Nigeria Builder / Offendnoman

Have you tried helping out around the house?

“To the people of Abia State, this is your government, a government with no 'Godfather', a government ordained by God. We have no choice but to work for our people. However, we are just getting started; the people have not seen anything yet.” — Governor Alex Otti

You don't go on a date to make a woman like you. You go on a date with a woman who already does. Attraction is not built on the date. It's revealed there. If she likes you... You'll feel it immediately. No confusion. No mixed signals. No guessing games. She shows up on time. She engages. She invests. You're not performing. You're just present. But when she's unsure? The date feels like an interview. You're trying to impress. Trying to win her over. That's already a weak position. Men make the mistake of thinking: "If I say the right things... she'll like me." No. You don't convince attraction. You qualify it. The date is simple: You're seeing if she deserves your time. Not begging for her approval. If the energy isn't there... You don't try harder. You leave. You don't go on dates to be chosen. You go on dates because you already were.

16 Mistakes Men Make With Women (That Destroy Them in the Dating Market) 1. Chasing women who show weak interest. If she liked you, you wouldn't need to convince her. 2. Thinking beauty equals value. Many beautiful women bring nothing but problems. 3. Ignoring obvious red flags because you're horny. Lust is the fastest way a man betrays his own standards. 4. Trying to buy attraction. If money is the reason she's there, money is the reason she'll leave. 5. Believing what she says instead of watching what she does. Words are cheap. Behavior never lies. 6. Letting disrespect slide the first time. The first tolerated disrespect becomes the permanent rule. 7. Putting her above your mission. The moment your purpose becomes secondary, she stops respecting you. 8. Over-investing too early. Attention, time, and emotional energy should be earned, not given away. 9. Thinking s3x means she's loyal. Physical access and loyalty are two completely different currencies. 10. Trying to "save" or fix damaged women. You are not a therapist, a father, or a rehabilitation program. 11. Falling in love with potential instead of reality. What she could be is irrelevant. What she is is what you deal with. 12. Accepting inconsistent behavior. Hot one day, cold the next is not mystery, it's disinterest. 13. Staying after betrayal. The first betrayal is a warning. The second one is your fault. 14. Being afraid to walk away. A man who can't leave is a man who can be controlled. 15. Believing love alone sustains relationships. Without respect, love dies quietly. 16. Losing your self-respect to keep a woman. The moment you abandon your standards to keep her, the relationship is already over.

Bro... stop asking a girl to act better. Just get yourself a better woman. Period. If you have to explain basic respect... She's not immature. She's just not for you. You shouldn't have to say: "Reply faster." "Respect me." "Stop entertaining other guys." "Act right." That's parenting. Not dating. Men waste YEARS trying to "fix" one woman. Coaching. Arguing. Begging. Explaining. For what? Meanwhile, somewhere out there is a woman who would do all that naturally. No reminders. No fights. No stress. Just alignment. High-value men don't rehabilitate. They replace. Low effort? Replace. Disrespect? Replace. Drama? Replace. Fast. Because attraction dies the moment you start sounding like a teacher. Respect can't be negotiated. It's automatic or fake. Stop trying to upgrade her behavior. Upgrade your standards. Wrong women disappear automatically. Don't ask her to be better. Be better yourself. And choose better. Life gets easier when you stop fixing and start selecting.

Am I the only that love staying indoor for no reason. Like I can stay inside my flat for a whole month without seeing my neighbor sotey na the flavor of my food they take dey know say I still dey around.