kiya 😘

Just in case you missed me

Nobody talks about the guy who shows up during your healing stage. The one who’s calm, patient, & genuinely kind. He makes you feel safe in ways you didn’t even realise you needed. He’s not love bombing or playing games…he’s consistent, steady, and truly sees you.

zendaya just doesn't miss i'm sorry😭

Aunties and Mamas please make sure them bags are packed!!!! This is such a great thing to do for our growing kids in school:

Age is just a number

@_JMonaay_ Did she send you your deposit back? That girl reschedule my appointment time then canceled it. Never gave me my deposit back.

will never ever book with yellsbraids again😂

I swear if this bitch cancels my hair appt today ima be so pissed

I’m so pretty 💕

Imagine this as like a “I thought about you” gift and it’s a playlist of all the songs that make you think about them.

Oh baby I'm on TikTok learning! Two in the duvet!!

I was studying child development, & when a parent or adult hits a kid throughout their childhood, they can end up developing a dissociative disorder in adulthood. A child cannot physically escape abuse majority of the time, so they mentally go else where and detach mentally in order to protect themselves as much as they can. So as an adult, whenever they experience pain, fear, or discomfort, especially from a loved one, instead of knowing how to work through it, or even leave the abuse, they dissociate in order to mentally escape, while being frozen in fear. So beating your child teaches them not only is it okay for someone you love to hit you, but it also teaches them how to stay in abusive situations. Hopes this helps for anyone who uses the line “my parents beat me and I turned out fine”. I also learned how abused children can end up being highly imaginative and creative as adults because they’ve constantly flexed that part of their brain in order to create a new world in their mind, practiced from dissociating as a child. This isn’t really a positive either because they find it very hard to ground themselves and to be a part of society/reality. They end up being hermits, struggle with socializing and can pick up addictions much easier.

This be cool until it turns into all yall do. No dates, no nothing. Just laying in bed 😭

my daily ginger shots and vitamins aren’t enough i must reach this level of wellness insanity

This but in Black

i was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in september & a few months ago i couldn’t run let alone walk without assistance. tonight i’m running for the first time & i’m really proud of myself! i obviously still have balance and coordination issues but i’ve come a longggg way!

the internet is filled with to many creative ideas for niggas not to be romantic, he just don't like you!

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