begins. @thejeffcallahan joins me to explain why the solution is surprisingly simple and how his new book Confidence-Maxxing breaks it all down. Full interview linked in reply below.

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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
@ehp5bxjw My theory is that Liberalism, as a political ideology, is DEPENDENT on people NOT becoming parents, because becoming a parent makes you more inegalitarian and disciplinary. x.com/obsessivehermi…
Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit

On a partially related note, I have a theory that the degree to which a society cares about universal human rights is directly proportional to the percentage of people in that society who are childless. To explain, we need to ask the following question: why would an evolved organism ever care about unrelated strangers? How does that make sense evolutionarily? Why would an organism care about another organism with which it doesn’t share kinship? The answer: to avoid inbreeding. To avoid the genetic abnormalities associated with incest, organisms need to find genetically unrelated mates. Thus, teenagers and young adults—potential parents—are at the stage in life where they are most attuned to caring about/impressing people who aren’t related to them. This explains why young people without children are drawn to ideologies which promote freedom, openness, and empathy/caring for unrelated strangers (e.g., socialism, libertarianism, LGBT+ rights, etc.). However, once they mate and have children—their own kin—to worry about, they no longer need to impress or care about unrelated strangers (except for their romantic partner). Protecting their own kin becomes their primary concern. And if someone threatens your kin, all concern for the rights/welfare of unrelated strangers goes out the window. E.g., If some random guy rapes your daughter or kills your son, you don’t just want them dead—you want them tortured to death in public, to send a message to everyone else: “you don’t dare fuck with my blood line!” If this theory is true, then it explains why people on the political left are so focussed on human rights and freedoms—many on the left are either unmarried or don’t have children/kin of their own to worry about. Thus, they STAY in the young adult stage of needing to impress unrelated strangers (i.e., potential romantic partners). Conservatives meanwhile, are much more likely to be parents, and thus, they don’t need to care about the welfare of unrelated strangers anymore. If the rights/welfare of a stranger conflicts with the welfare of their children, their children will take precedence. You can see this very clearly in the current political battle between (conservative) parents and trans rights advocates, for example. This also explains why cultures that practice endogamy/cousin marriage (such as Pakistan) are so hostile/dehumanizing towards outsiders. It's why, for example, the rape gangs in the UK consisted overwhelmingly of Pakistani men, raping white women and girls: endogamous cultures don't see human beings as individuals - your worth is determined by your extended family. Thus, women and girls who don't have elaborate kinship networks/extended families to protect them were seen as less-than-human. This also leads me to wonder: will cultures many generations from now even care about human rights anymore? Any culture which doesn’t have children is obviously not going to last. Right now, the political left and libertarians can only survive and flourish by recruiting young people from conservative families/backgrounds. But that obviously can’t last forever, because 1) almost every region in the world now has a below-replacement fertility rate and 2) for self sorting of young people based on genetic predispositions will slowly reduce the number of of left-wingers/libertarians in the gene pool. It’s concerning, to say the least.

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Obsessive Hermit@obsessivehermit·
What liberals and secular humanists don't understand is that giving people money, freedom and education does not magically turn them or their kids into secular-liberal humanists - many people will remain the exact opposite no matter how badly you try to change their minds.
Alice Evans@_alice_evans

When religious families migrate to the west, they may be extremely concerned about liberal temptations. They then face a choice: do they prioritise their kids’ upward mobility or paradise? If the latter, parents may send their kids to religious schools to instil piety. That’s precisely what I find in my research in Britain

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The Black Sheep
The Black Sheep@wtblacksheep·
This is the opposite of what makes someone a black sheep. Most people treat beliefs like social signaling/climbing tools; truth is a minor factor. Black sheep are the rare weirdos who care most about what's actually true. This often makes them an enemy of the majority.
Jay Van Bavel, PhD@jayvanbavel

People are biased toward beliefs that align with their in-group. Beliefs serve at least two broad functions: First, they help us navigate the (social) world. Second, they serve as signals to manipulate others. "Beliefs function so as to be detected by others and manipulate their behavior, primarily for the benefits that accrue from favorable tribal self-presentation." onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.11… I've been thinking about this issue a lot in my own research over the past decade, and there is a great line of philosophy behind it. Thoughts?

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