Daniel OGIDAN

I do not support the idea of a "ho phase." But I think that is not what Àgbà John Doe is truly saying. What I think he means is that: many women under 25 struggle to commit because they tell themselves, "I am still young. I need to enjoy my youth before settling into marriage." He is not excusing or encouraging promiscuity. If that were his point, I would reject it outright. Far from it; I have zero tolerance for whoredom. That said, the timeline is flooded with men dragging non-virgin women while demanding purity from them. Who exactly is disvirgining these women? Are men somehow exempt from the same standard of purity? Every post tilts heavily against women. You demand that women remain virgins while allowing men to whore around freely. Imagine a man openly boasting that he has slept with countless women yet insists on marrying a virgin and the crowd cheers him. That is sheer stupidity and rank hypocrisy. I honor and respect chastity. Women who guard their virginity until marriage deserve genuine admiration and the highest regard. But they must never settle for men who have whored around. You cannot sleep with an entire community and then expect a woman who kept herself pure to accept you as her reward. God forbid. My direct advice to women is this: If you are still a virgin, cherish and protect that gift with everything in you. But make no mistake; do not marry a man who is not a virgin. He does not deserve you. Period. Above all, love God.

California is going bankrupt before our eyes.

Lagos to Kebbi With full speed we spent 4hrs in Niger state alone. That state is too big

I think I must have said this before. 1. Do not build in the same compound with your brother. If you must, make sure that there is a clear demarcation by fencing yours. 2. Do not contribute money together with your brother to build a house. Build yours and let him build his. 3. Do not abandon your own house project to renovate a family house, unless you have enough money to do so, or you are the first son. 4. Once you marry a wife, every property you acquire should be known to your wife. Do not say that you want to hide things from your wife while trusting your brother with all the details. 5. As long as you know that your wife is a good wife to you, tell her that if you suddenly die, she should immediately take all your important documents out of the house to a safe place. If you have more than one car before your demise, ask her to sell any cars that are no longer needed and keep the money for herself and your children. 6. If you're going to do any business with your brother, do so on clear legal and agreed terms. Treat him like a business partner, not like a blood brother. If you doubt any of these things that I have said, screenshot it and send to your father. End.