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PWF | Dating Expert

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Teaching men what actually works in modern dating 240K+ YouTube | Results Over Feelings

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Ever fumbled a girl you actually liked… just because you didn’t know what to say? Yeah… most guys have This is exactly what FireTexts fixes You upload your convo. It tells you the best possible reply instantly Try it free: 👉 firetexts.com
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5 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make On Dates Most guys think dates fail because they “weren’t attractive enough.” In reality, they usually make one of these 5 mistakes that quietly kill attraction. After years of coaching + going on a lot of dates myself, here’s what I’ve noticed: 1. They set the wrong frame before the date A lot of guys play it super safe. “Want to grab coffee :)” No flirting. No tension. Zero masculine energy. Then they try to suddenly make it romantic in person. Doesn’t work. You don’t want the vibe to feel like two coworkers networking. The date should already feel flirtatious before you even meet. 2. They agree to terrible logistics Guys operating from scarcity will agree to almost anything: • 45 mins away • Restaurant date • She has to leave in an hour • Halfway across town Then wonder why nothing happened. You shouldn’t optimize for getting the date. You should optimize for having a date that can actually go somewhere. Quick story: I once had a hot Colombian girl ask if she could bring her friend last minute. I said no. She came alone. We hooked up that night. Had I agreed? Probably a waste of time. 3. They turn the date into an interview “So what do you do?” “Where are you from?” “How many siblings?” Boring. Attraction is not built through facts. It’s built through emotion + vibe. She’ll remember how she felt around you way more than your life story. Instead: Tease her. Joke around. Build tension. 4. They don’t build sexual tension This is where most guys mess up. You can have a girl who was initially very interested… …and still end up friendzoned. Why? Because the vibe stayed platonic. Sexual tension is built through things like: • Strong eye contact • Playful teasing • Light touch • Getting physically closer • Holding eye contact a second longer Without tension, dates feel friendly. Friendly usually doesn’t lead anywhere. 5. They’re way too passive This one is massive. Most guys are terrified of rejection. So they never go for the kiss. Never invite her back. Never escalate. Then tell themselves: “I'll go for it next time.” But, there usually isn’t a next date. Playing it safe kills more opportunities than rejection ever will. If you avoid even a few of these mistakes, your results will improve massively. I break down each one in detail (plus a few others) in my newest video below ↓
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@BillWiIdin This is horrible advice, the implication is that you should be using your wallet to get girls. Yea cause those are the types you want
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Men who make under $100k a year shouldn't even be thinking about dating. What are you offering a woman? a shared Netflix account and a dinner at Applebee’s? build some wealth first.
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Sex Tips From A Porn Star (Avoid These Mistakes)
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Never Get Stuck On What To Text A Girl Again I built FireTexts because most guys struggle with the same problem: They don’t know what to text in key moments. So they send something boring… Or worse… something that kills the conversation. Been cool seeing some of the App Store reviews lately 👀 If texting is the part you struggle with most, FireTexts is free to try below. 🍎 iPhone apps.apple.com/us/app/firetex… 🤖 Android play.google.com/store/apps/det…
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How To Make Any Boring Conversation Flirty
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How To Get Hinge Girls Over For Sex
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Why Some Guys Have Sex On The First Date (And Others Don't)
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Same exact guy. Two very different outcomes. One conversation dies. One leads to the date. The only difference? What he texted. This generates the perfect reply for you. Try it free 👇 apps.apple.com/us/app/firetex…
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Ultimate Body Language Guide (Live Demo)
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Nerdy Nerdy Asian Guy Went From Blackpiller To Pulling Girls At 22, he was overweight, awkward, and getting zero results with women. He blamed his genetics. He thought being Asian meant he was screwed. Then something changed: He stopped coping. Stopped doomscrolling blackpill content. Stopped telling himself “girls only want Chads.” And started taking responsibility. He fixed his physique. Improved his style. Got better photos. Learned game. Started approaching women. The first pic below is what he looked like at 22 Fast forward a few years (second pic): Completely different guy. More muscle. Better style. Better confidence. And yes… He started getting girls. The biggest lesson: Most guys MASSIVELY underestimate how much they can improve in 2–5 years. Especially average-looking guys. They assume: ❌ Bad genetics ❌ Wrong race ❌ Too short ❌ Too late Reality? Most men never come close to maxing out their potential. This guy did. And his entire life changed. If you’re struggling right now, don’t judge your future based on where you are today. A few years of focused effort can make you almost unrecognizable.
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Hot Girl Asks Guys When They Last Had Sex
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The Best Hinge/Bumble Prompts I tested a bunch of different prompts and found these to do the best possible job of getting a girl interested enough to open you They also set a flirty/sexual frame without risking a ban 1) Question: The hallmark of a good relationship is: Answer: Communication & Great Sex Why it works: this is a truism, every girl is gonna look at that and think so true, ive had a lot of girls open me with "damn, you're so right" 2) Question: All I Ask Is,, Answer: You Dont Steal My Hoodies Why it works: It is a big inside joke amongst girls that after they hook up with a guy, they take their hoodie, by referencing that you show that "you get it". Also good convo starter 3) Question: A shower thought I recently had Answer: You don’t even want to know 😈 Why it works: Curiosity. A lot of girls will message you saying "omg tell me"
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@Winmwiotf Did you just choose to ignore the part about me being with my current gf for 6 years..
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Why does one girl make one guy wait 3–4 dates… but sleep with another guy the very first night? Most guys assume it’s just looks, money, or status. But after coaching thousands of men, I started noticing the same patterns over and over. The guys who consistently get laid on the first date usually do a few key things differently. And once you understand this, dating suddenly starts making a lot more sense. INTRO I actually had to learn this lesson the hard way myself. Back when I was first getting into game, I met a girl who was an absolute dime to me. We went on 3 dates. All I got were a few makeouts. I figured: “She’s probably just a prude.” Fast forward 5 years later. By this point my game was way better. I got a second chance with her, and this time I slept with her in under an hour. Same girl. Completely different outcome. That experience taught me something important: The difference between the guys who get laid on the first date and the ones who don’t usually isn’t “chemistry.” It comes down to a handful of very specific things. Here are 3 big ones: 1. THE FRAME THE DATE IS SET UNDER The guys who sleep with women on the first date usually create a flirty, sexual frame from the beginning. Not in an overly explicit way. They’re not saying: “We’re definitely hooking up tonight 😈” That’s weird. Instead, they imply it. Through: • Playful teasing • Sexual innuendos • Certain compliments • A vibe that says: this is man-to-woman Meanwhile, most guys are too afraid of rejection to create this frame. So they ask the girl out in a super safe, romantic, or almost platonic way. The underlying vibe becomes: “I just want to take you out.” Then later, when they try to escalate physically, it feels like a bait & switch. 2. WHETHER SEX FEELS LIKE A HUGE DEAL This one used to screw me over constantly. The guys who consistently get laid on the first date all tend to have one thing in common: They don’t view sex as some giant event. To them, it’s normal. Natural. Just the next logical step after a fun night together. Meanwhile, most guys treat sex like this massive prize. They get: • Nervous • Overly eager • Weirdly serious That energy rubs off on the girl. And ironically, the more you make sex feel like a huge deal… The less likely it is to happen. I learned this the hard way in college. A girl I made out with at a party texted me at 3am asking to come over and “just cuddle.” She gets to my place. Walks straight to my bed. And I basically did… nothing 😭 I genuinely believed she literally just wanted to cuddle. Yeah… I was a slow learner. 3. LOVER VS PROVIDER When a girl meets you, she usually puts you into one of two boxes very quickly: Lover or Provider The guys who consistently get laid on the first date are almost always in the Lover box. Lover is the guy who has a lot of sex and is probably really good in bed. With him, she feels raw sexual attraction and excitement so much so that her logical brain often turns off. With the Provider, she likes him on a logical level, he seems safe and stable, but there’s no strong sexual pull. So she slows things down, tests him, and even withholds sex to see if he will stick around. The problem? A lot of guys accidentally talk themselves into the Provider box. The biggest lesson: The same girl can treat you VERY differently depending on the version of you she meets. I break down the rest + how to actually become the “Lover” in the full video below.
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