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⊹ things littles secretly want, but (almost) never ask for.. ꒰ #agere thread by a cg ꒱

yaaa when i let my brain slip i get soooo sleepiiiiii

@smallerthannn samsies! T^T

@prwciously OOO I’ve always wanted these!!

glitter tats 🎀

i want a crib :C just a comfy ,, pretty ,, sweet crib that i can nap in & feel so safe in . .

CG that litters their kiddo w these &/or tiny that puts a bunch on their CG for funsies cus they’re oh so pretty ^—^

matching cool things like scene belts + tail clips + earrings + piercings + socks + nails + contacts + glasses + fake/glitter tats, etc hehe

🧸 — extremely emotional tiny :(( easily prone to tearing up & becomin overstimulated + super sensitive to sentimental movies, books, subjects, etc + always feeling physically uncomfy & on th verge of tears cus of it . . . etc

Ball pit

baby that stares at their CG for a little, & then frowns, & then starts blinking rly fast when their eyes water, & then starts crying hysterically cus th 1min stare & frown was th warning of a big outburst

dependent regressor who feels better when they're treated like a little doll, getting spoken to softly and gently handled when it's time for them to be spoonfed or have their teeth brushed. their carer assuring them that they're not exhausting or "too much" at all. Ი𐑼 ˖ ࣪

—୨୧⋆ ˚ 💭 Older brother who lets his little sib decorate him with stickers and clips , even adding littl pigtails ! Acting embarrassed but never taking them off . “ Don’t let my friends see this- ” “ . . . does this one look okay here ? ”

@Duckybaby5 ducky you’re so helpful and sweet :(((( bpd IS exhausting but we’ve got this, and ur words help so so much D; 💞💞💞💞💞

@prwciously it is exhausting and I don’t fully know how to deal with it just yet, when I start feel bad if im able to I tell people I cannot speak then but will come back when I can that way im able to calm down and sort through my thoughts before I say something mean or untrue.

guys i rly dunno how to deal w my bpd healthily :( like. i don’t know how to cope before splitting & being hostile. ik a lot of us here have bpd so m sure u guys get wat i mean. n then after violently convulsing i get +

@littlebatvampie I 100% agree and do this a lot 😭

@prwciously its definitely not the best coping mechanism but ive gotten into the habit of distancing myself from everyone until i feel normal again. id rather isolate myself than split on people i care about.

@faeriedelights that’s a great idea liza ill start doing that :o

@prwciously not sure if you’re 100% looking for tips & tricks so pls feel free to ignore this !! keeping visual proof that i’m cared for helped me when i used to split often, so like ss of soft convos or gentle praise or reassurance

@puddinpegasus u as well marlow , i hope love & kindness is showered over you every single day :(((

@prwciously ofcccc 🤍 im always wishing uu nothin buut peace n happiness lolo, you deserve it !!

i fear im not picky

m so grateful to have ppl around me, here in the agere community, that experience similar things & understand me. its just so reassuring & amazing

@puddinpegasus omg you are an angel , ivv never looked into any dbt resources D: im so thankful for ur suggestion ty marlow :(((((

@prwciously am so so srry uu also have to struggle with this evilevil disorder :( but know that you’re never alone and it doesn’t define you 🤍

thoughts , but if i do slip, ill jus cry n be scared BECUS of th mean thoughts . :( sigh . .

super worn out & jus wna be hushed & reassured but don’t feel like i deserve it cus of acting th way i did. splitting makes me feel like th worst ever. n i get an overwhelming rush of wanting to be tiny to hush all the mean +