Oceansight.Polca💙🐋🐻‍❄️🩷🐶✈️

x.com/Nukcyn/status/… 🐋 When it comes to socializing, I’m someone who tends to please others. It started when I was young. I was socially awkward, so I adjusted myself to fit into different situations. There are people similar to me, but they’re more firm. When they socialize, they don’t adapt as much as I do because they stand stronger in their own beliefs. 🐋 Honestly, in my view, New might be that type. There are pros and cons to this. I tend to go along with others. The advantage is that it helps me blend in easily. The downside is that it ends up affecting me. I have to follow what others want. Sometimes I just go along with things because I don’t want any trouble. 🐋 That’s why New often nags me about it. He’ll ask, “Why are you going? You don’t have to go. Do you even want to go? You’re already tired, why go?” He knows I don’t want to. When New asks if I want to go, I say no. Then he asks, “So why are you going?” And I’ll say it’s because I’m afraid people might judge me. 🐋 New tells me, “Why don’t you put yourself first? If you don’t want to go, you don’t have to force yourself. If you’re not there, it won’t really matter to them.” But I tend to overthink and worry that they’ll be upset. I’ve always been like this. 🐋 But I do understand New’s perspective. It’s just that I’ve been used to doing this since I was young, forcing myself to fit into social situations. At this point, it feels like a habit because I’ve been doing it for so long. 🐋 And now, at this age, I’ve started to prioritize myself more. I’m beginning to follow New’s advice more often. For some events, I’ll just show up briefly, take a photo, and leave, just to let them know I was there. And New would ask, “If you’re just going to do that, then why even go?” 🐋 I sometimes wonder if I should change anything. But honestly, I don’t really feel like this way of being causes me any trouble. #Tawan_V #Newwiee #TayNew x.com/Nukcyn/status/…