Patti Kinder
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@peterstopcrime Shoulda hit him harder and chsrge him with sexual assault. Lil asshole needs to be taught a lesson
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Anonymous:
Anonymous: This week, I was at a water park with my family when a teenager untied the top of my bikini from behind, as a "prank." I turned around and slapped him hard.
I'm 32 years old. I was in the shallow pool with my daughter, trying to teach her how to swim, when I suddenly felt someone yank sharply on the strings of my swimsuit.
Before I could even understand what was happening, the fabric came loose. I turned around and saw this boy, about 16 or 17 years old, standing there. He had a disgusting smirk on his face, holding the strings of my bikini in his hand, and laughing with his buddies like he'd just pulled off the prank of the year.
I didn't even think. My hand hit his cheek before my brain could catch up. It was a really hard slap. His smirk vanished instantly. He stumbled back, both hands on his face, while his friends went dead silent.
And then the yelling started. His parents appeared out of nowhere. His mother started screaming that I'd "assaulted a child." His father threatened to call the police. He called me a "hysterical woman" and said I had no right to hit a minor.
The security guards and lifeguards rushed over. The boy's parents demanded I be arrested for assault and battery. They said they were going to press charges and called me a "violent woman" who had "no right" to touch their son.
I told them to check the surveillance cameras. The angle that shows how he grabbed the top of my swimsuit. They should go question the witnesses: my husband, Julien, saw it; another mother saw it too.
I told the parents clearly: if they wanted to press charges against me for the slap, I'd press charges against their son for sexual harassment. For stripping me in front of my daughter and complete strangers, and for touching me without my consent.
We were all asked to leave the pool. I was sitting in the car, shaking and humiliated, clutching my top tightly closed against me, while my husband drove home in silence.
Then he finally said: "Did you really have to hit him that hard? He's just a kid. You probably could've just yelled. Now we might end up with charges against us."
Just a kid. A kid who thought it was funny to half-strip a woman in public. A kid whose parents have clearly taught him that a woman's body is a playground for "stupid jokes."
Am I wrong for reacting with my hands instead of words when a stranger yanked on my clothes to expose me? And for refusing to apologize for defending my dignity in front of my daughter?
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My husband rescued this cabinet from being thrown away and brought it home for me. I’d love to paint it red, but he insists it should stay exactly as it is. We’ve been debating it ever since! What would you do—paint it or leave it natural?
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@feelgoodtale Im with you fella. Dump her. If she has bo regards for a living breathing pet that depends on humans for their care ahe should just stay by her selfish self
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I canceled my wedding... because my fiancée's careless actions almost killed my Labrador. 💔
I'm 28, she's 27. We were together for 4 years, engaged for 6 months. My Labrador is 7 years old — very gentle, loyal
Last Saturday, she had her bachelorette party at home. I went to my parents' place and left the dog with her because she said she liked him.
Before leaving, I simply said: "When the party starts, put him in the bedroom."
That's it.
Sunday morning at 5 AM, I got a call. She was panicking, saying something happened to the dog. She was so drunk she couldn't speak clearly. I told her to take him straight to the vet.
When I arrived, she was crying. Friends told me the dog was alive... but not okay.
Then the vet informed me...
My dog had consumed alcohol... and had also eaten chocolate edibles. 💔
Everything was left open — drinks, edibles — all within his reach. No one put him in the room. Everyone was busy... and he was poisoned.
That dog trusts people completely.
And they let him down.
When I got home, I said directly — pack your things, cancel the wedding.
She was shocked.
I wasn’t.
Then I started getting calls.
Her family, friends... everyone said I was overreacting. "Ending a relationship over one mistake."
My family was also on her side.
My mom said: "She didn't mean to. The dog survived, right?"
Yes… he survived.
Barely. 💔
My sister also said I overreacted.
But no one understands...
This isn't just about one night.
She uses her phone while driving.
She has left the stove on before.
I kept ignoring it.
But this time?
My dog was involved.
A life that depends on us.
And she couldn’t follow a simple instruction.
She's not a child.
She's 27 years old.
If I can’t trust her now...
how will I in the future?
With kids? A home?
Love alone isn’t enough...
when someone’s carelessness can cost a life.
I can't risk my life on the next "accident." 💔
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@Avabelly__ Ask the city what their ordinance e is on that. I know we cant til at least 8 maybe 9
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I know people are allowed to mow their lawns during the day, but 7 a.m. every Saturday is starting to feel rough 😅
My neighbor fires up the mower like clockwork every weekend, and Saturday is usually my one morning to sleep in after a long work week.
I did ask once if he’d consider waiting until around 9 a.m., especially since the yard only takes about 30 minutes, but he said he likes getting it done early.
I get it. It’s his yard, and he’s not necessarily doing anything wrong. But when the whole street is still quiet, that mower feels extra loud.
I’ve tried earplugs, white noise, and closing the windows, but nothing really blocks it out.
Maybe I’m just tired, but I do wish there was a little more consideration for neighbors on weekend mornings.
Be honest, is 7 a.m. too early to mow on a Saturday, or is that still fair game?
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@AMErikaNGIRLLL @ViralHog First of all yes they should have been let in but for cris sakes BE ON TIME.
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Heartbreaking and Gut wrenching 💔Graduation Fail 💔 Parents arrive late for kids graduation, denied entry. Schools can do better!! Seniors deserve to see their families present!!
Video originally from @ViralHog (found on FB. These milestones are once-in-a lifetime!!
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Just moved into a new house and have no idea what this thing is 😅
It’s mounted low near the floor, randomly placed in the hallway.
The house was built in 2005, but I can’t figure out what it’s for.
Anyone recognize this? 🤔
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Shai Gilgeous Alexander is disgusting!! He’s the biggest joke in basketball.
This is literally what he’s known for……. 🤡
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