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@remiray_
A Midwife who loves to talk x
London, England Katılım Ocak 2019
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can't bring shaina gordon to twitter cause ppl don't have the context that she also jst generally talks like this
Mlungisi Ntshangase@Mlu__N2
I actually rate this level of transparency.
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The fact that someone has this level is stupidity is atrocious. There’s many reasons why women go through c-sections.
Peaceful Douglas.@rliondouglas
@GiftAbr67478127 A reminder of assisted delivery. A reminder that you were unable to give birth like a normal human.
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I look at my scar from the screen of my phone and all I see and feel is pride. A scar so small yet mighty. It shows the strength that abounds in me, even in my subconscious. It is a permanent reminder of the power I possess. In face of fear or hopelessness, all I need to do is look down my belly to remind me of who I am!
Shout-out to all mothers 🥹🥹🥹


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@drbard4 @Bio_comunidad In the UK the midwives (if it’s a c-section, then doctors) cut the clamps. The paediatricians don’t do cord clamping.
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@Bio_comunidad Creo que es un pediatra, la partera no tiene accesos a esos clips, si acaso a una cinta umbilical o buena a hilos comunes que los esterilizan en alcohol.
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@EAntibulo @Bio_comunidad lol do your research before you talk.. in many countries like Australia, UK and Canada, midwives are fully licensed healthcare practitioners with their own education programs
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I almost died giving birth to our daughter.
Forty-two hours of labor. Emergency C-section. I remember the cold of the operating room and the way the doctors wouldn’t meet my eyes. They said if we had waited another hour, one of us wouldn’t have made it.
I woke up stitched, shaking, numb from the chest down.
He didn’t hold my hand. He didn’t cry. He just asked the doctor if the scar would be “permanent.”
When we got home, I could barely walk. I couldn’t laugh without pain shooting through my stomach. I needed help sitting up. He complained that the house was messy. Said maternity leave wasn’t a vacation.
Two weeks postpartum, he stood over me while I was trying to latch the baby and said, “You know women are supposed to give birth naturally. My mom did.”
I thought he was joking.
He wasn’t.
One night I overheard him on the phone with his brother saying, “She didn’t even give birth properly. They just cut her open.”
Cut her open.
Like I wasn’t split in half to bring his child into this world.
When I finally looked at my scar in the mirror, still swollen and purple, I didn’t see weakness. I saw survival. But every time he looked at me, I saw disappointment.
Then it got worse.
He stopped touching me. Started going to the gym every night. Said he “needed a woman who takes care of herself.” I was still bleeding. Still leaking milk. Still waking up every two hours.
One evening he tossed a waist trainer onto the bed and said, “You should start fixing it before it’s too late.”
I asked him what “it” was.
He pointed at my stomach.
I slept in the nursery that night. Not because the baby cried. Because I did.
Now he tells people I’ve “changed” since having the baby. That I’m emotional. That I don’t try anymore.
I almost died. I gave him a daughter. I carry a scar that aches when it rains.
And somehow I’m the one who failed.
I don’t know who I married. I don’t know how to leave. But I know this can’t be what love looks like.
Kia 🧸ྀི@xevekiah
what’s a clear example of medical misogyny you’ve witnessed or experienced?
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Let's frame it another way.
People have become so poor they need to steal food.
Ben Graham@BenGrahamUK
Britain has become so lawless that we now have to put security tags on £7.25 steaks. What has happened to this country?
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@cuttgod300 @CenturySmokin And to women who lost their lives and didn’t birth in hospitals? Explain women who develop disabilities & disorders from pregnancies/childbirth?? Not all bodies can withstand the pressure of pregnancy/birth.
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@remiray_ @CenturySmokin Most women who lose their life during childbirth is due to the malpractice of the hospital. The female body is designed for carrying and birthing children.
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I really want people to stop making it seem like being a present father is an award winning thing.
It’s literally what they’re suppose to do.
Redd@ReddCinema
I beg you, Marry a Kind person.
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She got an autoimmune disease from 2 complicated pregnancies & gained weight. Marriage vows literally say "in sickness & health, for richer or poor". Y'all are shallow trash & don't take marriage seriously
💗@dumbtwttt
Fellas, is this a reason to divorce your wife if she gained this much weight?
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this applies to everything online. advice, haters, compliments
alia@3liaFM
lowkey If they don't know you personally, don't take it personally
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@cuttgod300 @CenturySmokin Giving birth is actually life threatening & life changing to a woman’s body. Do you know how many women lose their life to child birth? Lose their eye sight, develop disabilities, A woman SURVIVING child birth isn’t the same as a man (OR a woman) being a present parent.
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@CenturySmokin And we celebrate mothers for giving birth when it’s what the female body is supposed to do. Just because it’s something that’s supposed to happen doesn’t mean you can’t take joy or pride in it.
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