jaayy 🩶

I ain’t never seen my mom not work. I learned everything from her! She don’t wait on no one…she go get it!

My bf is so irritating😭. I had an attitude this morning and he asked me

If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so I can keep you in it. I’m not attacking you.

Do not ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.

i find it extremely fcked up when you have to ask men “what if she was your sister, daughter or mother” in order to make them see women as valuable human beings

If you let her know she’s your priority & that she actually matters to you, you’d be surprised how much easier things become. Women aren’t as complicated as people make them out to be. They don’t need big gestures every day. They just want to feel valued, respected and protected by the man they give their heart to. Make the call. Send the text. If you’re busy, say that. If something’s off, communicate it. If you mess up, own it. Not because she’s insecure but because consistency creates security

I’m forever a ‘you could’ve just told me’ kind of person. I can handle the truth. I can’t handle being lied to.

If your wife can’t bring up something difficult without you getting defensive, you’re showing her silence is safer than honesty. And that’s how you become roommates.

i believe in re-reading and re-watching your favourite books & movies at different stages of your life.the plot never changes, but your perspective does.

i love compliments that feel observant… like you studied me for a second and understood something about me i didn’t explain.

A healthy relationship is two people saying, “I’ll improve me, for us.”

my baby fever is attached to wife fever, family fever and financially set fever.

be admiring MY MAN because his mom really did give birth to a HANDSOME MAN

I know my generation may not fully understand this, but you have to know God to love a woman correctly.

I’m in love with this sentence: “The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.”

I’ll marry a man who covers me in prayer, not in confusion. His leadership will feel like safety.

accepting the things i cannot control

Non-sexual turn on: When someone notices you’re overwhelmed and quietly makes things easier for you. That’s care.

"Are you seriously going to cry just because you're stressed 😢?" Me: