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I and my team @UwondaHubs was commissioned to transform this wall space into a master piece, it has been a wonderful experience executing this project. Stay updated for the final results pls retweet if this appear on your tl

@mariolexxx When I reach hux I go do the needful

Imagine you're in a public toilet with NO Tissues, NO water just a bible and a cheque of 120 million. what will you do??

@neo_officialll @Akposxau Move to the next jor

This girl i have been talking to called me screaming in excitement coz Veekee James just gave birth. I genuinely thought this was my last bustop.💔 We go again.

That you like addressing issues immediately doesn’t mean others have to. Your coping mechanism is personal to you. A person choosing to be incommunicado till have have dealt internally with how you wrong them before choosing to speak to you, is valid like mad. You clam they are being manipulative by ‘keeping malice’ but you’re the one being manipulative by wanting someone you offended to want to speak to you in your own time of convenience as against theirs.

@Wizarab10 Have always been the type that goes silent when I am hurt or trying to assess the whole situation that's the only way I can process my thoughts so I won't say or do what I will regret later but I keep hearing you're manipulative you're gaslighting me. Thank you for this post

Not every child will continue the legacy of the father. Some children may decide to go against your wishes or the path you treaded. Your legacy can endure even without kids. Nikolai Tesla didn't have kids, but you're using some of his inventions till today.

@SirDavidBent Michael Jackson is a good example his legacy will survived the test. Nobody knows his children and I can bet you have to think hard before you can mention their names. True legacy doesn't need child to continue

@Xaffy11 @Wizarab10 @bobtheshiller I like that word relationship are built not discovered, people are not ready to build

The older I get, the more I believe love is less destiny and more decision. People spend so much time searching for a perfect person that they forget relationships are built, not discovered. Even the happiest couples are still two flawed humans choosing each other repeatedly. A soulmate is usually just someone you kept choosing, especially on difficult days.

On love and Soulmates Our romantic ideology often sound cute due to Hollywood exposure but they have long term dangerous effect. Most people who believe in the concept of ‘soulmate’ seem to think someone somewhere who matches them perfectly was created exclusively for them to love and to cherish, and without them, the other person should feel incomplete and troubled until they find each other. It is delusional at best and madness at worst. Nary a time has it ever been true. The greatest gift the universe gave to us is choice. You choose whom to love, whom to date and whom to marry. You have a choice in this and in making this decision, you should know it comes with responsibilities to invest all of yourself and your resources to make it work. Once you begin to value your choices more, you invest more into the relationship you chose for yourself. The problem with “soulmate” as you paint it, is that, you keep looking for what is not lost. Many times, you see people in relationship and marriage still longing for a soulmate that will never come because they have failed to accept that the person they are dating or married to, is their soulmate rooted in choice. Life happens - the person you love may not love you, your relationship with your first love may not work out, your good relationship may nosedive and come to a halt, the person you thought you knew and love may bring out a dark side you’re unfamiliar with. It is unfortunate but such is life. You can always start afresh and make new choices. Nobody was uniquely made for you. We simply accept the love we think we deserve. As a corollary, I’ve seen people in healthy relationship claim their partner is good and perfect, but they cannot love them because they are not their soulmate. You see how ridiculous that sounds? You chose them but actively choosing not to love them because your eyes are outside. It is the relationship Chimamanda described in Americanah as being content in a house but always sitting by the window and looking out. You’ll not love your partner if your eyes are hunting for a perfection outside. Respect your own choice. There is no soulmate anywhere. The person you choose to marry is your ‘soulmate’ and love of your life. I hope life is kinder to you that you marry once and marry right.

@MOyindamol54953 @Wizarab10 Exactly, perfection is an illusion of the mind, and I keep saying those things you dream about after watching Hollywood are all fallacies.

If you can see goodness in front of you but instead you are looking for perfection, you are looking for your downfall and probably earlier death. There is nothing like perfection and it no where to be found. Behind the scenes of those movies you are watching they are not perfect, they rehearse that movie just to fake it for you . That's for you to know, that is not the person they are .

@Wizarab10 This is really beautifully written because many people are delusional and believe there's a soulmate out there, giving them the perfect excuse not to commit to the person they're currently dating.

On Marital Kindness Now the dust have settled on Uvo’s divorce, it is important we address the elephant in the room that has made everyone mount the wall of Jericho in their personal lives. Many people are afraid of investing in a partner out of fear of being hurt in return and made to look like a fool. But marriage unites and relationships come with responsibility. If you’re going to marry a person, you have a responsibility to love and to cherish. You have to make them believe because you believe, and give them wings to fly. That is why your vetting process must be thorough and you must take their behavior seriously. There are no guarantees , but it is always better to err on the side of due diligence than blind faith. Many of you have so much to lose and you’re partnered up with someone that has nothing to lose. Long term, investment in the union is mostly one sided. If you are in such kind of partnership, it would be assumed that it is what you like. The sacrifices and investment you make in your partner is meant to improve their life and the overall welfare of the family. Half the time, it works fine and the other half brings tragedy. Nobody can ask you not to love your partner because you chose them and you have a responsibility to love them. However, the words of Jesus must always find its way in your heart - “where your treasure is, that is where your heart will be.” A marriage unites two people as one, including their finances. While there are no guarantees, the odds of commitment are infinitely higher when both parties are fully devoted financially to the union. It already takes devotion to commit your finances, and because your finances are invested, your heart will always be there because you want to reap the rewards. It is easy to be indifferent to a relationship where your finances are not invested. Making money is not enough. You need to understand the bond between the heart and finance. You would think you’re good by carrying all the financial responsibility when you have a working partner, but it might just be the very thing that cracks the wall. Everything you have belongs to the family - quite alright. But everything your partner has also belongs to the family. If you’re the only one investing your finances in the home, it is only your heart that is guaranteed in that home. Investing financially into the home is not just about money and who makes more, it is about ensuring devotion. A person’s heart is always where their money is. Don’t you want to at least be certain your partner’s heart is present? What exactly are they using their money for if it doesn’t go into the family because wherever that money goes, that is where their heart is. It is not unkindness to not want to be the sole investor in a union of two. It is actually kindness that wants mutual kindness. You are both putting the relationship first before self. Even if it goes wrong later in future, at least you know you both brought your best foot forward and invested in it. There would be no malice as with when you solely invested and you’re lamenting about how much you invested into the other person while they did nothing. If it works fine, you can both drink to your deliberate act of love and commitment to each other. Again, where your treasure is, that is where your heart is. There is no exception. Don’t odogwu yourself into self harm. Nobody who loves you holds back their finances. NOBODY!

@Wizarab10 Beautiful write up

@AfiaDimple_ She chop my transport

what’s something a woman did that you’ll never forget ? i’m asking for a research 🧐

@SirDavidBent @dfwrerrboy We need each other cause we can t do life alone

As you're coming to me for help, always remember that I also need help. I cannot help you if I'm empty. You have to help me to help you, and you also have to help others for the chain reaction to continue. We need each other in this world, don't be blinded by selfishness.

@itzchristunique 😎😎

@reallayefa You no be better person be that na 🤣

Just because she cheated on you, Ugo you decided to ruin her life... You are very wicked man, you showed this level of wickedness just because she cheated on you. Something you could have considered and forgive.. How could you take back the same app you built for her??? This Ugo guy is very wicked. So, you refused to pay that woman’s tuition. You also took her baby from her. You collected your car from her too. All because she cheated on you. You then Divorced and sent her back to the streets. You also Deported her to Ikorodu where she will join my brother's ex who also cheated and got deported back oshodi to sell thrift.. Now making huge progress with the app you built for her. Just because of small cheating? You indeed showed that every soft man has a beast that doesn't tolerate betrayal.. You have proven that being a lover man and loving selflessly is not weakness.. You have proven to be a man who knows when he's being played on and knows thr right buttons to press.. Ugo, you are a wise man.. And my generation will hear your story and learn from it.....

@OgeDichiVic Tell them that the fear they are feeling right now is a natural part of life, and it's perfectly okay to be scared. With how prepared they are, they will certainly do their best.

lToday has been a very busy day for me because my students are writing WAEC, and honestly, they look scared They are prepared, YES, but I can still see the fear in their eyes. Please drop some words of encouragement for them. I’m going to read the messages to them after they finish their first paper ❤️

@ThaBoyYom @Akposxau Dem don warn una oh Make I go remove my 1650

Implore your loved ones to remove their money from Polaris Bank. That’s all!

@_belikebaddy @elfwsolitude I get meeting for convon

Why are you still awake by this time ?? 👀

@Owiggy_ We dey your back boss

This is a great achievement. No one in my family has ever achieved this. 2M impressions in a day. Alhamdulillah for the blessings 😫😫😫😫

@DailyNoud Ah ah ah so if my small dick vash am positive

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