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A major step towards self-actualization is understanding that recognizing a systemic problem in a system you operate in does not make you immune to it.
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Onyekachi Nwagwu
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Onyekachi Nwagwu
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i write and make videos about self-awareness and relational dynamics
Here. Katılım Ocak 2012
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Your nervous system knew before your mind did.
It was sending signals the entire time that something was not right, that the ground was not stable, that you were working harder than the situation should have required. And you overrode those signals, probably repeatedly, because the mind had a more generous explanation ready.
Because the love was real enough in the early stages to make the later stages feel like an aberration rather than a revelation.
The healing is not just psychological. It is somatic. It is the slow process of teaching a body that has been on alert for so long, it forgot what safety felt like, that the threat is no longer present, and it is finally allowed to rest.
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Mensah Otabil has always been ahead of his time.
CHIEF@tailorMARIQUE
Let me leave this here for my fellow Christians….make what you make of this
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Everyone is replaceable. Everyone. Will you miss them? Sure, but no one is above the program to be replaced.
Taurus Groove@jiggyjayy2
Ppl thinking EVERYONE is replaceable is def a social media downside
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@AbakpaJob What is the difference between honesty and clarity?
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I hardly have an opinion on something i have not spent a considerable amount of time writing on.
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Vagueness is how we avoid being accountable to our own feelings. And once you see that, you can’t unsee it. You start noticing it everywhere. In your own excuses, in your own stories about why things happened the way they did, in the things you keep ALMOST saying but never quite do. Clarity is a door you can’t close once you’ve opened it. And whatever you’ve been circling, whatever lives just outside the edges of what you’re willing to say out loud, that’s the thing. That’s exactly the thing. That’s where you have to start.
maddie rune🪰@themaddierune
Writing taught me that clarity is an act of courage. It's easy to stay vague. Vague is safe. Vague doesn't commit to anything.
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Writing taught me that clarity is an act of courage. It's easy to stay vague. Vague is safe. Vague doesn't commit to anything.
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I listen to this podcast called popcorn psychology. And they are licensed therapists who psychoanalyze films
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@ChuksEricE Please do you have and can you share the link if you do for this teaching?
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You may be right in spotting patterns, but you cannot confidently label strangers whose history you don't know and if you haven't worked with them in a therapeutic confinement. You are risking oversimplification.
Avoidance can show up internally in anxiously attached people, which they project as pursuit/anxiety, just as anxious fears can hide behind an avoidant's withdrawal. It's not just 'one or the other' without a deeper relational context.
Relationships are systems, and until you can see how both parties interact with each other and how they operate individually, the best you can do is make an assumption instead of a definitive label/identification.
Also, please let's stop shaming people for the things that we know. It is a privilege to know these things.
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As for those who doubted me you can see for yourself from the horses mouth that she is an avoidant. I just dey laugh una, i have studied a lot of books on psychology and understanding the human mind and nature. I can analyze and spot people from miles away. It's so easy to do that for me. Like I'll normally say I argue with my equals all others I teach. Some of you guys on this app red pill has fried your brains you can't even reason or know anything asides it. Olodo rabata😂😂.
Max The Airbnb Guy🏡Best Shortlets@Maxtheairbnbguy
People calling him a fool, calm down. 😂 The guy doesn't even know he has an anxious attachment style. He is not choosing to be desperate. He is reacting from a deep, unconscious fear of abandonment & unhealed trauma. You hear his friend advising him to move on else he'll keep being in a loop. The girl is clearly avoidant. She leaves when things get close and comes back when the pressure is off. She breaks up quickly because vulnerability feels dangerous. Not because she is cold. Because someone taught her that depending on people leads to disappointment. Both are unhealed. 😂 He clings. She runs. He chases. She flees. They are not villain and victim. They are two wounded people triggering each other's deepest fears. They can work on themselves & make things work if they desire. It's very workable.
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I have been stuck for two days trying to write on how anxious people unconsciously contribute to toxic dynamics, and this tweet does it simply and elegantly.
Marei Christensen@Mareikehere
Anxiously attached people often try to solve their partners challenges to make sure the connection prevails instead of working on their sovereignty.
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This right here 👌
Jeremy🐍💎📷@11th_April__
Hit me with the hardest truth you have so far accepted in life.
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لو لقيت حياتك محدودة بمعنى إنك مش بتنجز الحاجات اللي إنت بتقول إنك بتسعى لها و عندك تسويف مُستمر و كل ما بتبدأ حاجة بتوقفها بعدين و ما بتكملهاش و ما بتاخدش فرص بتتعرض عليك و مش بتخرج برا حدود الروتين بتاعك و متمسك أوي بالعادات اليومية بتاعتك و مابتكسرهاش؟ عايزاك تبص على...
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unpopular opinion about mental health that will put you in this position??
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