Rancloran

Hey guys, i feel like i kinda need to get this off my chest. U know i’m a very chill person when it comes to joking, but it gets to a point. I just wanna say that, u can’t just tell someone who they are and who they aren’t. Apalagi sampe bawa2 orang tua. Iya, ini soal pembahasan Jawa di stream kemarin. Ibuku orang Jawa, aku kalau pulkam ke Jatim, I grew up in a Javanese family, with Javanese culture. Nothing else. I call my siblings ‘Mba’ & ‘Mas’, I was raised mostly by my grandma who is Javanese, she spoke Javanese to me everyday. I often cry when I listen to a Javanese song because it’s one of the closest things that reminds me of home. You can’t just shove to my face; “Nom kamu bukan orang Jawa kamu itu chindo”“mungkin ortu kamu chindo tapi bisa bahasa Jawa” how many times do i have to say this, i am NOT chindo. Why are you ripping me off my original culture, roots and heritage and put me in a culture in which i am not even familiar with? Just because I can’t speak Javanese fluently and I am not ‘medok’? Look, I know we joke around about this a lot and I never take it seriously. But yesterday a lot of u are taking things too far, to the point that u literally told me who I am and who I’m not. (Even told me who my parents might be😭) Which is crazy because u don’t know me, my family, and u don’t even know how I look like irl. 😭❔ I’m sorry if I can’t speak Javanese and my Javanese knowledge is not as good. But then again, it’s my culture, my home, my identity and no one can take that away from me. I love joking around too, but next time please mind ur words! 👍