What’s gonna happen when his voice drops
Dudes Posting Their W’s@DudespostingWs
Bro makes bird calls so accurate it barely sounds human. Actually insane
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in phlux
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@MoffFrieren Ok I just saw that you feel crazy jealousy and rage at watching HAREM ANIMES.
you’re cooked bro. there’s no hope for you. you see women as objects.
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@phlox_clamantis are you just illiterate? I pretty clearly described more than her raising my kids.
what is "my concept of love"? be specific.
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another reason men will leave, and why men and women cannot be friends:
watching her get with another man is one of the most soul crushing experiences you will have to deal with, multiple multiple times over the course of your life.
men and women who have the chemistry to be friends, should just date. women, ironically, value sex too highly in a relationship. Or else hollywood has warped their minds around what intimate compatibility is really like.
U n i m a x x e r@unirespecter
The reason men leave after being rejected is because it’s the only way to preserve some shred of dignity. It’s uncomfortable for both parties when one side has feelings and the other does not. It doesn’t mean “they never cared about you”, on the contrary
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@MoffFrieren And whatever else u described abt her, you’re perfectly fine throwing away ONLY bc she doesn’t wanna have kids w you. So clearly, none of that stuff abt her means that much to you. You suddenly think she’s not owed friendship-then why tf did u befriend her in the first place??
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@MoffFrieren You “love” her and “trust” her only in the context of raising YOUR children. Your concept of love is selfish and impure and thank fuck women can see right through you.
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@MoffFrieren You just keep telling on urself. You stopped being friends her bc u suddenly decided she’s not worth friendship ONLY bc she rejected you!! She’s still the same person w the same traits u claim to love. You left her out of vindictiveness and that’s what I mean by “people like you”
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@Zacbunchanumbrs What made your friendship with him deep? Genuine question.
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In high school, my best friend was a guy named Andrew. I legitimately did not know his name for the first 2 years, and we talked and ate lunch together everyday and had 4 classes a day together. We both had nicknames for the other and that's all we ever called each other. I knew almost nothing about his private home life, and he knew next to nothing about mine, except that I was poor when we first met and everything I owned looked like it was five years old. But I would still argue my friendship with him was, and despite not having seen or spoken with him in 10 years still is, just as deep as any female friendships. We also never fought and would probably be back to acting like close friends again if we saw each other tomorrow. Male friendships are different but they aren't more shallow or less real.
lune@lumeysea
Can any men help me understand the aversion many guys seem to have to asking questions about/ actively being interested in the lives and interiority of women they’re getting to know? I’m consistently hearing about this from women who are trying to find relationships— men who display seemingly no curiosity about the person they’re talking to. What is this? Is it an actual lack of interest, or something else?
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@MoffFrieren You literally are doing it with “anyone fertile.” You chose her just bc she’s your likeliest chance of procreating. And then you disappear when she says no, just like you would with any rando who says no. Women are right to feel the way they do about ppl like you.
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"of course it means that only thing that matters is sex"
how? show your work.
how is it only about my own procreative desires?
1) if that were the case I could do it with anyone fertile
2) custody courts are famously harsh on men
I said I want to build a life with her, and your only retort several times over is "ermmmm actually you just want sex"
youre not very bright
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@MoffFrieren Of course it means that the only thing that matters is sex. I’m 100% sure you wouldn’t want to adopt children with her. In the end, you’re merely using her for your own procreative desires and labeling that as “love.”
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@phlox_clamantis you cant build a family without the procreative process lol
does that fact mean that the only thing that matters is sex?
obviously not.
I take it back. youre probably an honest person, just very stupid.n
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@MoffFrieren Ok, so would you be fine with building a life with her without having sex? Like what is this stupid game where you’re pretending as though sex isn’t THE dealbreaker here??
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@phlox_clamantis why are you boiling marriage, literally building an entire life and lineage together, to just sex, while pretending you look like anything other than a complete bimbo and idiot?
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@MoffFrieren No one’s demanding anything. Women are just rightly coming to the conclusion that you think she’s not worth spending time with unless you’re allowed to fuck her.
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@phlox_clamantis youre the one only thinking about yourself.
youre demanding the man maintain the friendship even though its painful to him.
its not solely exclusivity either. you are pathologically dishonest. exclusivity is a mere single aspect of the pursuit of marriage.
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Autistic incels come from old fathers, not old mothers.
Old mothers birth wholesome autists.
That-guy128@Guy128That
The amount of autistic incels that will be born from this genuinely breaks my heart. So many doomed souls
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@wwarrior_1 @RealDianeYap @ReviewsPossum So if you think she’s not worthy of your friendship, why the fuck did you befriend her??
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@RealDianeYap @ReviewsPossum Men aren't entitled to a romantic relationship
Women arent entitled to friendship either
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You're telling on yourself if you believe loving someone just means seeing them as a sex object.
Diane Yap@RealDianeYap
@bumbadum14 Gross. She's not signaling any of that. She just wants to be seen as a human being worthy of friendship, not a potential sex object.
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@dmoonlives People should only have kids when they’re enthusiastic and excited to have them. If it takes until 30s to get there, then so be it.
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@MoffFrieren Because you’re too hurt over not getting exactly what you want?
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@MoffFrieren Again, if the fact that it’s not exclusive is the deal-breaker, then you’re really only thinking about yourself. She’s still happily willing to give you her company indefinitely. But you’d rather give up that company that you claim you enjoy so much because…why exactly?
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@natusanonymity @kramerposts @lumeysea How tf did you decide she’s not interesting without asking any questions
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@kramerposts @lumeysea Feminists have to refer to ancient concepts introduced by dead languages to cope with the possibility that they’re actually just not that interesting.
“You aren’t curious about me? You must not have integrated your anima.”
Is a real thing these people are telling themselves.
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Can any men help me understand the aversion many guys seem to have to asking questions about/ actively being interested in the lives and interiority of women they’re getting to know?
I’m consistently hearing about this from women who are trying to find relationships— men who display seemingly no curiosity about the person they’re talking to.
What is this? Is it an actual lack of interest, or something else?
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@karma_is_a_kat @pop_mycology You can opt in once you’re actually passed over for that stuff
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@pop_mycology Sure you can “opt the fuck out,” but at what cost? Women working corporate jobs who don’t take care of their appearance are passed over for promotions and high-profile projects. So we are supposed to sabotage our careers just because beauty culture is annoying?
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I wish essays like this would acknowledge that you, as a woman, can opt the fuck out, even as you’re powerless to change the world around you. Life gets a lot more colorful when you do.
The New Yorker@NewYorker
“Today, the young inject their faces and look old; the old inject their faces and look uncanny; a 20-year-old got famous for hitting himself in the jaw with a hammer to become hotter; teen-agers ask strangers on the internet if a facelift is their only hope,” Jia Tolentino (@jiatortellini) writes. “The internet casually scrambles basic ideas of personhood, reframing people as commodities and stripping us for parts. But only recently has this process been encoded so specifically onto the face, traditionally thought of as a portal to our humanity. The face is separating from the person, and the person is separating from the soul, and this is happening in front of us, on our phones, in the most banal fashion, every day.” Read her new essay about our plastic-surgery nightmare: newyorkermag.visitlink.me/ob5cmt
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@jewstein3000 @AlcantudAl @madnomanattic @ThisChickenDGAF Genuine question, what would happen if you responded with “Oh okay” and just kept talking about what you were talking before
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@AlcantudAl @madnomanattic @ThisChickenDGAF That they have chronic asthma and their family doesn’t believe them which is why they know that’s my problem with confidence
That they are in a 12 step program for drug addiction
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Just tried my seventh therapist. During the 15 minute consult, I told her I was looking for someone who didn't make the session about themselves. She promised she would never do that.
First session, she's offended when I ask her not to talk about herself. I had to report this.
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