If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so I can keep you in it. I’m not attacking you.
it's so attractive when people apologize for responding late, or when they keep you in the loop so you don’t start overthinking.
the skill of communication is just attractive tbh
Ngl in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created
Truth be told, some people are so irreplaceable. The things they do, the way they go extra miles to get things done for you, the way they always support, the kindness they show, the feelings they had for you; you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.
Sometimes I feel so weird explaining to someone how inconsiderate they were in a situation. It's like if you didn’t feel yourself wildin, i don’t know what's left to say.